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I have gone from younggrandma to just yg. Now,
I am using my real name.
I don't think anyone who knows me will have trouble figuring out who that is!


I have been gone a while dealing with things in my own life. I am back now to help once again. Do not expect answers from me that just tell you what you want to hear. Life is to short for nonsense. :)
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okay well my parents got divorced when i was younger and well i lost in touch with my dads side of the family and i havent seen them since i was little well recently my sister lives with my dad and i live with my mom so my sister gave me there phone number and email address and well its kind of weird cause there like my cousins and well to me there like strangers and i dont know what to do (link)
If you are wanting to contact them then by all means do!

Start out with emailing them. Just tell them who you are, give them your address, and briefly tell them how you are. Then, if they respond the next time will be much easier. Pretty soon you will be friends and wanting to call each other.

Start off slow and it will be fine. :)


Hi
I am 23 yrs old and recently started taking Tri-cyclen brand B. C. pills. I know that you are supposed to take them at the same time each day but no one is perfect. My pills are 28 pack and Sunday start.There was one day when I forgot til 2 hours later and another day for a half hour. I read that combination pills are okay to take off your schedule if you forget, as long as it's within 8 hours or something than it's not considered missed. So I should be fine if Tri-cyclen are combination pills. I assume they are from the TRI part but this is the first time I've taken them ever and rather than making another appt just to ask my MD that one question, is there any experienced birth control takers that can answer my question? I know that you should wait 7 days til you have sex unprotected after you take them so we did that. My bf and I only rely on the pill now since we've been together 6 months and he doesn't want to use condoms anymore. We've both been tested for STDS also so we're okay with that. so I want to make sure that I know what I'm doing.
Can someone please help me?

Thanks, I'd really appreciate it.
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You will be okay. The biggest reason for them telling you to take at same time each day is so you don't forget to take it. It becomes routine.
Nobody can be right on time every day! The main thing is just remember to take it. If you're a couple of hours late...no big deal. :)


i was cleaning my sons ears with some q tips and noticed some small amounts of blood on it i feel so bad and scared should i be scared blz help concerned mom (link)
Depends on where in his ear you were cleaning. You should never put a q tip down inside an ear. If that is what happened then a trip to the doctors office or at least a call is what you need to do.

If you were cleaning around the outside part of his ear, it could be he had a sore there that you knocked the top off of or something.

Unless he is screaming blue murder it is probably nothing real serious. Still, to be on safe side call his pediatrician. :)


Does anybody know any way I could motivate my guy to be more romantic??? And what are some cute thaings that I could do for him in return, or just because.? Thanx so much! (link)
I have a good website that has some good tips for romance. There is a lot of good things here, hope you find some of it useful. :)

http://www.lovingyou.com/


Is there any way for a girl (19) to elongate or intensify her orgasms during oral sex??? Thanks! (link)
I think an experienced (or at least willing to practice) partner might back off a bit at just the right moment. That would probably make it last a little longer anyway! Check this website and see if it contains anything useful. Hard subject to find anything useful on this subject that isn't porn. :)


http://magazines.ivillage.com/redbook/experts/sex


what are some harmful, long-term effects that alcohol can have on an adolecent who drinks regularly?
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Same as they are for adults. Alcoholism, liver damage etc. Here is a website that will give you a lot of information. :)

http://www.thecoolspot.gov/


my boyfirned wants me to give him a bow job and a hand job i said i would but i dont know how can you please help me?
xoxo
p.s. i'll rate high (link)
Wish I could. We can't for legal reasons (13 yo's using site). All questions like these will get deleted. Sorry :(


14/f Okay just wondering can you get an orgasm from intensly grinding (dancing) with someone? Like if the guy was (outside your clothes) rubbing his hand on your upper thigh/hip and it was really intense. Also what exactly is an orgasm? Thanks. I'll rate! (link)
or·gasm (ôr'găz'əm)
n.
The peak of sexual excitement, characterized by strong feelings of pleasure and by a series of involuntary contractions of the muscles of the genitals, usually accompanied by the ejaculation of semen by the male. Also called climax.

I suppose it is possible if his hand is somewhere besides thigh/hip. :)


If a boy friend wants to know about your past sexuall eperiances would you tell him the truth, if he is not your first, or just say you do not wish to discuss the subject.I only had 2 guys in the past but fell he will not belive me. i am 17 years old and did not have sex with my new boy frind yet. (link)
In these days when you really need to know a persons history because of AIDS, I think you need to be honest.

You need to know his as well. :)


hi im 13 and i havent started my period i am a bigger gurl and a lot of the smaller gurl have and im just waiting...im afraid that theres sumthin wrong with me....wat do i do ? (link)
How big you are really has nothing to do with it. You should be starting soon. There is nothing wrong at all. I found you a website that will tell you all about things. Check it out and you will see that you are normal. :)

http://www.coolnurse.com/menstrual.htm


wat does PMS stand for and wat does it mean??? all my guy friends ask me that wen i get mad and stuff??? im confused id it a insult? (link)
PMS means premenstrual syndrome

Some girls/women have a tendency to get snippy, growly and mean right before they start their period.

They are probably joking around more than insulting you. They are saying basically that you are being a little cranky. :)


I heard that masturbating makes you feel more comfortable with yourself and gives you more confidence. Is this true? I have tried it before, but I couldnt find my hole even though I wear tampons, so it wasnt pleasureable at all. (link)
http://www.coolnurse.com/masturbation.htm


what is going on with this thing? iv been waiting for a really long time, and they still havent posted my question!

-peeved (link)
I did some checking and your questions did make it onto the site.

They were given a rating of 1 by 5 level 1 moderators...which deletes the question.

More than likely the reason was that the questions had already been asked a lot recently.
You may want to check other questions under whatever category your questions fell under and check for answers to similar questions.

If a lot of moderators are answering questions it is possible it was deleted without having been on long at all. :)


Does Ne body have sites that I can go to to kind out about sex and prepare for my moms talk?
Ill rate 5's
Thanks so much and Im not trying to be nasty
i need help on this one (link)
Try this site and see if it doesn't help you out some. Hopefully there will be something of value to be found.

Don't be afraid to ask your mom questions she is just as nervous as you are. Good luck. :)

Its all in how you ask ;)

http://www.coolnurse.com/

This is a big site and has a LOT of info.


im getting headachs alot and i recently got an ipod so i have been listening to that alot.. could it be that? also i heard if you dont blowdry your hair, you end up getting headachs.. i wash my hair everynight and i dont usually blow dry it ..what could cause these headachs? (link)
Hundreds of things cause headaches. An ipod could be the problem if the headaches started about the time you got it. Could be to loud or just causing tension in your neck.

Playing video games or the computer can also cause headaches.

I've never heard of blow dryers helping you not to get a headache. I know you can blow them in your ear if you have an earache...maybe that's what they were thinking of. :)


why arent my questions going through?
its been like 3 hours
im really mad
please speed it up yall or im not going to get a paid account or pay anymore money towards yall and il give bad publicity
:( HURRY IT UP! (link)
We don't answer explicit sex questions on this site.

Since those are the types of questions you seem to like asking...they won't be shown here. We delete them.

Some things are better learned on your own. Besides, if you can't figure it out...maybe you are to young.



My friend told me her doctor said it is possible to get your period while your pregnant once or twice. I would guess she means in the earlier stages of pregnancy, but im wondering if thats true. Also, lets say you had unprotected sex and then 3 days later got your period which lasted for about 2 and a half days, is it possible that you are pregnant or is it certain you are not? (link)
There are cases of women having their period throughout the entire pregnancy. So it is possible.

Nothing in this old world is certain, but chances are excellent you wouldn't be pregnant. :)


Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years and sometimes when i am alone with him in his room i get sexual moodswings, like i want to do more with him, like today i went up there and we was all over each other, we was laying in his bed kissing and all of a sudden i looked and i was ontop of him literally making out with him, i have started my period and i dont want to push myself into doing everything but the question is,how do i stop myself from having those moodswings and were i have started my period if me n him actually did anything what would be the chances of getting pregnant? Please Help me, No sarcastic answers or i wont even rate u but if good answers i rate 5's. (link)
You can get pregnant anytime. Isn't much you can do about the moodswings. :)


if a boy asks you if you have started your period and you answer yeh and the boys says real loud YES what does that mean? (link)
What kind of boy asks a question like that?

Next time tell him its none of his business.

Sheesh. :)


Why can almost no-one on Advicenators spell correctly? It isn't really that hard, and don't use the excuse that people are young, because I'm not at all old and I can spell without too many mistakes, or none at all. (link)
You know I wonder the same.

A good Google toolbar has a spell checker right on it and its free.

Go figure. :)




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