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If a boy friend wants to know about your past sexuall eperiances would you tell him the truth, if he is not your first, or just say you do not wish to discuss the subject.I only had 2 guys in the past but fell he will not belive me. i am 17 years old and did not have sex with my new boy frind yet.
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He definately has the right to know!
♥jenna
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might as well be honest, it's got to be better than him finding out on his own and then really not trusting you
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well the best thing to do is to be honest if you do tell him but if you decide not to tell him than you dont have to i am sure he likes you for who you are now not what you have done
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i feel that is a very private question for him to ask you, i dont think you are obligated in ant way to share past sexual experences with him. however if you do decide to tell him i would definatly be honest.
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Its best to be honest with him and say yeah, I have had past experiences. If he asks for details and you don't feel comfortable, then you don't have to go into them. But, it is best for you and him, health wise and trust wise, to be open about it and truthful.
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I really think you should have learned to spell before you started to have sex.
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It really is not any of his business and if it makes you uncomfortable talking about it tell him "I prefer to keep the past in the past." He is feeling inadequate to you hence his wondering if he will let you down if other guys have been with you. It is his issue and if you do not want to discuss it tell him the above. If he persists "Whether I had sex with anyone should not be your concern. I am with you now aren't I."
As far as sex with him goes hold off. See where his maturity level is with the subject let alone actually going through with it. He may not be the right sexual partner.
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tell him the truth its no biggie.
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I think that you should be honest and tell him the truth, and if he doesnt believe you then, thats his problem, just know that you told the truth.
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Okay.. here's what I'd do. If you're serious about the guy and he asks you, you should tell him the truth about what he asks about. If he's just some guy who wants to mess around, you don't have to tell him anything you don't want to. If he just wants to know if you're a virgin or not... a simple yes or no answer should suffice. You shouldn't feel pressured into discussing anything you don't want to.
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In these days when you really need to know a persons history because of AIDS, I think you need to be honest.
You need to know his as well. :)
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