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I have a scrapbook that I'm making for my Junior/Senior year..I'm really into decorating..but I was just wondering if anyone has any cute ideas for me to add to it..or maybe some stores where I could go to find some cute things..besides Walmart..and Joanne fabrics..are there any other places? thanks!

Micheals... ( i think i mispelled that )... i usually decorate stuff with glitter nailpolish... you could try that...

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Okay well I like the whole idea with the Red, and cheetah design for my room..Someone gave me that advice..does anyone else have any advice for decorating a room with red, and cheetah things in it..I like the whole sexy look..so some good advice would def help alot..thanks =)

You could buy a phone or a jewelry box shaped like lips, red net curtains, red laterns, red frames to put all ur pics in, cheQ out my picture trail... it has a couple of pics of my room

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ME and my boyfirend are planning to get married next year and he's in Alabama and i'm a way in job corp (like school) well he was away for awhile and this other guy came i didn't want a relationship i just wanted to ....you know! well we did and i didn't want any strings attack now he's stocking me and i fell bad should i tell my boyfriend or keep it to myself i still love him more than anything And i know it was wrong. And as for the other guy he's fallin in love with me and i can't stand him.

One way or another... he will find out... i think it's best if he hears it from you... rather than sum1 else... you need to decide what's best for u and yallz relationship... about the guy stalkin you... u could always get a restraining order...

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I need a room makeover..right now my room is aqua blue, and I have a bedspread from target which has Purple, Aqua Blue, Lime green, and yellow all combined..I want a new idea..Im thinking about red, or orange..i'd prefer 2 colors...any good ideas? and tips on decorating? thanks!

yeah that soundz cute... red and orange... i saw a red and orange comforter at IKea... so if u go wit red and orange... it'll go great in ur room... abother thing u can try is red and black... or blue and black... you should repaint ur room... you can find all kinds of cute stuff at Ikea...

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Okay, right now I am having a problem with my man, and I have these two best friends. They have always been right about my guyz in the past…but now, one is getting the “I warned you” vibe while the other is getting the “He loves you, Go for him!” vibe. They both know as much as I know…and they both know him as well as the other knows him…yet one is getting a good vibe and one is getting a bad vibe. I don’t know which one to listen to, cuz I trust both of them with my life…yet…they both know me as good as the other…so what am I supposed to do? I am so lost and confused. HELP ME PLZ!

Don't listen to any of them... listen to ur heart... only YOU can decide if he's rite for you or not... depending on the way he treats u... no one can EVER tell u what best for you... always judge people on ur own...

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My lips are pretty average size but I want to get them looking more pouty... any advice? Thanks!

Use lip liner... outline ur lips around ur lips... a lil outside ur natural lip lines... use lip gloss

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do u sharpen eye liner w/ a regular prencil sharpener?
i didnt kno wanted to kno...

You can... i think they do have eye liner sharpeners... but i doubt that it would make much of a different... other than u gettin ur sharpener dirty...

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What do you think is the scariest movie you have ever watched... I need some ideas for some really scary movies

Exorcist...The Ring... Stir of Echos...

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i have this really long closet...and im just wondering if there is any ways i can re-organize...

You could do a lot to reorganize it... go to wal*mart or Ikea... and buy little plastic boxes... u can put those in ur closet... either on the top shelf or on the floor... & u put shoes or underwear... or anything else that u keep in ur closet... & you can just hang the rest of ur clothes

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Okay, i'm freshman and i like this guy who's a junior. he's really nice and seems flawless except for one thing. He's a huge pot-head. You can tell when he's high and he's always making an *ss of himself when he is. Should i forget him or give him a chance? I rate...

You should forget him... if you really like him... be friends with him first... and try to help him... if he quits... than u can date him... but if he doesnt... it's best not to get involved wit him...

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My gym shoes.. both pairs.. smell really bad.. i wear socks all the time.. and i have tried putting dr. scholls powder in them.. and odor eaters shoe spray.. but they just make them smell worse.. does anyone know a way to TOTALLY get rid of the horrible smell in my shoes?

Thanks!

p.s. I tried 3 different perfumes too.. still didnt help!!

wash em... you should wash em about every week...

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18/f here-does anyone know a really good deoderant to use? Not for smell, but to greatly reduce sweating? I have to change my shirts all day because they keep getting wet, it's gross and embarassing. And if no one has found one off the shelf, is a prescription one expensive, do you have to see a doctor (no insurance) or just ask a pharmacist? Deoderants I've tried are secret platinum soft solid, and adidas smart technology. And botox would be too expensive (it's supposed to stop excessive sweating). thanks guys.

it soundz like u already know what i've said below... but they only thing u really can do is that... apply for medical insurance... there is insurance for low income families... talk to ur counselor about it...

if ur a girl... try secret platinum... if that doesnt work...you may have hyper hydrosis which is caused by genetics... when you have this condition ur palms, da soles of ur feet and ur under arms are constantly dripping wet... This Happens when ur sweat controlling nerves work more than they are supposed... And when u sweat like this theres nothing deodarant or antiperspirants can do... What you can do is go to the Dermatologist and they can inject botox in in ur underarms... that'll fix ur problem... however this only lasts for a year... so its needs to be done every year... Another choice u have is a Sympathectomy... This is a surgical procedure where the surgeons will cut the nerves in ur under arms so they dont send the messege to your sweat glands to work more than they should... this procedure has sum short term side effects which are costly so talk to a doctor and find out whats best for you... what u can do in the meantime is use underarm pads which can be sewn into ur clothes... u can find them at fabric stores...





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UGH!! everyday before cheerleadin i always put on loads of deorderant on!! and i put perfume on...but my stunt group is always complaining about someone having B.O.! and i think they are all saying its me!! but i dan never smell anything when they say it smells...and i dont get how it could be me cuz i wear sooo much deoderant and sweet pea perfume. UGH!! its getting soo aggravating....does anyone know of any really good deorderant!!??? and fast!!??

Try Secret Platinum... if that doesnt work... talk to ur doctor... i'm pretty sure they have prescription deoderant

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Is it true that if u get your hair thinner at a salon then the next time it gets even thicker? or what happens..n how much does it cost. ty

No... ur hair isn't going to get thicker... they shouldnt charge u extra to thin ur hair... i usually go to hair cuttery... & i get my hair thinned about twice a year... another thing that helps thin hair and smooth it down... is using a flat iron / str8 iron... try hot tools... you can get it from Cosmetic center or trade secret...

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ok theres this kid at ma skool who always calls me fat n im not im like 105 lbsn front of his friends cuz he likes me he told my friend thats his way of showing he likes me but wats a realli good comeback to say to him n front of every1 to embarrass him cuz its gettin on my nerves...hes like 5*7 realli skinny n hes black...thanx! ill rate you a 5 for answering!

... Fat can be fixed... ugli can not be fixed... ugli is there to stay... that's kinda harsh tho...

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i took a girl on a first date with a girl and she is a sophmore and i am a freshman. she made me pick the movie and i accidently picked a blood and guts movie. she said she liked it and i asked her the next day for a second date and she said yes. do you think this is a second date out of pitty?

No... i really doubt it... most people don't put themselves in that sorta position... it's really hard to date sum1 that your not into... she probably does like you...

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this girl iwas going out with... broke up with me the other day. theres rumors going arounf school that i cheated on her, but i didnt. and her cousin told her, then a bunch of her friends told her, and its not true.... today at school... i tryed talking to her... and she just started crying.... i love her and she dosnt beleave me that i didnt cheat on her.... is there any thing i can do to get her to beleave me? i have no idea what to do.... plz help me!!!

You should just give her sum time... then try to talk to her... she'll be less emotional... tell her that if she hears rumors... she should always confront you about them... you guys need to have communication to maintain a healthy relationship...

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ok my friend thinks she may be pregnant because her stomach is really warm, and the smell of food makes her sick and shes ALWAYS hungry. She has had her period but shes still scared and she also told me she is taking a depression medication called lortex (i think) and she doesnt know if its because of that or if shes prgnant and shes too scared to ask her parents! Please help asap! Thanks!

If she's still gettin her period... most likely... she's not pregnant... if she's still concerned... she should take a home pregnancy test... most likely those side effects are occuring in response to lortex...

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Well this girl who I'm good friends with has invited me to watch some DVDs have have pizza at her house tomorrow night. There will be some other people there who I know but I don't have much in common with them and we aren't great friends. I want to go but I don't want to be left out of the conversation. What should I do?

Don't miss out on anything because ur not sure if your going to fit in with the people there... or because ur X will be there... you should definitly go... if your X is there... & he says sumthing ur offended by... act like u didn't hear it... have confidence in yourself... & im sure you'll have a great time... i've been hesitant in the past about going to places... where people i didn't know were present... but i always end up having a good time & makin new friends... :)

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if i hit a vien in my tongue wut can happen?

you if u hit a certain vein... you could either bleed to death... or become paralyzed...

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