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should i go?
Well this girl who I'm good friends with has invited me to watch some DVDs have have pizza at her house tomorrow night. There will be some other people there who I know but I don't have much in common with them and we aren't great friends. I want to go but I don't want to be left out of the conversation. What should I do?
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That's pathetic. There are people starving in Africa and you're worried about not enjoying a party. Get a grip!
If you don't have fun then you don't have fun. It's not important.
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I wouldn't go. It sounds like it wouldn't be lots of fun for you anyway! I think you need to find someone else to hang out with that night, so everyone knows that it doesn't bother you that you're not there. Especially if being there is going to make you uncomfortable. Hope I helped. :) -Manda
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Well- you should deffinitly go. If you're good friends with the girl whos house it is, and these are some of her friends, they must be cool people. You'll be able to meet new people, maybe there will even be a cute guy there who you'll click with : p...as for your ex boyfriend, i completely understand the situation- my ex boyfriend and i didn't talk for 3 months and were really uncomfterble around each other...that is until we stopped avoiding each other, and started hanging out again. its bad the first couple of times, but once you both stop being mad at each other and start remember why u liked each other in the first place, everything will be good again. i hope this helps, and if you decide to go..have fun! : )
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go to the party!! the only way to be friends with people is to be a friend... you can't expect them to just walk up out of the blue and say "i wanna be friends"... you have to go to that party and show them who you really are!!! WOO!
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probly shudnt go if u feel uncomfortable around this guy. if it wasnt for him i would say u should!! <3.RaCh
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just go you'll have fun! if i dont get along with other ppl all i do is be really hyper and if ppl give you weird looks be like well im actually havin fun so psh lol or just put some music on and start dancin lol or just be yourself and if they dont like you then maybe you should just not hang out with them when shes around your friend just like hang out with your friend when there not around and bout your bf just start flirting with other guys and forget about him lol well sorry if its gay i tried lol good luck!!
LEAH!!
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hey just be yourself! and be nice and talk to the people and they will proababbly like you if you hang out with them, make jokes, and dont act shy. hope it goes well!
a*m*I
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The most polite thing to do is to at least make an appearance. If you get bored and feel left out, tell your good friend that you need to go and take off. Call someone to have you picked up if possible. How are you getting there in the first place?
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try it out. don't let your ex boyfriend stop you from going. try talking to other people about anything, school.. boys.. have fun!! and make sure you have a backup plan if something doesnt work out. g.l
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Don't miss out on anything because ur not sure if your going to fit in with the people there... or because ur X will be there... you should definitly go... if your X is there... & he says sumthing ur offended by... act like u didn't hear it... have confidence in yourself... & im sure you'll have a great time... i've been hesitant in the past about going to places... where people i didn't know were present... but i always end up having a good time & makin new friends... :)
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hey! i think that you should go. maybe you'll end up having alot of fun with theses girls, you never know if you could all have things in common. as for your x-bf i think you should still go, if this girl whos inviting you knows that you both dont get along then maybe she could intervene if sumthin were 2 happen between him and you, plus if he says something, screw it, who cares what he says n e way? im sure you'll be able to have a great time no matter whos there, just be yourself and try not 2 let little things mess it all up:-D
smile:-D
~jenN
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Why don't you try it? It sounds like a great chance to meet some new peole. Just tell the girl that had invited you that you are a little worried and ask her to introduce you. Make some small talk and maybe you'll be surprised. You'll be able to leave if things don't go too well, right? And about your ex boyfriend, no one said that you have to talk to him all night. Just say hi and be polite, but don't pay too much attention to him, concentrate on talking to some new people. Try to have fun because that's what it's all about.
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I was going to say you should go but if your ex is going to be there then it's just not worth it. You'd be inflicting pain and awkwardness upon yourself. Ask your friend if she wants to hang out some other time, just the two of you.
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Go, eat pizza, ignore the people you don't like, if it gets ugly, leave. Don't let other people control your life. If you'd like to go and have pizza with your friend, then do it. Stop worrying about the other people.
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