this girl iwas going out with... broke up with me the other day. theres rumors going arounf school that i cheated on her, but i didnt. and her cousin told her, then a bunch of her friends told her, and its not true.... today at school... i tryed talking to her... and she just started crying.... i love her and she dosnt beleave me that i didnt cheat on her.... is there any thing i can do to get her to beleave me? i have no idea what to do.... plz help me!!!
Reesespieces022 answered Monday October 25 2004, 9:29 pm: Have a talk with her best friend (cousin) and explain to her how everything was a rumour. Once you have her friends believing you, it'll be easier to convince her that it was all a lie. Then show up at her house with her favorite flowers. Tell her that she should know that you wouldn't do something that like, and that you would never ever hurt her. Make her feel loved, and make her remember all the trust she has in you. good luck [ Reesespieces022's advice column | Ask Reesespieces022 A Question ]
LiLlEaH answered Monday October 25 2004, 5:17 pm: that sucks but you could just ask her be like do you really think i would cheat on someone that i really like? or somethin lol or just try to talk to her online or on the phone but not in person cuz she might start crying again infront of everyone. But if shes not goin to belive you then i dont think you should keep on tellin her taht you didnt cuz shes most likely not gonna belive you so if she doenst then just find another girl or just do somethin fun with your friends to get your mind of her. sorry so retarted lol im sorry bout your gf good luck
leah!! [ LiLlEaH's advice column | Ask LiLlEaH A Question ]
babiigurl076 answered Monday October 25 2004, 5:06 pm: All you can really do is bring her aside where there's no one else around and talk to her straight up. Tell her what's on your mind and that in all honesty, you didn't cheat on her. That's a tough one :[ Sorry about all that, goodluck hun! I hope you get her back! [ babiigurl076's advice column | Ask babiigurl076 A Question ]
SoNuLiCiOuSsS answered Monday October 25 2004, 3:55 pm: You should just give her sum time... then try to talk to her... she'll be less emotional... tell her that if she hears rumors... she should always confront you about them... you guys need to have communication to maintain a healthy relationship... [ SoNuLiCiOuSsS's advice column | Ask SoNuLiCiOuSsS A Question ]
ElementaryHustler answered Monday October 25 2004, 3:42 pm: All you can do is really keep begging for her back. Not like please go out with me or anything. Like buy her a card and some flowers or something. Write her letters everyday. Keep doing sweet things. She can't resist that. Just keep trying. Prove to her you didn't cheat and would never.
kristen22 answered Monday October 25 2004, 1:49 pm: Since she won't listen to you, Write her a letter....tell her how much you love her and that the rumors aren't true, that you would never hurt her like that...make the letter so sweet, that she couldn't possible say no to you! End the letter with something like, "If you give me another chance, I'll spend the rest of my life making you glad you did" -No girl can resist that line, I know I couldn't!! Good Luck. [ kristen22's advice column | Ask kristen22 A Question ]
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