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imade abig mistake!!!!!!!!!!
ME and my boyfirend are planning to get married next year and he's in Alabama and i'm a way in job corp (like school) well he was away for awhile and this other guy came i didn't want a relationship i just wanted to ....you know! well we did and i didn't want any strings attack now he's stocking me and i fell bad should i tell my boyfriend or keep it to myself i still love him more than anything And i know it was wrong. And as for the other guy he's fallin in love with me and i can't stand him.
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Well im sure you feel really guilty but the best thing to do is tell your boyfriend. YOu made a mistake but you need to tell your boyfriend the truth because yall are soon to be married. You would feel really guilty if you kept it from him when your about to get married so id say tell him!
GOoD luck!
Trust me its alot better telling your man the truth than lying to him.
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One way or another... he will find out... i think it's best if he hears it from you... rather than sum1 else... you need to decide what's best for u and yallz relationship... about the guy stalkin you... u could always get a restraining order...
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first off your spelling is bad (so is mine don't worry) Anyways tell your new guy that you were just in it for the sex and that he needs to stop following you. Then the hard part...tell your man the truth. Tell him everything(except for how good it was, it hurts there pride). If it was ment to be than he'll understand if not arn't you glad you didn't get married.
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tell your boyfriend!just think about it if your boyfriend did something like that to you and he didnt tell you how would you feel? exactly tell him you'll feel 100% better. And as for your stalker id tell him to back off because you have a boyfriend that it was just a one night thing between you two.
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Tell you boyfriend... If your getting married then you should be honest about everything. And if he loves you then he will forgive you for what you did, in time. Let him know that this other guy is stalking you as you say. And if he is literally stalking you then you should turn to the police. If he is just trying to get with you and you are considering that stalking then just plain out tell him you have a fiance and you dont want him or anything to do with him. Lay it out on the line for him so he gets the point. When trying to tell your boyfriend add in there that what you said in this question abut you loving him and knowing it was a mistake. If he loves you then he will put it aside. But you have to gain all of his trust back. Cheating on him lost the trust he had in you. It will take a while to get that back. Talk to him about the wedding and see if he wants to go through with it... And if he does then let him know you understand if he doesnt waant to go through with it as soon as you would of liked to and thought. If you have set a date for the wedding and have announced it, then maybe discuss postponing it until you two are completly ok with each other and all of your mistakes. If you have planned a date and havent announced it then make plans for a later date. But trust and honesty and two main parts of marriage.
Good luck hope this helps.
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