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i've got that eyeshadow from hot topic. i put it on but my skin color shows up in the middle and applying more makes it very hard to see. (bright green) is there anything i could do to make it bright and stay? All it does is fall over my eyelashes. I heard putting concealer works... does it?
There is such a thing as eyeshadow base. Its like a cream and it comes in white. Put that on first, so you can see the white, then put the green on over it and it should be very visible. The base is found at makeup counters in department stores
Okay so I'm 14 (girl btw) ...5'0 and I'm about 85 pounds. I obviously have a high metabolism and I have to gain 95ish pounds before xmas or... I'm going to the hospital because my mom thinks I have an eating disorder (i dont) How do I gain weight and actually "keep it up" ?
Dont try to gain the wait. Tell her you dont have an eating disorder. Eat in front of her then sit with her so she knows your not throwing up. If she does take you to tho hospital, they will know that you dont have an eating disorder because they have ways to check.
You might want to try to gain maybe 10-20 lbs because thats a more healthy wait for your age/height. Maybe build muscle by weight training. and Eat three healthy meals a day. Throw in a snack or two (healthy snacks)
You should be fine though
OK i've never worn eyeshadow that much but i sorta wanna now..is it true that a brown or tan shadow goes with hazel eyes? if not, then what color goes with hazel?? thanks!!
Try a brown smokey eye look. Brown Eyeliner, then dark brown shadow on the lid then a little bit of lighter brown on your crease, then blend up a lot, then put a little bit of a gold shimmer on the corners of your eyes as a highlighter.
plus there is new almay shadow that brings out your eyecolor, for all eyecolors.
hi my name is jess im 13 and in kindergarden i had this boyfriend i know a little young but he was my first true love and right after that school year endeed he moved to the town next to me now im in 7th grade and i havent seen him in 8 yrs. Now i cheerlead for his football team and i still havent gotten a chance to see him cause no game have started yet but we all have the same practices like times and days and places but but different areas of the building. If i dont see him or talk to him i really might have a breakdown. its been 8 years to long. how can i get a chance to see him or talk to him. What if he doesnt remember me?
plz hurry!!!!!
Dont worry about if he remembers you. He probably will and even if he doesnt, joke about how you used to be his little kindergarden girlfriend. Then continue to talk to him. Compliment him on how he did in his game. He will warm up to you fast.
does anyone know any really fast easy diets? .. i need to lose about 4 pounds. please dont give me the atkins diet. Thanks i rate high
Dont eat Junk food. No sugar foods, potato chips, or any typical snack foods. If you need a snack, have some grapes or an apple.
NO REGULAR POP. diet only. Reg. pop has waaay too much uneeded sugar and calories.
Exercise. Do an hour or two of a cardio activity. One that really works is Run hard for 30 seconds, then walk for 90 seconds, and repeat untill time is up. Then you can do crunches and leg lifts to tone up your abs and thighs.
*REALLY IMPORTANT* Drink tons of water. As much as you can. When people are thirsty, sometimes they mistake it for hunger pains. Especially late at night. The more water you drink the better, and the faster the weight will come off
Can anyone give me any tips on flirting but nothing too bold because I am quite shy.
will rate high for good answers.
Number one is eye contact. The look, look away, then look again is a classic.
Touch their arm when you are talking.
Playfully push them.
Give compliments.
Laugh at their jokes (if theyre funny, dont be obvious)
Tease them a little bit, but dont be mean.
But whatever you do, dont try too hard, and be yourself
I know people will get their makeup professionally done for prom or whatever. But, I wanted to get mine done before I take my senior portraits, what is the cheapest it would cost? Who/where would I call the schedule an appointment?
Usually, there are department stores that will do your makeup for free, but they expect you to buy something after. even if its one thing. Just call around the department store that have makeup counters. The ones around here are Elder Bearman, Bergners, and Famous Barr. if your area doesnt have that opportunity, then a lot of salons that do hair and nails, do makeup also.
does high school really suck? Should I be freaking out about it, or am I just overreacting?
Okay I love this question
I was a freshman last year. In junior high I went to a small school and there were about 38 people in my grade. Then for highschool, I switched to a big school with about 500 kids in my class. so I had a double whammy lol
But trust me. It was the best year I ever had. High school is sooo much better than junior high. Its awesome.
Just remember
*dont talk trash about people. The upperclassmen wont like you if you bring a lot of drama. Neither will the other freshman.
*be nice to everyone and give everyone a chance
*dont blow off your homework and always take notes. (trust me on this one)
*stay out of trouble. You dont want to be pegged as a bad kid in your freshman year.
*join a club or sport if you are not already in one.
*participate in school spirit week. you are not to cool to partake in the activities
Hope I helped!
I just got that simply straight shampoo for my hair... Well the conditioner but anyway.. DO i have to do anything special for it?? Like leave it in or whatever??? Anything special after i shower and blowjob or whatever??? I'll rate too
Im just the girl to ask lol.
Here are some Ideas
If your blowdryer has a concentrator attachment (one that focuses the air on a little strip of hair instead of a circle) then you might wanna put that on.
Use a big paddle flat brush, then comb out your hair from the underneath, while blowdrying the hair in the brush ontop. Your hair should blowdry pretty straight.
You really wanna concentrate on the ends, because straight ends make straight hair look even better.
If you have a flat iron (hair straightner) then that would polish off your look. Once again, concentrate especially on the ends.
There are also products that help out your hair even more. John Freidas anti frizz serum is great for frizz, and it makes your hair super soft.
hope I helped! If you have more questions, just ask!
Well... this is kind of a random question, but what do guys 13-16 talk about with their friends?
Girls?
Cars?
Just about everything. Yes, cars and girls. Plus sports, sex, tv, movies, pretty much what girls talk about, except for the clothes/hair/makeup part.
Hey. What's up?
I Have an amazing boyfriend. I love him. We have been together since Feb. 2nd, 2004 (for the people trying to figure that out, its been 1 year,6months and 9 days) I Love Him, like I said. However, sometimes I think that I may like other guys. Where I work there are 2 guys who I
"like" but I wouldn't go out with them if they asked me. I want to stay with my boyfriend. I think about these other guys sometimes tho.
Any ways or tips to stop these thoughts?
I am more then sure that I am going to stay with my boyfriend. I wouldn't ever date these other guys.
How can I deal with the thoughts?
Is this normal?
(Sophmore, Female)
-Kels-
Yes its normal. You have been with your boyfriend so long, and there is no doubt that you love him, you are just wondering about other guys. Curiosity is all it is. You are obviously in a great place with your bf so you have nothing to worry about, Im sure it will pass.
I'm on the cusp of girls sizes and junior sizes. The thing is, I don't like any of the girls styles anymore. I love the stuff at american eagle but I just can't fit into it. I can't even wear abercrombie jeans becaus I have a large butt and a small waist so the waist is always big and the butt fits. What do I do?? I found a pair of really nice tractor pants at Bloomingdales, but thats just ONE pair!!!
You can wear belts for the waist. You can have the waist tailored. If you know someone thats good at sewing, such as your mom, grandma, or even a friends mom or grandma, then ask if they could somehow take in the waist or something like that. You should also look around online for jeans. A lot of websites have more sizes then stores do, and they will usually have the measurements that way you will know if they will fit or not.
ok this is gonna be kinda long
In the middle of last year my BFF got a boyfriend and i was soo happy for her. But then she stopped hanging out with me. She ate lunch with him,all she talked about was her boyfriend. But then she got new friends and didnt even notice me. At dance she didnt want to talk to me either. So i told her how i felt and she said thats not true!! So then i said i dont want to be friends if u arent going to be a friend. so then her boyfriend said F*** YOU to me online:(
I told my friends and they informed my ex-bff. So she dumped him and her were friends again. The 2days lata she went back out with him. And she started doing the same thing that she did before. On the last day of school she dumped him. We are friends now but all she ever talks about is her ex-bf and she still doesnt talk to me at dance. Ok so here is my question: Should i still be her friend or forget about her?
thanks and advace
Just explain to her that them breaking up is not what you want. Tell her you feel like when she has a boyfriend, that she has no time for you. Make her realize that you understand that they need time together, but that you two need alone time also. Show her how upset you are, but dont get loud or mad. It will just start a big fight and you dont need that!
ok i kno your not supposed to go swimming if you hav a heavy period....but its not that bad and i want to try and wear a tampon if it is too heavy...wut i wanna kno is if it hurts wen your wearing a tampon? im always afraid of putting stuff up there becuz i think it will hurt....does it??
please help my friend is coming over tomorrow and i want to go swimming....i rate high!
It wont hurt if you put it in all the way. Dont be afraid, just read the instructions if you do not know how to insert it. Make sure to relax. and make sure its in all the way, or it will kind of hurt when you sit down.
i hate myself. i'm extremely self-conscious. i have zero self-esteem. are there any ways to start feeling better about my self, or to boost my confidence?
Trust me, everyone has felt like this at one time or another. But dont hate yourself. I highly doubt you are truly that bad. Focus on your good points instead of your bad. Believe people when they compliment you, even if it is your mom. Sometimes, all it takes is a new hair cut/do or a new outfit that you feel makes you look really good, and realize youre not as bad as you thought.
I'm going to either Wal-Greens or Rite-Aid to get some acne stuff. I have really bad acne and scars from pimples all over my face. What would be a product that will actually help clear up my skin?
Please answer to the best of your knowlegde!
Thanks.
Umm my best friend did proactive, and it helped her, but if its really bad, you might want to talk to your parents and get them to take you to a dermatologist. They have perscription creams and pills that work a lot better than OTC products.
15/f *Ohhkay, so i have this amazing guy..but we're just reallly good friends."with benifits" I love him and i know he loves me and we've been talking about "doing it" i know we are both ready, and we will def use protection. But my question is..do you think if we actaully do it..we wil end up going out? I mean,I would love to go out with him, and ive always wanted to.
So do you guys think if we do it that theres a possibility that he may like me more than a friend?!
Thanks so much guys/I'll rate HIGH!! ;)
-kristen
Probably not. You need to find out first. You should tell him that you want to be his girlfriend. If he agrees, make him wait a little while to have sex. See how he treats you while you are making him wait. If he pushes or gets mad, then he just wants the sex. And another thing, he may be your really good friend, but hes still a horny little teenage boy. They will say anything to get a girl in the sack, so watch out and make sure hes not doing that. good luck
I can't find the perfect boyfriend. I tried sticking to one boy but something messes it up. I just hate walking down the halls in school and see couples around me. I never tried putting myself out there,lol. Is there something wrong with me? I sometimes think I'd be lonley forever. I daydream of me in a steady,smooth relationship. But, I can't find the perfect boyfriend to share my feeling and secrets.
I need someone to help me out on this one!
Thanks
There is no perfect boyfriend. Love isnt to find the perfect guy. Love is loving an imperfect person, perfectly. You need to find the perfect person FOR YOU. and dont go searching for someone, let it happen. The greatest loves in life are unexpected. Just hold out and you will eventually find someone you love. and I promise, the guy WILL have flaws, but to you, the good should outweigh the bad. So you wont love him because he is perfect, but he will be perfect because you love him. At least thats what you should aim for =)
My brother is away for the week and i'm normally allowed to stay up to 11 and my brother makes sure i go to bed. So i'm staying up later (a lot later) and i'm eating a lot at night. i'm afraid that i'm going to gain a lot of weight because i'm not going to be able to work it off. i don't want to throw it up because 1.that's just nasty 2.it's unhealthy 3.if i try it i might continue and become bulimic. could someone help me on what to do?
When you're thirsty, a lot of times your body mistakes it for hunger pains. Drink a big glass of cold water, and your stomach will be full. If not, then try to go to bed or keep yourself busy. If you are busy, you are less likely to think about food. If you must eat, eat something healthy like a small salad, some grapes, or an apple.
My boyfriend just broke up with me because he said' " i dont think it will work because, you know im going into to high school & your still in middle school" because im in 8th grade and hes in 9th. Plus insead of me being in his profile now its about another girl. and im really reallly sad because i think hes cheating on me. is there anything i can do to make me feel better :( thanks. xoxo
Im so sorry. But look, Breakups are an important part of growing up. Trust me, just about everyone goes through them. And If he broke up with you, then hes not cheating. But just try to move on and when you're ready, meet some new guys. When you get to highschool, and you have a new boyfriend or new boy-friends and no time for him, he will see what he missed. But for now, have your own fun and look on the bright side of things. At least you have the freedom to flirt and meet new guys, or you have more time for your girlfriends. A night out with the girls may be just the thing to get you back on your feet. Or an at home spa night may be in check. Give yourself a manicure and pedicure and facial, then have a nice hot bubble bath and turn off the lights, add a few candles and relax. It does wonders. Look up recipes for the facial online, theres tons out there!