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im about to break out in tears...
hi my name is jess im 13 and in kindergarden i had this boyfriend i know a little young but he was my first true love and right after that school year endeed he moved to the town next to me now im in 7th grade and i havent seen him in 8 yrs. Now i cheerlead for his football team and i still havent gotten a chance to see him cause no game have started yet but we all have the same practices like times and days and places but but different areas of the building. If i dont see him or talk to him i really might have a breakdown. its been 8 years to long. how can i get a chance to see him or talk to him. What if he doesnt remember me?
plz hurry!!!!!
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if its just a kindergarten crush, this guy could end up being totally different than you remember him, so don't have too high expectations. He probably grew up a lot. If you really want to see him, why don't you just wait for a game to start? Then after they win or lose, you could either congratulate him or say he did a great job anyway. You could be like, 'You look really familar, did you ever go to my school?' and he might remember you. If not, don't be too disappointed, it was a long time ago.
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aww that happened to me in second grade. He like.. yeah moved to like.. maine. Which is really far from CT and i never saw him since then. I mean im over it now.. but..
You guys were in kindergarten.. Sorry to say but maybe he wasnt expecting you to still have feelings for him? Still look for him anyway.. I'm sure if hes single you can get to know him again and become friends first and all that.
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well, there's no guarantee he will remember you, but you can try bringing up a funny/happy memory of the two of you that you think he'll remember. this is of course, after you introduce yourself and spare him the mushy details. he might be embarrassed if you go too into detail about your previous relationship. just say something about how you used to be close years ago and you were wondering how he was doing. if he's as wonderful as you remember, he'll warm up to you in no time, and you can go on a "reunion get-together" if things go well. good luck!
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If there isn't a chance to talk to him before the games start, then once they do, say something. Be friendly, say: hey I remember you from kindergarden, hows it going. A good way to bring back that friendship would be to talk about old memories, such as people you both knew, your teacher, funny stories, etc. There doesn't seem to be a reason why he wouldn't talk to you or even be your friend, so don't be shy about it. You'll be seeing each other more often it seems, so after a few times of talking, ask him to hang out or do something. Good luck.
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Dont worry about if he remembers you. He probably will and even if he doesnt, joke about how you used to be his little kindergarden girlfriend. Then continue to talk to him. Compliment him on how he did in his game. He will warm up to you fast.
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if you notice him, go up to him. start conversation and juss be friendly about it. dont go right out saying how you loved him and all that stuff yet. once you form a friendship again, THEN tell him how you feel. take it slow. 8 yrs is a long time. he'll probably remember you, but juss remind him if he doesnt.
good luck!
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MAYBE YOU SHOULD CALL HiM && YOU GUYS COULD MEET UP AT THE MOViES.
x3 LAURENNN
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