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coby or kalvin (please help i rate 5's all the way)
hey so i have this problem with two boys coby and kalvin. i really like coby and like kalvin. coby is going to a different highschool than me and kalvin is going to my same highschool but i am in love with coby. i dont know what to do. i cant tell kalvin the truth because coby is one of his good friends. kalvin and me are close as friends and me and coby are close all around. what do i do? please help i rate 5's all the way
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ok, well, if kalvin likes you i really think you should go with him. i know you said you really like coby but to tell ya the truth hun, it probably wont last very long if your going to difrent schools. i mean, you will get REALLY acatched to him and then sooner or later one of you is gonna break up with the other and its going to be really sad. you might not know it now, but you WILL get over him. i hope i helped.
♥ leah
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Well, if you're in love with coby, you have to tell kalvin no matter what..I think kalvin will understand it..I meant, there's nothing wrong about you liking coby.Kalvin maybe will get hurt, but if he is your truly best friend, he will accept and understand it..Hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-
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Have any of them shown signs of liking you? If they havn't, don't try to force things on with either of them either; that might end up in a relationship with one, and a broken friendship with another...and if that relationship doesn't work, thats two lost friendships. If you do want to be with one of them, find out for yourself which one means more to you. Different schools can usually be worked out through; just as seeing the person everyday might turn into a pain. Otherway around too. So really, the best thing to do would be sort your feelings out and see which one means to you the most. Don't jump to conclusions either, because it wouldn't be worth risking both of your friendships, or theirs. If one or both does like you, tell them that, they would want to know. Good luck.
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all you need to do is sort out your feelings. whoever you have more feelings for, go with him. juss try hanging out with both and see what you feel. it might help talking to them about it.
good luck!
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I think you need to sit down and think, think of both of them and who you like more and who has always been there, listened to you, made you laugh and smile, never wanted to make you cry, and said they never want to hurt you and just find out which one you would think would never do so. If you love Coby but he's not going to the same school and Kalvin is it shouldn't really matter I'm going out with a guy that lives 45 minutes away we have been going out for a year now. But if you like those kinds of relationships like seeing your boyfriend everday talking to him every second of every day just being there when you need him I still think you should go with Coby but Kalvin will always be there in your school. All I'm saying is find out which one you like or *love* more and I honestly think you should go with which ever one you chose. Hope I helped. Sorry if I didn't...
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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neither.
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since Coby and Kalvin are good friends and you like both guys maybe it is best if the three of you just stayed really good friends
if you go out with one guy it might hurt the other or get awkward after that
if one of them do happen to ask you out and you still want to go out with them then go for it!
but right now i think you should just stay really good friends
hope that helps if you need anything else drop one in my inbox ♥
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