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I didn't do so well on a teat and I lied about it and now my tutor wants to email my teachers and ask them what they should do and I just don't want my mom to find out, I need help please don't say be honest I really need advice!! Please and thank you!! =) (link)
Ask yourself this. Was this a big test? A small test? Or inbetween. If it was a big test, you will need to talk to your mom before the teachers talk to your mother. Even though you cheated on a test, at least you informed it to your mother as soon as possible. If it was inbetween, also talk to your mom. Tell your mom what you did and why. Support your arguement with solid facts so you want slip like butter. If it was a small test, let it pass. Tell your tutor what you did and your tutor will tell your teachers what you did. You will get penalties but there is no way you will get out of this. Cheating is cheating and that's that. Tell everyone that your sorry and you won't do it again. Tell yourself that you will not cheat no matter how bad you did. It's better getting SOME scores than none.


okay about the front grinding thing how do you keep going with it? like wut do u do (link)
um i dont really know what you mean... sorry! re-ask it and make it a bit clear.... like do you mean how do you keep going for like a long time?
like i've danced for over 45 minutes STRAIGHT before -- it was hard!

if thats what you mean, tell me!


So.. i took about 6 or 7 asprin..that were 500mg each. Is that bad? Could that hurt me? And ever since then, my stomach has been hurting pretty bad every time i eat something..or even when i don't. It was Saturday night and it still does this. It could just be because i've been stressed out but i'm not sure.. (link)
6 or 7 aspirins is too much.
You could try eating something that releafs your stomach. Butter is good for sure. I think apples is too but I am not sure about that. Just look it up.

Anyways, that is not the case. Just read your additional info.
You didn t take 6 or 7 aspirin by mistake.
You did it on purpose.
If you feel like killing yourself stop. Think about it. We all walk throught the bad times so we can make it too the good times. And trust me, good times will come. Go get some counseling. We only come once in this world and noone knows what happens next.

If you wanna overdose, you should try some Vitamin C pills.


ok despite wat is told 2 us in health class i still have the doubt. ok well my bro has been doing EX since october. nothing serious, hes done it 7 times since then so maybe like once a month. cept the problem is hes convinced that the only way EX can kill you is if you get dehydrated or if you drink too much water. im not sure. last friday he took 7 hits of it. and that kinda worries me, he blocked out from 5-8 so he only remembers wat happened to him loosey. he has bruises and stuff like that so he was jumping around or fell down the stairs or something. he was too high to remember wat was going on. so if anyone actually knows the affects of EX or whether or not it can harm u pleaze tell me. and dont tell me to tell my parents becuz i wont. im not like that. he trusts me to keep it a secret. i just wanna help him myself.

if you havent ever done EX or have no experiance on the subject watsoever pleaz dont answer. id rather only those who can give me reliable answers to respond. and none of that whole, its bad for you crap. anyways sorry for being rude to anyone but i need to help him. i dont hate people who do drugs, its just that i have seen good people become mentally damaged because of drugs and i love my brother too much. btw hes 15 in 10th grade and im 14 in 8th grade.

thanx (link)
Yes. It can kill you. But drugs are line an accident. Sometime death is not the worst thing that can happen.Meaning
A lot of problems on your body control, nerv system. Your brother if he continues like this he will be retarted withing the next 5-6 years. I am telling you there is already someone mr. Parkingson in the corner waiting for your brother.
The best thing you can do to find out for yourself, is find some people who do it. People who it offten face severe problems withing the first 2 years.
Watch the end of the movie called a scanner darkly and you ll know what I am talking about.
From a group of 12 drug abusers 4 of them are dead and the rest are shaking on a wheelchair waiting for someone to clean their drool, just cause they wanted to dance and look at the lights.
7 hits is enough for someone to allready change as a person. Look at your brother. Is he the same person anymore?


Yesterday I lost my virginity to my boyfriend. I didn't bleed and it didn't really hurt (but then, I WAS drunk.) I ride horses a lot, I use tampons, and I DO masturbate. He asked me seriously if I was a virgin before that and I told him yes, but I don't think he believed me...Is there any way I can convince him? (link)
What?
Is he questioning your virginity?
Therefor he is calling you a lier and taking away from you something important.
The fact that you gave yourself to him. You gave him something so important, your virginity and he is questioning it.
You do not have to excuse yourself or even defend yourself. Act mad at him and make him never ever mention it.
You can also have fun by telling him he is a niddle dick every time he sais that. See if he likes that lol. Something tells me if you do so, he ll never say it again.
Do not let him take the upper hand.
Repeat
Do not let him take the upper hand.


19/F

I'm in a really small university class (only 31 of us in my year of my program).

Lately I've had a really bad rough patch; I was helping one friend out of an abusive relationship, and another friend out of an accidental pregnancy, so that was stressing me out. Added on to this was the fact that I suffer from depression, I'm having serious financial issues, and I've been fighting a lot with my boyfriend (who I live with).

I've had one prof who has really been amazing. When I missed a lot of class, he e-mailed and even called, to make sure I was allright. He's copied out notes that I've missed for me, and he isn't holding my absence against me. He's been really concerned about me, and it's meant a lot to me.

I really want to do something nice for him, but I don't know what. He's in his fifties (I think) and he's a math professor.

The only problem is that I can't really spend much, so storebought gifts are pretty much out of the question.

Any ideas for what to do to thank a professor who goes far beyond his regular duties as an instructor? (link)
Here are some choices. Everything should be followed with some warm words if you know what I mean.
Some kind of game, like a baggamon, or a chess board. If you got money and you know he has space in his house a mini football game. Since he is a mathimatician he would aprociate some nice decoration for his house, like some antique abacas....you know? The worlds first computer?
Also some kind of big book about something he likes. Giving something ta comes out from something that you like is like an invitation to your world, like a CD with some music inside, or a compilation of songs, or some movies or a book that you like.


what are the signs that someone likes you?
also where can i buy cheap trendy clothing? (link)
heyyyyyyyyyyy

as for the cheap trendy clothing:
-forever 21. (the besttt)
-delias.
-urban outfitters.
-charlotte russe
-EBAY. :)

most of these stores are in malls. but they all have websites. if these dont work for you,it wont be a problem to give you other options.

there are many little things a guy can do, to tell that he likes you.

-he can recall little nothing things you say in conversation.
-his voice changes
-hes always around (or fairly near you)
-he looks in you eyes when he talks to you.
-his friends look at you.
-you catch him looking at you.

if these dont help. ask again with more specifics. id be more than happy to help.


lett me know how it goes ♥ nnn


how far is paramus new jersey to hastings on hudson new york? is it a bad town? (link)
its not bad,and its not great,so its o.k. from new jersey its like 25 miles and 40-45 minutes.


i am 21 and i still didnt get my period!!! it's really weird can anyone help me out? *stephanie (link)
you should probably see a doctor,you should have gotten it by now.its like really really rare not to have your period by the time ur like 20/21,so i think you should see ur doctor.
good luck!


My friend(mia) liked this guy(bob) for two years and she told me a week ago that she stopped liking him. Well I was talking to a different friend, Chrissy today and she told me that Bob hooked up with this other girl(Rachel) alot over the past few months. Should I tell Mia this or just let it go? Bob was hooking up with rachel while mia liked him. (link)
heyy

if rachel and mia are friends then maybe you should.

but you should definitely consider:

what will mia gain by knowing that?
what will YOU gain / lose by telling her that?

will she be mad? will she tell bob and rachel that you told? tehre are lots of things you have to consider.

it's not really a big deal though... so you might not want to.

remember, everything has a solution so dont sweat it :]


ok like 5 minutes ago i had a fight with my friend online. it didn't really go anywhere. i just wanted to tell her how she doesnt treat me like she used to and has been ignoring me lately. soo anyway in school we are in 3 classes together, but shes the only one i talk to. also i have lunch with her and none of my other friends are.

so do i just leave her at the end of class? and not talk to her during lunch? it will be awkward..
i kind of what to solve things, but sometimes i kind of dont, cause this is the 2nd time i brought this up to her. helpp!please (link)
hey!

look, i've totally been there done that sort of stuff. i totally know how you feel, but first you definitely gotta chill out and calm down aka sort of get over the fight.

after that, just think about (or write down) the choices you have. stop being friends with her? say sorry? anything.

make a choice. is she really worth it? what will you gain / lose by fulfilling your choice? the decision is YOURS but you did ask me for advice, so I say... you should just give her a little space.

the same thing happened with my friend, and i just got so sick of i just stopped going on aim / talking to her... but when she says hi to me in school i say hi. but she kept emailing me asking me what was wrong andi just said everything's fine.

i know, it's gonna be REALLY hard since she's in three of your classes, but you just gotta deal... find someone with whom your acquantances with, and just talk to them during class. if you can't, just chill by yourself. and if she tries to talk to you, TALK TO HER but DON'T spill your guts... EVER! if something really good just happened with your crush, DO NOT BRING IT UP, the MORE you tell her, the MORE youre gonna have to talk to her. < that's my best advice.

remember, EVERYTHING has a solution.

love youu


What tampon should I use if I have never used one before? (link)
use an ultra thin or an easy glide. if you can find an ultra thin easy glide, that would be exceellennt

if you need any help for your first time putting it in, just ask!


Hi

Im a 15 year old Male from the UK

I found out my dad watches porn when i was about 12. I found this out because i was just looking through some videos to put on and found a tape with porn on it. The really bad thing is.. my friends were also there :(. 2 of them to be precise. We watched some of it.. to.. you know.. and they asked me. "where the hell did that come from?", i said, "it must be my Dads". The reason i said that was because i had'nt watched porn, my mum doesnt watch porn. So it must have been my Dad. Now at school my 'friends' all pick on me and say my Dad watches porn etc. and it really hurts my feelings because i just wish i could turn back time and have said it was mine or something. My confidence on finding a girlfriend in school has dropped because my 'friends' might tell them my dad watches porn and then they will call me and my Dad a perve. . If i could get some advice on what to do with this, that would be nice.

Thanks (link)
you're still 15 you've got time. fact is every guy watches porn, even if they have a wife or girlfriend we all watch it. and if a guy says he doesn't he's lying. and when a girl asks him to stop, or gives him that whole "am i not good enough" thing the thing behind it all is he's not gonna stop, and it's not that she's not good enough, it's that we like to imagine something else sometimes. whether she's asian, white, hispanic, or black, pregnant, fat, huge boobed, skinny, or whatever the fact is guys like to imagine themselves with someone else even when we're with someone. it's a fact of life, it's part of the whole divide and conquer mindset that men have and have had since the caveman days. we see something we don't have, we want to make it ours. and porn is a perfect outlet to relieve that feeling without cheating. the fact is men look at it, whack off to it, and go back to their lives. and hell women more and more get into it too. it was once something only men looked at and enjoyed but that's changing with time.

and the fact in this case is that your dad is just being what all guys are. it's not bad, it's not wrong, and fuck if your friends give you shit for it who cares man? you'll be looking at it for yourself sooner or later, and they will too, and that's just a fact of life because all dudes whack off. hell your friends might want the tape for themselves it's no biggie. it wont ruin your chances with a girl and quite frankly any girl who gets mad at you for your dad's watching of porn and refuses to have anything to do with you isn't worth the time.


So I've picked names out and I've liked them forever, and I've wanted to name my kids these names.
But my family doesn't like them.

so here we go-
(boys)
Tobias
Pilot
Asha or Sasha
Lucas
&
Gavin
(link)
if my name was tobias id hate you. pilot would be ok
asha and sasha for a boy, would be HORRIBLE but for a girl, i know 1 asha and 2 sashas (dont name a son anything that ends with an A!)
lucas & gavin are good
gavin = i LOVE it!


Hey I'm sexually active and ever since i lost my virginity my hips have been gettin bigger. They just look FAT! I was wondering if this was one of the results in having sex. i weight only 110 lbs. I know I'm not fat but I was just wondering if having sex could cause your hips to get bigger. (link)
nope not at all. theyre probably not getting bigger, you might be just imagining it
buuuuut your hips might be growing, because that happens
... you didnt give your age so i dont really know


This is extremely embarassing for me to ask.

I am an 18 year old girl from Egypt, but I moved to the USA when I was seven. My parents got me circumcised when I was six. I am worried that no one will want to marry me because I am circumcised, and will think I am gross. I am very worried because when doctors look at me (just check ups, nothing is wrong with me) they gasp, and make a very big deal out of it.

Please any feedback is so appreciated. (link)
I admit that I dont have any experience, information or even the slightest idea about your case.
But I saw this episode of Nip Tuck of this girl who got everything back. It can be undone, and you are old enough to take care of it by yourself. According to Nip Tuck of course.

Dont you worry about the rating, I know I wasn t helpfull in the first place.
Can you feel anything down there?



i'm 5'8
i weigh 145 lbs
is that overweight?
(link)
that like perfectly average.
but if you wanna be on the skinnier side, lose 5-10 pounds AT MOST!!!
but the like actualy avg weight for 5'8 is about 150, so your good!!




Okay.
So.
Im on a lacrosse team, and we need a name.
It is supposed to be SYC ______.
(SYC stands for Springfield Youth Club).
Any ideas?
Like SYC Fury? or dolphins? or SOMETHING.

i need to know by tomorrowwww!
please and thank you (: (link)
i like birds personally
like falcons, ravens, hawks,
and if you want to make it syc, you could do snakes, seagulls, scoprions
for lax, i think that a good one would be the scorpionss mayyyybe. or one of the bird ones up there


i heard that if you eat only cottage cheese and water for i think two weeks, youll lose 10 lbs. is this true?.. (link)
No you will not lose 10 pounds.



hope i helped ! :D


I usually know how to spell, but for some reason, I don't know how to spell today.

Am I spelling 'cliche' right?

I mean it looks right, but I don't know. Help? (link)
yea, but cliche has an accent over it ... like this / not \
so imaginer this:

......../
CLICHE




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