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should i tell her
My friend(mia) liked this guy(bob) for two years and she told me a week ago that she stopped liking him. Well I was talking to a different friend, Chrissy today and she told me that Bob hooked up with this other girl(Rachel) alot over the past few months. Should I tell Mia this or just let it go? Bob was hooking up with rachel while mia liked him.
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don't tell her it's not like they were with each other at the time and I know from things that happened to me that if she used to like him she doesnt want to hear who he was with when she was into him.
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I would just let it go, cause she doesnt like him anymore and it would be pointless to get her all upset about something that shes not interested in anymore. Ya know? Save her the pain.
KRystal
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if rachel and mia are friends then maybe you should.
but you should definitely consider:
what will mia gain by knowing that?
what will YOU gain / lose by telling her that?
will she be mad? will she tell bob and rachel that you told? tehre are lots of things you have to consider.
it's not really a big deal though... so you might not want to.
remember, everything has a solution so dont sweat it :]
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Well i think the easiest thing to do would be to tell Mia. If she is good friends with Rachel and you think this could cause jepradize (sp.?) their friendship then you might either want to leave it alone or let rachel tell her if she wants to. Otherwise.. you dont want to keep it a secret from Mia because then if she finds out about it and finds out that you knew and didnt tell her she will probably feel pretty mad.
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better not tell her...
if you tell her she could think you are lying and she'll get mad.
instead... just give her helpful hints. like say stuff "I saw bob with rachel one day.. do you think they could be going out?"
let her find out on her own
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