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Hey! I would love to answer your questions! I have been searching advicenators for many problems in the past and have found that most answers have helped. Hope i can help with your questions. =)
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what is the best/fastest/smartest way to loose 5-10 pounds?
and not gain it back.
what is the best diet?
the fastest way to do it without gaining it back is gradually. set a goal of about 1 pound a week, and dont starve yourself. if you starve yourself, the weight you are will increase once you eat again, and the results wont be the same as if you just reduced portions. so: reduce portions so you are never very full after a meal, but satisfied. try to get active 4 days a week (running is the best for weight loss but some people dont like to run) and for the days you are not doing cardio to sets of push ups sit ups and other strength training exercises.
good luck!
17/f..naturally.
I've been with my boyfriend for about five months now, and just recently we became sexually active. We talked about sex quite some times before, and we were both ready and he uses a condom and everything.
My mom is totally ok with him, and she thinks I've been having sex with him for a lot longer than I actually have. But I know she's okay with it and everything, just tells me to be careful and to use a condom, seeing as she knows our relationship is serious and he's a responsible guy.
However, due to the irritating irregularity of my period, but also the fact that I'm now having sex, I'd like to go on the pill.
I know my mom will be okay with it...I just have no idea how to ask her this.
It's not like we have a very open and casual relationship, thus I am finding it hard to ask her about it. I'd rather not do it behind her back, because there's no need for it.
Just looking for any tips or ways on how I should approach her about this?
Thank you.
my mom and i are very open, but i remember how hard it still was to ask her about the pill. since she already knows you and your boyfriend are having sex, you got past the hardest part. most likely she will be happy that you are taking the initiative to practice safe sex and be completely willing to take you to the doctors for the pill. if i were you i would research some different types of birth control. come to her with information you've found. it will show you are responsible about it. for example you could say "hey mom i was thinking, i have really irregular periods which makes it scary to just use a condem during sex because of pregnancy scares and everything, i also would love the extra insurance that we are being safe by going on the pill. i did some research and found that (pill name) was the best kind for .. (info about pill). do you think it would be a good idea to go to the doctor and see if this is what i should do?"
this way, she will see you are taking an initiative, coming to her, and asking what she thinks: all things that mothers love haha
good luck!
Iv'e been trying to get my permit for quite some time now and haven't gotten it iv'e been to the DMV a total of 4 times in 09 i feel really stupid like a idiot and feel embarrassed to tell people it upsets me & i usually end up crying i try to think positively and confident but i sometimes doubt myself i feel like it's impossible and like i'll never get it...i'm scared of failing again
Do you think i'm overreacting taking it to seriously? Any suggestions of what to do
would be helpful
it does suck to not pass something when you really want it. many of my friends didnt pass the permit test, and were as upset about it as you are. This main thing i recommend is to get the driving book at the dmv where it explains all the rules you need to know for the test. study this, and you should pass in no time. the permit test is hard, and i doubt some experienced drivers would even know every question on it.
dont worry, just keep trying!
Hello, I am 16, and i am so sick of my life i really am. So far i ahve llost alot of my close friends,well what i thought was my best friends. They all left because well im not sure really.But have you ever just wanted to give up? yeh thats what i want to do really.give up. not sure what to do anymore. this life that everyone is talkinga about,this great life,is nothing but a lie.
hey, first of all, since you are 16, this means that you have a whole lot of life and friendmaking ahead of you. think about it this way- if you arent happy with the friends you have had in highschool, you are moving on to such bigger and better things. college! a job!, these are things that highschool merely prepares you for. you can judge life by certain incedents that happen in these years because you just have to know that better things ARE coming.
I know how you feel, i am 17 and recently did a lot of reassessing when it came to the people who i thought were my friends, but all im thinking about now is how exciting the next step of my life will be. When you are down, just think forward.
if you wanna talk more, inbox me and ill give you my sn.
:)
where can i buy them in new jersey? Not online like in a store. I went to the website but it was all confusing so yeah please just tell me where i can get them thanks.
national jean company
I've been hearing this song everywhere, but i can't find it anywhere!
its a VERY upbeat,techno song and theres lots of music and then the worlds "Call me" in a very techno voice, more music,then thats repeated. theres more lyrics but i just can't remember/understand them XD. anyone know the name of it?! muchas gracias
could it be Call on Me by Eric Prydz
IM me at sasa9821
its emabressing wat i did
what did you do?
there is this song that i really liked in twilight but i don't remember the lyrics to google it
it was during the part when there was all these flashbacks when edward was sucking the vemon out of bella
does anyone know what song i'm talking about?
thanks :D
anddddd the best movie ever by the way. i've seen it three times
i'm pretty sure it is Never Think by Rob Pattinson
cool that its by the actor that played edward!
16
female
5'7"
120lbs
i feel sick after just about every meal i eat. i dont eat to much or to little it doesnt start hurting till about 5 to 10 minutes after im done eating. The pain lasts only 30 minutes but i shouldnt have to have the feeling everytime i eat.
im not overweight either if that helps.
help!
it could be an intolerance to a certain food or product. experiment by not having any dairy one meal and see if it changes... if you still feel sick, the next meal try cutting out grains.. and so on
hope this helps!
: )
[I heard this song on XMU]
Anyways all i remember from the lyrics are
"If you had five more minutes, would you...."
But I forgot the guy's name who sings it. It's indie rock if that helps at all. Thank you!
it could be R.E.M. ???
My name is Gina...Im 15 years old and im a female..During the past couple(2) months I have not gotten my period, its starting to worry me. About 4 months ago i became a vegetarian, i dont think that is the problem. im still a virgin. Please explain whats going on to me!
~~Gina
since you are 15, your period might not be completely regular yet. your menstrual cycle has some to do with your diet but it is probably just that you are irregular. the first 2 years i had my period i sometimes didnt have it for ten months. if you are really concerned you can talk to your doctor, but i honestly wouldnt worry too much about it!
: )
i guess i was just curious for a girl if having sex without a condom feels better than having sex with a condom? like having a guy cum inside you i guess? i'm not planning on having sex without a condom it's just a question, so please do not lecture me on using condoms, kthanks.
typically its the guy that it feels better for. it does feel different after he cums its better lubricated but its nothing big, and not a great enough difference to not use a condom.
: )
O.k so i am having troble figuring out if i like this guy. He is nice, and cute and funny. But i think i like him but then he will be mean(not really mean just a normal kidding mean) and i take it to heart everything he says. when he walks by i feel the need to be next to him, but then he is mean and i can't even stand to see him anymore. This is really confusing...
Can you by any chance tell me ways of figuring out if i like him or not?
(oh and another thing, my friend LIKES him too.)
well first of all the only person who can truly answer this question is you. from what you say though, it sounds like you do like him. The fact that you get upset easily if he is being even a little mean shows that you care about him and his actions a lot. this is a sign that you do like him. Try to wait and see if he is on your mind a lot or you feel nervous/excited while talking to him. good luck!
so when i was in 6th grade going into 7th i did something really stupid.
it resulted in me loosing all my friends.
EVERYONE and i mean EVERYONE found out about it...
i am now 16 and it still hounts me.
like people sitll bring it up
what i did was not murder or naything against the law. just really emabrresing. when anyone says it to me like "u the girl who..." i cry ont he spot.
what can i do? its been like 4 years already and no one forgets it!!! like i cant go anywehre without someone knowing about me.
im scraed to go for a guy bc they wont want me bc of that..
i had to deal with this too but i cant really tell the kind of situation you are talking about. you could inbox me and i will try to help you in the same ways that i did for myself if our situations are related at all. eventually people will forget- and if they do not, they aren't the kind of people you need to be accepted by anyways.
can somebody please describe to me in detail HOW "the perks of being a wallflower" and "the catcher in the rye" are alike? like compare them. ive read both of them so you can go in detail about plots. thank you.
both books have a main character who is kind of rejected and on his own. it is described in first person by both boys and they talk about their journey through out the book.
I was just wondering like what are things from the greek we use in everyday life?
lots of types of math and scientific principles.
okay so i been having it for about a week now and its really annoying cleanig it soo god dang much!!!
is there anyways i can spend up the healing?
soak it in salt water (if you have sea salt or even regular salt) for 5 minutes every night and dont sleep on the side of the piercing. wear only real silver or gold earings and no claires stuff because that will most likely infect it more.
thats what helped me! hope it works
but it really did take a few months for it to be totally healed
hang in there : )
There is a dance tommorrow and I have no idea what eye shadow to wear or how to wear my make-up for it (pictures would be nice), my dress is black, my shoes are black, i have white gloves and fake white pearls/beads. I have brown eyes and my hair is blondish/brownish but also kinda of red in the light. so what kinda of eye shawdow? and any make-up tips?
Please and thank you!
you could also try the smokey-eye look by putting a thin line of black eyeliner on the top and bottom between your lashes and lids then take a brown or charcoal eyeshadow and apply it like you would eyeliner. as in: not too high on the eyelid but as another stripe of colour. then blend the eyeliner and eyeshadow with your eyeshadow applicator.
i hope it works out!
14yrs/gurl/USA
I rele like this guy and I think he likes me back. He is a junior and I'm a freshman. And we both want to hang out with each other. But we aren't that "close" we rele just want to hang out and get to know each other. Have any ideas or fun things to do? Something tht we can do, just hang out, etc. but i need suggestions, because we still need to get to know each other more.
Help please.
even though you might see this as mean he probably just made other plans and didnt want to break them off since it sounds like you guys are best friends anyways. some good ways you could get to know eachther are through public things like hanging out with groups of friends. after a while you can continue to hang out with groups or just alone. i dont think you should be offended by him "ditching" you though and just show him you are still interested in hanging out and hopefully things will turn out for the best!!
: )
Hi every one i am a cutter i have been cutting for 4 years and i really want to stop how can i
hey. firstly its good that you are trying to stop! keep it up. my friend had to deal with this same thing a few months ago and different things work for everyone. one thing you could try, a rubber band. keep it around your wrist and every time you think of cutting just pull it and snap it. If this doesnt work then think whenever you are about to cut yourself that it is the weak way out and it does nothing but hurt you. Please try your hardest to stop this though it will be hard. My friend that stopped is now so much happier with herself!