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fight with my friend
ok like 5 minutes ago i had a fight with my friend online. it didn't really go anywhere. i just wanted to tell her how she doesnt treat me like she used to and has been ignoring me lately. soo anyway in school we are in 3 classes together, but shes the only one i talk to. also i have lunch with her and none of my other friends are.
so do i just leave her at the end of class? and not talk to her during lunch? it will be awkward..
i kind of what to solve things, but sometimes i kind of dont, cause this is the 2nd time i brought this up to her. helpp!please
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In class, just talk to her about it. Tell her how you really feel but dont yell at her. Make sure your talking in a tone that you would like to be talked to...It might seem awkward but tell her you still wanna be close friends, but that u think shes treating you different. Maybe shes treating you differently because of her home life. Maybe her life isnt all that great. Just tell her you will be there for her no matter what. but if you do tell her that you have to make sure you follow up on that. <3 good luck . and my best friends doing the same thing to me as well...she got a new boyfriend and treats me like im invisible. its not that great so i know what your going through.
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hey!
look, i've totally been there done that sort of stuff. i totally know how you feel, but first you definitely gotta chill out and calm down aka sort of get over the fight.
after that, just think about (or write down) the choices you have. stop being friends with her? say sorry? anything.
make a choice. is she really worth it? what will you gain / lose by fulfilling your choice? the decision is YOURS but you did ask me for advice, so I say... you should just give her a little space.
the same thing happened with my friend, and i just got so sick of i just stopped going on aim / talking to her... but when she says hi to me in school i say hi. but she kept emailing me asking me what was wrong andi just said everything's fine.
i know, it's gonna be REALLY hard since she's in three of your classes, but you just gotta deal... find someone with whom your acquantances with, and just talk to them during class. if you can't, just chill by yourself. and if she tries to talk to you, TALK TO HER but DON'T spill your guts... EVER! if something really good just happened with your crush, DO NOT BRING IT UP, the MORE you tell her, the MORE youre gonna have to talk to her. < that's my best advice.
remember, EVERYTHING has a solution.
love youu<3
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solve it! asap!
you don't want to risk your friendship over a stupid 5 minute online fight, now do you???
its best to say sorry first, even if you didn't do anything. show her what a good friend you are, taking responsibility for a problem that you probably didn't even start.
You will eventually get over it, but don't waste your time now ignoring her.
-volleyball2150
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