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guy i like has a girlfriend =[
well basically the subject says it all. i'm 15 and in 9th grade and the guy i like is in 8th grade. but he has a girlfriend that is in 9th grade that goes to another school. i've never met his girlfriend, so i don't know how well their relationship is. but i REALLY like him, and it seems like he is flirting with me a lot. he is always IMing me, he says hi to me everytime we see each other in the hallway, he always bumps into me in the hall on purpose (but in a fun cute way), and he has a nickname for me. he is already a really friendly person, it just seems like i'm getting a little extra attention. anyway thats not the point. the point is he has a girlfriend but i like him. what can i do? should i try to flirt with him so maybe he will breakup with his girlfriend? or would that be mean and i should just back off?
oh and since he's in 8th grade i don't have any classes with him. what are some ways to talk more in or out of school without being obvious that i like him? we used to be in the play together but now the play is over and i don't get to hang out with him everyday after school for practice anymore.
sorry this is so long its just that i love your advice and i needed some help =]
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hey!
I strongly suggest that you don't interfere with his relationship. You can still flirt with him... but I wouldn't ask him out or anything. If his girlfriend finds out about you, trying to win him... well lets just say theres gonna be a lot of drama going on.
try doing some really simple flirty things.. like twist your hair, or nod your head when he looks at you, or wet your lips and bit your lips, or fix your hair... get the point?
don't do anything too serious, like looking at his ass or blowing a kiss to him... or anything big like that.
Its his choice on who he goes out with, you can't decide that.
and don't jump to conclusions when he's around you... he could just be a REALLY friendly guy. You may think that he gives you a lot of extra attention, but he could just be noticing you as a friend.
About the "how do i talk to him more" part... well talk to him about really casual things, like what sports he's interested in. Then one day you might invite a lot of friends over and ask him if he wants to come too. (dont get confused with this.. you're not asking him out.... you are with a group of friends and you are "hanging out" not "going out")
See if theres going to be another play coming out soon, and ask him if he's going to be in it.
Find some similarities between you 2 and find something fun to do.
I appriciate the compliment!
thanks!
-volleyball2150
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Aww thank you so much :D
This happened to me so many times,for some reason i always go after the guys that are taken lol i know its not want you want to hear but i really dont think you shoudl pursue anything with him right now.Its never a good idea to mess with a relationship it leads to alot of drama and someone always ends up getting hurt.Right now just be friends with him.If you want to hang out ask him (but dont let it be just the two of you)let it be a group of friends go to the movies, play mini golf,etc just dont flirt with him or anything since hes still a taken guy.Just let whatever happens with you two happen.If they do end up breaking up then maybe you can go in for the kill ;] but in the meantime try to find another guy to crush on.
♥ danielle
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