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I'm Sarah, i'm 16. I'm a typical 16 year old girl. I'm a junior in high school. The thing thats gets on peoples nerves most about me is that i'm too sarcastic. But I can be serious...sometimes. I just got a car that I love but its already very messy...like me. I am not clean, or organized...sometimes I don't even know what the term means. I just got a job and was late on my 3rd day. I am late to almost everything. As you can see I am far from perfect, but I accecpt myself as me. I'm not perfect in school, actually I am going to summer school this summer, but to me, it's not that big of a deal. Things don't phase me like they do other people...
I am a little spoiled. My dad lets me keep his credit card and gives me money on it that he doesn't even have. My mom gives me her debit card way to often and usually is to ditzy to notice what I do on it. I love my parents. My grandmother is pretty rich and gives me money to come visit her...and sent me money to buy stuff for work...she sent me way more than I needed and I love her very much too! =)
I lost my grandpa 2 years ago and i miss him to this day. He was one of those people that you can't forget and no matter how much pain it causes you to think of them, you never even want to forget them, becuase you feel somewhat empty. He was one of the greatest people to me and I love him and miss him very much and cant wait until we meet up again.
When i'm am not working or not in school...i sleep as late as possible and stay in my pj's all day. I am not one of those people that gets dress to sit at home. I will go out in my pjs if i have to. To me, what people think about me is not as important as what I think about myself.
Some of my favorite things:
tv, movies, summer, not having school, beach, vacations anywhere, music (country and alternative rock), my mom (she is hilarious and i couldnt live without her...shes one of my best friends), my job (i love making money), my car, my fanily.
I am very typical but unique in my own way. I can sing very good, by myself in my car or in the shower...thats it! When i get bored I love to color...but i am really 16...not 10.
I have been through so much...my parents were divorced when i was 2 and i lived with my mom...she has had many boyfriends, and we have lived with a few...she has been engaged and married once before. That was really hard on me, harder than she or anyone thinks.
1. i had to leave all my friends and move an hour away to somewhere i had never lived before and move in with people I bearly knew.
2. i am an only child and the man she married had 2 kids. peroid.
Dont get me wrong, I loved his kids but when you are an only child for 15 years then get mixed with a 13 year old boy and a 9 year old girl that are used to getting everything they want and never doing anything....cant be good.
Me and his daughter got really close and as much as I dont like to admit it, it really hurt me when we couldn't be step sisters anymore. and her brother, he and I were alike in some ways and not in others, he was very carcastic like me which isnt always a good thing but sometimes is. We got along but i was shy and he was a little to. But we had just gotten used to each other when my mom told me they were getting a divorce...i wasn't suprised.
There are many other things about me that I am not going to bore you with because I want you to get to the end without falling asleep...if you have even gotten this far...
Now if you have read this far already which i really dont think you have...then you can ask me a question. I like giving advice...it makes me feel wise, and people tell me i am not to bad at it...so go ahead...its its stupid...you will feel the warth of my sarcasim....but its serious...then i will be as serious as my sarcasim permits....so just find out.
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Is it normal to still be bleeding the day after your first time?
It depends on how much blood there is. If its like a period then no. But if its not much at all then its ok but it shouldnt go on for very long.
Hope this helps!
My friend's family invited me to go to Florida with them this summer. It was rude to say no and they kept insisting, so of course, I agreed.
The problem is that my friend is getting so annoying and mean to me. She always yells at me and makes me feel very insecure and low. I am going to be with her 24/7 for 3 weeks! I don't know what to do now because her family already payed for the tickets and I can't get out of it. She always makes me cry..her family always yells at me and laughs at me behind my back. What can I do to prevent this or prevent myelf from crying? Thanks for answering.
Tell your parents that you really dont feel comfortable going, they wont MAKE you go. Tell her and her fam. now so they can return anything they need to and you can just say you dont feel comfortable being gone for 3 weeks. You shoundt go on a vacation with someone you dont like and someone who doesnt like you....hope this helps!
EDIT: wow no wonder yall ended up being friends...your both BITCHES!!!!!!!!!!!
my name is julie and i really want a new sn because my old one is hyper with numbers and i just want a nice one (i already have sweetjewel with numbers) please help me out, i have an open mind and just kno that i like the number 30907 but i dont really care
jewelzz30907
sexyjulie30907
julez30907
julieqt30907...
just some ideas...hope they help!!
you know on the side where it says search columnists and it brings you to another page then you type in the letter it begins with then it bring you to a whole bunch of columnists and stars next to there names do those stars decrese or go down or does it say the way it is.
i dont really understand your question but if you are talking about the blue stars then thats your rating...id your talking about the gold stars...people have one next to there name if they have paid accounts. Hope this helps...
Ok. Just yesterday I got my driving permit, and I'm a little nervous about driving on the bigger roads. Afraid I'm going to forget to look for signs, miss turns, etc. Anyone got any ways I can just chill and do everything I've learned without /over/doing it? Or maybe I should just start small for awhile, drive around in college lots or my own neighbourhood?
~fellow Advicenator
I felt the same way when i got my permit but i just started slow and since its your permit, your parent will be with you so they can also make sure you are following the rules you are supposed to...when i got my lisence i was very confident and i wasnt that nervous once i got it to drive on my own...
just make sure you remember everything you are supposed to do and start off slow and gradualy get on busier roads...everyone is nervous when they start...just be confident and dont let other people on the road intimadate you...
hope this helps! good luck!!
if a guy is 18...and im 15...doesnt that mean im "underage" for him or something like that? how does all that work? how old do i have to be until im not "underage"? and how am i "underage"? please just tell me how all this works....thanx :o)
yes fifteen is underage to be with an 18 year old.
i have a lot of trouble getting to sleep. i can't switch off wheni go to bed and i feel tired a lot of the time. I have tried cutting out caffiene, herbal sleeping tablets and all the obvious things and nothing works. can you help
try taking a warm bath before bed, maybe a little exersice right before bed to get you a little more tired, turn the clock the other way when you go to sleep so you wont keep staring st it. make sure you are dressing comfortably and make sure your not to hot or cold. hope this helps a little and good luck!
i'm 13/f and i'm thinking about getting contacts.
i'm a little freeked out about putting them in though. does anyone know any goos tips for putting in contact lenses?
~thanks
its not that bad and after you have them in, you don't even feel them. when you are putting them in, make sure there is no dirt or anything on them and dont move your eye around when you are putting them in...taking them out, you just put you rfingers in the pinching position and get them out...when you go to the eye doctor to get them, they will show you haw to do everything and make sure you know how to do it...
The other night , well day actually Me and my 'boy' were just Hanging out, right? Well yes i am young, A minor ( too young for kids either way ) .. Well yeah we hadnt seen eachother in forever .. So yeah we hung out n stuff yeahh.. Then we ended up having..sex & I left blah well Later on, His father ( yess.. can you say Ahh? ) he walked in the room saying he smelt sex & Picked one of the.. four condoms up and realized it was broken, This was around 5-8 or so.. on a Tuesday night, so I'm gona get tested to be safe ( i guess, right thing to do right? ) on Tuesday.. night probably like 9. Well, Do yall think its better to have a plan what to do before I find out, and we need to make one ? Lately alls weve gotten at is, "Shit were gona be even more fucked" , Or should we just worry about it later? Also, He is going to be 18 next year, And I will still be a minor, I am NOT bragging at all I just want help, But we both have very wealthy families.. Not sure how this happened, with bright futures, and How to break it to them? His father knows ones broken though, Whats the best thing to do here? Its kinda crazy, Kinda hard to sleep and eat, with this decision totally on my own.
You are making the right decision to get tested. I am not positivly sure if your talking about a pregnancy test or an STD test. If its pregnancy, then going somewhere isnt going to help. If you truly dont want to have a baby then you should to to any hospital or planned parenthood and get an EC and take them as soon as possible, if that is not an option then you need to wait either 7 days or the day of your missed peroid (which ever is first) and take a pregnancy test. If you are talking about an STD test then you both should go and get tested. You do have a chance of getting pregnant but its not certain. I think you should talk it over with him and decide what you are going to do in either situation. I hope this helps and if you have any more questions, feel free to ask.
i have begged and begged but mom will not let me get my tongue peirced! she says im too young to make that kind of choice.im 13! one of my family members got it done when she was 11 and my mom approves of it! i really want this done but i dont know were to go that will let u with out your parents permission and one of my friends said to do it my self which i thought about but then another friend said that if you hit the wrong spot it can kill but still this is a choice.what should i do?
13 is way to young to be getting anything pierced besides your ears! and no..you cannot do it anywhere without a parents permission before your 18 (ages vary from state to state) and i stongly recommend to not do it yourself, you have nerves in your tongue that you could hit and it could get very infected...just wait..maybe ask your mom again when your 16 or so and if she still says no then wait...
hope this helps and please dont do anything stupid...
ok, i saw on the back of my monster can that you shouldn't drink more than 3 cans per day. i was wondering why? what are some of the risks if you do have more than 3 cans? cause i drink it a lot, and some of my friends even have more than 3. thank you.
It says that because its full of caffine and can get your heart rate going really quick which is not good. And also, with a lot of evergy drink, they will give you a lot of energy but after that you will come out of it hard and get really tired...thats pretty much why they say because its just not good for you to have to much.
Hmm, okey..
I was just wondering which one of these is best:
WinMx
Bearshare
Kazzaa
Imesh
e.t.c
I've heard some of them give you viruses?
So which one is cheap and doesnt give your computer any viruses?
I appreciate any answers =D
Sorry about the spelling mistakes, just that im in a hurry :P
Have a nice day ;)
I use bearshare. Its the best and I have never had any problems with it. ANd its free!
This is a question about doing the laundry. I am not a real laundry-doer so i need some tips and help. HOW do i do the laundry. Heres what i know so far: seperate them into dark, lights, and white (the ones that i bleach). How much soap do I add?? Do i put the clothes in after all the water is filled up, and then put the soap in? Should i pour the soap in along with the running water thats going into the washer so it gets all bubbly? So, clothes, water, soap? Clothes, soap, water? The only dispenser i have on my washer is for the softener (which we dont use) and for the bleach (i use this one alot with the whites.) Someone tell me how to do the laundry please?! Thanks a bunch!
Ok. This is what I do everyone does it different but they all work. Put the clothes in. Start the water (it will show you how much water to put in with how much clothes you put). Then when there is a good amount of water in there then out in your soap. The soap should come with a top. If your washer is full of clothes then you put a full top of soap. If the washer is half full of clothes then you use half of the top full of soap, and so on. Then close the lid. (the soap doesnt have to get bubbly when you pour it in because it will when the washer spins)
I hope that answers all your questions, if not, then drop one in my inbox.
okay.. me and this boy.. used to be good friends.. my mo and his mom are best friends... the thing is i sthat we both uses to have a thing for each other.. and we used to play spin the bottle.... and then i d him b/c our sisters were teasing us... we even went to the beach together for spring break... but now i have deciede that i lik ehim again.. i dont know what to do.. because of our families.. relationship... like if i ask him out.. and he says no.. then we will still see each other.. what should i do? he has never had a friend.. i wil rate high
how about learn how to spell...and re-read before you submit your question...it doesnt make very much sense....
EDIT: get a life??? I am not the one asking a question about a boy 'maybe, kinda' liking me but 'maybe, kinda' not and what I should do?!?!?!?!?
get over it and I am sorry that he doesn't like you but I see his point, I wouldn't want someone who couldn't spell either....
Is it normal to have a late period?..like a 2 week-late period?Also,anyone have websites that would answer my questions please?
yes its very normal for them to be late.
And try www.scarleteen.com
^^ very helpful!!!
well i just got my period on friday (aobut 5 days ago) and i used these pads for a few days..but they are so long and fat in width! so then i went to the store and i got a thiner one width way but then its like really thick! and your can see it through my shorts that i have to wear for volleyball! are there any kinds or brands that i should know of that would work for my problem??? and i was wondering how long it normally takes a girl to learn to use a tampon..scince summer is coming up..i jus got a inground pool so all of my friends will be over here like 24/7! thxs so much!
I use Carefree and they are in small pink packages and they are thin..i use these near the beginning and end of my period...i use pearl tampex tmapons and when u first use tampons its hard to fingure them out at first and it can hurt...but once they are in the right way then you shouldnt feel them...i would wait a little longer before i use tampons if i were you...maybe try at the beginning of summer...
hope this helps..
i was thinking of getting a pedicure for my feet because i really dont like them, the toenails, and i was wondering if anyones got one before what do tthey do? and how much does it cost?? i really need to cost! thanks a bunch
i have gotten them many times. you can do the spa which is a little more expensive (20-30$) and you sit in a massaging chair while they do it or you can do the regular (15-25$) and your in a regular chair...it all depends on where you go...
I was wondering a few things about steroids.
- First, I'm not taking them for sports or anything, I have bad asthma and I have to take them to control my attacks.
1. What are the risks.
2. Do they make you eritible/angry all the time
3. Do they make your muscles large
I'm a girl so I wouldn't want my muscles to be the size of a man's!
No. The kind you are taking are not like the illegal kind that make your muscles bigger. I had to take them also when i get allergic reations (i get them a lot) and you are taking a medical prescription. If there were risks then your doctor would have told you. I remember when i took them he said they may make you drowsy and bloated...but nothing serious...hope this helps!
i have two HUGE hickies on my neck..does anyone know a way to make them go away faster..my mom CANT see them!
thanx =]
the only thing i can think of is concelor...it will definitly cover them up...it wont make them go away any faster but will cover them up...hope this helps!
Would Express clothing store hire a guy?? I was shopping there and really like their clothes... and I figure if I worked there I would get a really nice discount.
i dont see why they wouldnt, they have an express for guys...