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Heyyy, I'm Mary:)I've been on here for over four years--Ask me anything, and I'll try my best to help you out. :)
Alpha female, always tries her hardest, analyzes the situation too much, overthinks what the other person says, tries to please others, stresses easily, high achiever, loooooves to laugh. I'm still learning the facts of life, but I can always share my mistakes and lessons learned. :)
I'm always willing to listen/lend a helping hand. Inbox me and I will be sure to get to you as soon as I can.
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(Before I start I'm 18 and a freshman in college.) I was in a exclusive relationship about 8 months ago. It ended badly and I ended up getting hurt. My boyfriend of 1 year cheated on me, more than once. Anyways ever since then, I'v only had casual relationships, not sex I just wouldn't exclusively date one guy at a time. I met this one guy in class, after we were assigned in pairs for a project. And I started to like him. A lot. And I knew he liked me too, because he was flirting with me and walking me to classes ect. I was taking a walk outside when it was raining (Don't ask me why I just like the rain)and he came up to me when I was sitting on the bench. He said he saw me and wanted to know what I was doing sitting on a campus bench in a rainstorm. By that time it was raining really hard.(Before I go any farther he asked me out twice by then, but he was a boyfriend kind of guy and didn't do casual anymore, so I turned him down) I said I was just going for a walk, and he sat down beside me. We talked for a while in the pouring rain, and then he leaned over and kissed me. It turned into a pretty heavy make out session and I started thinking 'what the hell am I doing, I can't be his girlfriend I'm not gonna put myself in the position to be hurt again'. Anyways I pushed him away away and when he was about to say something I spoke before him. I said "I'm sorry, but this was a mistake, I can't do exclusive realationships, you know that" (Those were my exact words) Even though I really liked him I didn't want to get hurt again. I stood up ready to walk away when he caught my wrist, he said "You can't or you won't, why can't you give a relationship a fighting chance. I really like you, a lot more than you know and I know you feel the same. You and I both know It wasn't a mistake" and then I said "Thats where your wrong" and I walked off. He called my name but didn't try to stop me again. I'v been avoiding him for the last few days, and he's called my cell phone a million times. I don't know what to do, I really really like him. He's sweet, funny, gorgeous, caring, honest (I could go on but I'll spare you)I know he's not my ex but I'm just scared. Scared of what I feel for him and scared I'll get hurt again. When we were kissing everything felt so right. I felt safe and loved and not lost anymore. He's offering me a real relationship, a healthy realtionship. But should I take the chance? What should I do? Is the ball in my court?
The ball's in your court. If I were you, I would give him a chance..we both know you really want to;) ...just the risk of getting hurt again is preventing you, right? Well, what if this opportunity passes by and you regret it later? This could be the next step towards recovering from your past relationship..if you don't take THIS chance with this guy that you really like...then when will you? Just do it..infact, get offline and call him right now:)
I have a really dry face. Especially On my nose and forhead. What do I do??????? S:
moisterize :)
I use Clean & Clear Oil-Free Oxygenating Ultra-Light Moisterizer.
But just because it works for me, doesn't mean it will work for you because we might have different skin types.
Many people I know use Neutrogena, and it works well on them...but when I tried it, my face peeled for like two days.
Just go to a drug-store and look around, and whatever seems to match what you're looking for..try it!:) If your skin has a reaction, it's not for you. OR you could just go to a doctor and he can recommend a specific brand for you:)
I have come to the point where I cant write, concentrate, derive pleasure from anything, have difficulty remembering things, have blurred vision, eyes seriously hurt, sometimes have severe headaches, most of the time dont know what I am talking especially with my elder brother. I have nt got father and mother I live my elder brother and his wife since 6 years. I am 26/M an MBA had a successful career but now since six months things have been deteriorating. I cant bear it any more. Plz tell me the easiest way to commit suicide which hurts less and is quick and doesnt make much of a mess.
I know I'm not in the same position as you..but I can see from from your point of view. I was seriously considering killing myself when a couple years ago..I mean, no one would care right? It's not like I would make a difference in the world. I guess fear stopped me from doing it...fear of the beyond, maybe? Looking back, I'm relieved I didn't go further then thought. I mean, YES, I still have my moments where I am dreading everything I'm going through...yes, I sometimes wish I wasn't here..but those are just little moments that don't count. I've learned to enjoy life even though I have MAJOR imperfections that I know I can't fix. I just have to make use of what's given to me. Anyway, my point is, don't kill yourself. Someone cares for you, even if you don't think so. Everything will get better, because..it always does. As for now, find a trusted friend/family member/counselor..ANYONE to talk to. It REALLY helps to get things out. :)
I was told to remove my makeup with certain cleaners/removers
Then wash my face with hot/warm water
And cleanse it with some cream OR pads.
then wash it off with cold water.
That.. is really not helping me.
What's your routine?
Well, usually I just wash my face at night with Clean & Clear Oxygenating facial scrub with warm water. Afterwards, I apply Clean & Clear oil free Oxygenating Ultra light moisturizer..and that's pretty much it:)
I wear the O2 optix contact lenses- and I always get crap stuck in my eyes and I don't know how to get it out. No one else has this problem and it drives me INSANE!
So does anyone know how to get stuff out of your eyes without removing contacts or using eyedrops or anything?
well, your eyes' natural instinct would be to blink it out. also, don't put makeup on BEFORE you insert your contacts because it is more likely that your makeup will stick to the lens & will be inserted your eyes also. furthermore, make sure that your case is clean everytime you insert your contacts in with the solution. if your case isn't clean, it is a possibility that the unclean stuff in there is getting attached to your contacts. :)
female. senior in high school.
ok so there is this guy, lets call him bob. so last year i saw bob every now and then and always thought he was cute. i saw him again this year like last week for a second. he stayed in the same room as me for a whlie talking to someone i knew and we both for sure made eye contact and saw each other. then i saw him the next day and stuff and we smiled at each other. i know that he recognizes me and stuff and i guess "knows i exist" but just we've never talked but i really want to and i sort of get the feeling he thinks im cute and whatnot. i found his myspace but i dont want to add him cuz that'd be really weird since we've never talked and i dont want him to think im weird/stalker. i dont know how else to start this tho cuz whenever i see him in the hall its for like one second. i really think hes cute and think about him all the time bc theres just something about him. we're not in the same group of friends but i know a couple of his friends but not well enough to get their help. help! what do i do??????
aaahh!!! omgsshh I AM IN THE SAME EXACT SITUTATIONNNNN!!! and i totally understand why you can't add him on myspace--uhh hello?? he'd think you were soo weirddd..right?! sorry i dont really have a definite answer seeing as im in the SAME EXACT situtation and i need advice on this too:) but umm if you have the guts, likeeemaybe when you have the chance to be in the same room again, strike a conversation. -AND I TOTALLY KNOW THE FEELING like you know he thinks you're cute but then you don't wanna assume it because what if there's a TINNNNNNY chance that you're wrong?! At least you can smile to your guy...I have HORRIBLE eye contact with guys I like ahahahah i don't know why. But really, if you want something to happen, you have to take the initiative--b/c ive been waiting for TOO LONG bc i guess im too shy or whatever but yeahh waiting gets me no where:) good luck with everythinnnnnng and if you figure out what to do, fill me in;)
Okay I know you will probably say i'm to young!!!!!! But I know i'm ready for sex so what's the big deal????????
If you say you're ready, do it. But, if you get pregnant, it's your problem, not mine. If you catch an STD, too bad; deal with it. Why are you asking random strangers if you're ready or not? We don't know you--if you think you're ready, and you think you can handle the risk of getting pregnant/getting an STD, feeling regret for losing your virginity--thennnnnn go for it.
What do girls do when they flirt? like how can you tell when they are flirting or just being a friend? any girls out there who can answer this quesition? how do you flirt? i want to know cause i like 2 people and i sometimes think that they are fliriting with me but i'm not sure. thanks!!!!!
actually, not all of that is true..like i laugh at guy's jokes..and i say "ommgg that's soo meannnnn" ALOT..but i'm DEFINETELY not flirting. I also get mad easily..over the STUPIDEST things..soo iddk. but umm if they look/smile at you a lot..try and get close to you whenever/ touch you when theyre talking to you (then again, some people are just touchy-touchy like that) idk it depends on the girl really
Hey,
I'm getting my hair done and i wanna know what color to get..so im gonna ask whats hotter? blondes or brunetts?
i like dark haired guyyys:)
but it also depends on the guy b/c some guys are super hot blonde :)
Hi myself and partner are not married and im trying to decide which surname suits him better mine or my partners
Jack Harte
Or
Jack Stapleton
Im Stuck with the name jack as it really suits him.
Id be grateful for your opinions
Thank you
i like both names! they both fit together really well. if i had to choose one over the other--it would have to be jack stapleton but really, i like both :)
my mom and i switched cameras but she still has pictures on her camera (now mine) and she wants them loaded to a CD because she needs them for work. its just a regular recordable CD. i cant use a floppy because my laptop cant take them but i dont know how to put pictures on a CD. does anybody know how to do this?
please? im not allowed to officially have her camera until i get her pix off!!
well, maybe ya'll can trade memory sticks b/c that's usually where the pictures are held. and then just plug the camera using a usb wire into the computer and download them onto the disc there. once you connect the camera to the computer, you should have a list of options either to save to the computer or download to a disc/etc. sorry if that didn't help!--my camera's a sony cyber-shot--so that's what i would do. :)
ok well everytime i get in the shower like 30 of my hairs fall out and its so disgusting i dont no what its from
please help
Try switching shampoos--although losing hair daily is TOTALLY normal--if it gets to the point where it's too much, try trying a new brand of shampoo. I know that when I used to use Dove (which made my hair feel light and soft), I lose an extraordinary amount of hair...I mean I wasn't bald or anything..lol. But then I switched and now I don't lose as much. =] Hope I helped.
I'm a 14F going into highschool and I'm BARELY 5'1"!! Are there any special foods/excercises that could make me grow?
--Short Freshman.
Ahh I'm sorry! There aren't any foods or exercises that can make you taller. It just depends on your genes and if your parents or tall. Eventually you'll catch up! But heyyy--I'm going to be a Junior and I'm only 5'and half an inch. =[
Sometimes my mom will say hurtful things to me and not even realize it.
"How can you possible have that many texts, you don't have more then 3 friends!"
(Keep in mind, this was after I just lost my boyfriend, best friend, and almost all of my friends so I was very upset from losing them)
"I would buy bigger jeans, you're getting fatter"
Even though I'm a size 1.
I've talked to her about this numerous times, but she just doesn't understand. What should I do?
My mom does that to me sometimes, too. I think maybe it's beause she's stressed or angry and something else--and then decides to take it out on me. Then, I get upset and I take it out on my brother without even noticing sometimes. So I think you should TRY and talk to her about it and if nothing changes, then I think you should get back at her-likeee "Mom, that shirt looks so bad on you!" or "Have you gained weight?"
Hope I helped!
13/F
Im like really loud. I don't know if its like in the annoying way, but I'm like always hyper. Even thought I don't eat things with a lot of sugar. Like I'm really friendy & I love talking to new people. I acuallly just love talking period. So yeah anyways. I don't know if I'm annoying or something. So do you guys think its annoying to meet someone new thats really loud & stuff? if you do how can i change?
I am exactly like you!!! I think it depends on who you are introducing yourself to. If it's someone whose kind of stuck up and conceited, then they would probably think you're obnoxious or something like that. But if you're associating with the kind of person that is exactly like you, then you two would get along great. Also, it's good that you're outgoing because more people will want to be friends with you. Just tone it down a bit when it's not the right time to be loud...you know? I've learned that from experience. =] Good luck.
people who imitate your language and dont even get it right...how do you deal with that? and false stereotypes too.
Well, I usually just ignore them. I mean I get imitated ALL the time. It gets really annoying actually. People mistake me for Chinese--(which I'm not.) and they try to imitate the sounds--you know? Ughhh I get so sick of it but I just ignore them because there's nothing really you can do. I mean you could confront them, but then they'll probably just keep doing it because they know it pisses you off. Also, I HATE false stereotypes...I guess you could say I'm kind of 'preppy'--but it doesn't mean that I'm rich and conceited--but people mistake me for that all the time. So yeahh, the best thing to do is just ignore them. :)
I was at the mall (one far away from where I usually go) with this guy that I'm casually dating and at one point we were separated. I was in Hollister and he went into EB Games or one of those dumb stores.
While I was in there, this guy that worked there came up to me, asked me if I needed help, and was flirting with me. But, even though he was cute and nice, I thought nothing of it because well, most guys that work in Hollister and Abercrombie are like that to get you to buy more clothes, ya know?
Well about 30 minutes later, as my guy was walking up, Hollister boy asked me for my number and if I wanted to do something with him sometime.
Now, even though I'm not serious about the guy I'm dating, I'm not rude. So I didn't think it'd be appropriate for me to get his number while I was with another guy. But now, I can't stop thinking about him!
I want to go back and give him my number and such but I don't know when I should try to go because when you work at places like that, your shifts change like every week. And since it's not the mall I usually go to, I can't go all the time. Any help?
Haha, you're only thinking about him a lot because you're thinking "What if---" You know? But I do think that you should maybe call the Hollister down there and ask them when this guy works (If you got his name)...If you didn't get his name, then maybe you should go back on the same day next week?--I mean I know the shifts change and stuff, but you never know. ;]
i know this is a kinda weird question, but i dont like getting sick, well hey.. no one does. ecspecially in the summer, i dont wanna get sick! so does anyone have any tips on not getting sick? and staying healthy.
drink lots of water & make sure to have your daily dose of fruits and vegies :]
and if you go out into the sun, bring water b/c one time i was so dehydrated and tired from all the sun (sounds weird, i know) that i had blurred vision and i nearly passed out. so keep hydrated!
I'm a 15 year old girl and I know everyone who answers me is going to tell me that love doesn't exist at 15, so I'm going to say, I " like " this guy named Jon. We went out and my friend gave me this birthday present and Jon was like " Where did you get it" and I said " Brad gave it to me for my birthday" and Jon told me to give it back. Jon is very controlling and wont let me get a word in when he's in his controlling moods. I told him I wasn't going to give the present back because it's rude and Brad might think I don't like it and I do. When I said I wouldn't give it back he got mad and of course left me. I asked him later why he even loved me and he just said " I don't, bye. " I was really hurt and I cried for 3 hours. My friends cheered me up for that moment but I'm still upset. What should I do? Thanks in advance.
controlling boyfriends turn into ABUSIVE HUSBANDS. I know you "like" him...but is it worth the pain?? Why would you want someone controlling you like that? You are your own person...you can make your own decisons. As for the gift, don't give it back! It was a gift from a FRIEND. you should explain that to Jon...if he still doesn't understand, dump him. There are HUNDREDS of better guys for you. You deserve better than a control freak.
Could anyone please take a look at this cover letter for me and give me a few tips and hints or tell me how to polish it up? Thank you.
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July 17th, 2005
Store Manager
XXXXXX
Dear Sir / Madam,
I would like to apply for the position of a part-time sales associate at XXXXXX.
I admire the upbeat environment in your store and am sure that I will fit in nicely with your staff and the image XXXXXX portrays to
customers. I am sure that you will find that I will be a hardworking and passionate employee as I am very knowledgeable in fashion and
accessories and am always eager to make shopping an enjoyable experience for anyone who steps into the store.
Thank you for considering me as a potential member of your team. I look forward to hearing from you.
Yours Sincerely,
XXXXXX XXXX.
XXXXXXXXXXXXX@gmail.com
XXXX XXXXXXXXX XXXXX,
XXXXXXXXX, B.C.
XXX XXX
(604) XXX-XXXX
Enclosed: Resume
I agree! It's VERY good!!! It sounds very professional!!! Good Job! ...and good luck with this job :]