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mystery boy
female. senior in high school.
ok so there is this guy, lets call him bob. so last year i saw bob every now and then and always thought he was cute. i saw him again this year like last week for a second. he stayed in the same room as me for a whlie talking to someone i knew and we both for sure made eye contact and saw each other. then i saw him the next day and stuff and we smiled at each other. i know that he recognizes me and stuff and i guess "knows i exist" but just we've never talked but i really want to and i sort of get the feeling he thinks im cute and whatnot. i found his myspace but i dont want to add him cuz that'd be really weird since we've never talked and i dont want him to think im weird/stalker. i dont know how else to start this tho cuz whenever i see him in the hall its for like one second. i really think hes cute and think about him all the time bc theres just something about him. we're not in the same group of friends but i know a couple of his friends but not well enough to get their help. help! what do i do??????
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okay.. so heres what i think you should do.. first of all.. dont be shy, add him to your myspace and talk to him there. tell him that youve seen him around school and you were looking for a friend on myspace and you found him and decided to add him, second of all.. if you see him again at school and he looks at you then say hi, again dont be shy, if you are shy you wont get anywhere.. especially if he is shy too so you cant wait until he makes the first move b/c you dont know when exactly that will be...and then just see where you 2 get from there.. well i hope my advice helped you out so let me kno what u think.. hope to hear from you soon...
Irish Firefighter
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aaahh!!! omgsshh I AM IN THE SAME EXACT SITUTATIONNNNN!!! and i totally understand why you can't add him on myspace--uhh hello?? he'd think you were soo weirddd..right?! sorry i dont really have a definite answer seeing as im in the SAME EXACT situtation and i need advice on this too:) but umm if you have the guts, likeeemaybe when you have the chance to be in the same room again, strike a conversation. -AND I TOTALLY KNOW THE FEELING like you know he thinks you're cute but then you don't wanna assume it because what if there's a TINNNNNNY chance that you're wrong?! At least you can smile to your guy...I have HORRIBLE eye contact with guys I like ahahahah i don't know why. But really, if you want something to happen, you have to take the initiative--b/c ive been waiting for TOO LONG bc i guess im too shy or whatever but yeahh waiting gets me no where:) good luck with everythinnnnnng and if you figure out what to do, fill me in;)
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Well, alot of guys love forwardness and hate those little cat and mouse games. (Those come a bit later) Of course, I'm not suggesting you go up and say "I really like you."
But if you really like him, go out of your way a little bit. If you see him in the hallway, make sure to pass by him and say hi. Or maybe at some dance or project talk to him. Or, on myspace, don't "add" him, but pm him and ask if he would mind be added.
-Zeph
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Ah imfamous myspace. Whatever.
Just add him on there and when he accepts your friendship, send him a MSG not a comment but a msg asking "Haven't I seen you around school before?" and just strike up little conversations with him.
He won't think you're weirtd/stalker lady because..well hello, you guys go to the same school and saw each other a few times.
After you talk to him for a while on myspace, or aim or whateer, when you see him in the hallways at school, just wave hi or smile at him or whatever and the rest..well you figure it out
GOOD LUCK
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