How do i get over my first love, who i was with for 9 months? And he already likes someone new. And, everytime i get around or talk to another guy i just think about my ex. and i dont want to, i just want to be over him. i feel i'v cryed enough =[/. help!
justaskemily answered Wednesday December 6 2006, 1:27 am: You need to try your best to move on, if there is no way you can get back together maybe dont even start dating yet just because he is, go solo for awhile and see what happens.
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Zephyrius answered Tuesday December 5 2006, 11:40 pm: Well, it's hard I know. But no one can just "get over" it. Have you talked to anyone about it? Suprisingly, that can help. If your mother knows about your boyfriend and your breakup, talk to her. Mothers are great, they support and love you.
You can let out all your anger/sadness and know it will stay between you two.
It always hurts when someone gets over faster than you and you think something is wrong, but it's not. You really cared for him and even though it's hard now, time will heal all wounds.
try to know yourself for a while, being single isn't bad. Don't focus on what you are losing by not having a boyfriend but by what you are gaining by not having one.
Well, I hope I helped somewhat. I was a person who got over her ex pretty easily, but I understand why others may not.
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