I am a 17/m and i really like this girl. I have a plan to ask her out. The only problem is that it involves two weeks and Valentines day. The plan is to leave notes in her locker with no name just ending it the same way. Should i go for the two week plan or should i just ask her?
That sounds so cute!!! Do the two week plan thing! It sounds like something from a movie!
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Ever since I was 13 years old, my cousin has been going out with this girl who has always been the same age as me. Also ever since I've never ever liked her that much. I know my cousin loves this girl and all but I dunno what to do about how I feel about her. Most other family members I have know I don't like her but then I dunno what to do anyway. Any suggestions? I'd like to have more prospectives with this situation.
signed,
Lost
Well, it's your cousin's girlfriend, and you've gotta' just respect that. As far as getting along with her, I guess just try to give her a chance, seeing how she's gonna' be a part of your family soon...Maybe at a "family gathering" or something, give her another chance. Just go over and talk to her, keeping an open mind, and maybe you'll see that she's not so bad after all. Or if you're really wanting to make things work with her, see if she wants to hang out sometime. Go to the mall or something. Ya' never know. You might see another side of her and realize that you've got a lot in common. But ya' know, you're not gonna' get along with everybody, and sometimes, you've just gotta' grin and bear it. I mean, you have to deal with other relatives like old smelly annoying aunts that you don't really like, and you manage to live through it. And also, maybe you're just a little *jealous* of this girl because since she's your age, it's almost as if she's taking your place, ya' know? 'Till you were thirteen, it was just you and your cousin hanging out, and how he's got this new girl. Well, hope I helped some! Just offering another "perspective" like you wanted. Adios.
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okay. this girl, tegan, lives with my family. she's only been here 3 weeks and she's already like a sister to me. problem: she likes my boyfriend josh. she is always saying how awesome he is and how he is realy good looking and stuff. and today she was going on about how jealous she is. she keeps saying she wants a guy just like josh! i really really like him. i am not giving him up! i tried setting her up with another guy and for 3 days she was all 'dan this, dan that' and saying how much she likes him. but then she dumped him and is going on about josh again. i tried talking to her but she is all like 'i'm just mucking around' but i can tell she isn't.
HELP!
Ooh that sucks. Well, there's really nothing she can do about it unless Josh decides that he likes her too. I mean, does he even know about this whole thing? If he doesn't, I'd suggest not telling him. What you need to do is just be like, "Hey, Tegan, it's really annoying that you keep talking about how much you like my boyfriend. Could you please lay off?" If she says she's "just joking", tell her that that bothers you too. I think that eventually, she'll give it up. And keep trying with the whole hooking her up with other guys thing!
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theres this girl i really like but she barely knows i exist. she knows i like her because her friend(who is my friend to) knew all the time. im really desperate on advice on how to get her attention p.s im only in 7th grade so dont be so technical
Smile at her. Girls melt when guys smile at them, as simple as it sounds. And talk to her when you get the chance. Flirt a little. And then talk to her friend and maybe see if she can find out if this girl likes you.
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I have a huge crush on this guy and just when he was starting to like me someone told him i was talking about him behind his back and now he wont talk to me. I've been crying my eyes out for hours now and life isnt worth living without him i dont know what to do....please help me im so upset hes the first guy ive ever cried over :( :( :(
Have you tried talking to him one-on-one? You might want to if you haven't. Tell him that you didn't say anything about him, and you're really upset that he isn't talking to you. This might also be a good time to tell him your true feelings about him.....
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my friend knows i like him and i gave him my number today cause my friend gave him the wrong number. and i gave him ahug and he gave me one back. he seems to be protecting me by standing up for me when people make fun of me or when people are stocking me like this one boy who likes me but i don't ike him. does this mean anything that he is standing up for me?! could it be a sign of love?! what should i do to thank him?
Sounds like he likes you. Return his favors by just flirting with him and being there for him when he needs someone to talk to and stuff. Good luck. Sounds like you're on the verge of a new relationship! Woo hoo! Love is in the air.
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this one boy who likes me but i don't like him. he is constantly abusing me by hitting me and squeezing my arm really tight. he and his sister are very stockish and i need to get away what should i do?! he won't stop following me. i've asked my crush to talk to him but he's too scared. what should i do?!
signed,
running from a stocker
You need to tell this STALKER that what he's doing is stupid and wrong, and it doesn't turn you on at all. Don't be afraid to just stand up, look him right in the face, and tell him this. That should get the point across. And if that doesn't work, and you think it's really starting to get serious, tell an adult!
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Ok tomorrow and thursday every 8th grader in the state of Minnesota is gonna take the BST tests. Are there any Minnesotans that have taken the BSTs Before?? Any tips? Thanks
URGENT!
I'm from Georgia, and we take the Iowa Test (lol, weird I know). I've always found them easy except for the math part, cuz' I suck at math.
Ummm...Tips on taking them???
Read every answer super carefully, and one of my old teachers told me that if you're not sure on a question, guess either B. or C., cuz' those are the most commonly correct answer choices (or something like that)
Hope I helped! Just relax! They're no big deal! Just get a lot of sleep tonight, and eat a peppermint before you take the test to "make you think better" (another tip from one of my crazy past teachers) :)
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ok theres this guy at my school whos a junior and im a sophmore and hes soo sweet..hes not really that HOTT but hes not ugly..and he has the BIGGEST crush on me ever...we hang out everyday and stuff and we went to a bonfire together and we held hands and kissed...the thing is...i have a boyfriend of 6 months who i really do love....and ive never cheated on him til now...i totally regret it..and wil never do it again but i feel so bad and now ryan (the guy i kissed) is all upset because i told him i cant cheat on my boyfriend no more and stuff and hes all hurt...but some of my friends knew about what happened and they want me to tell my boyfriend soo bad but i dont want to..i just want to let it go and never do it again :( and ryan calls me 24/7 even when im w/my boyfriend!! idk what to do please help me... :(
Ooohhh...Sticky situation. Okay, here's what I think you should do:
1.) Tell your boyfriend before your friends do. He'll take it a lot better hearing it from you for the first time and will probably be a lot more likely to forgive you.
2.) Tell Ryan that you are not doing that ever again and that he needs to respect you for that, and tell him if he ever wants to have a chance with you, he'll cut it out.
3.) Never cheat on your boyfriend again!!!
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Ok. There is this boy that i liked for over a year. i met him when i moved here from flordia. And we became friends right away! and we were kindof going out or whatever. We were getting really close untill i had to move again and we talk on the phone everynight and talk about how much we miss eachother. and he tells me all the time that i will make a perfect wife. Ok know here is where the bad news comes from Im moving back to florida and he is really upset he thinks that i will find someone hotter than him and never come back to see him and just forget about him or something. Ok my question is do you think that we will still talk and maybe work out a relationship together??? Or will we slowly fade away from each other??? ~~~~~~I RATE HIGH~~~~~~~~
Aggh...Been there, done that. It's horrible. Now, don't rate me a 1 when I say this, but it prroooobbbabbly won't work out. :/ As much as you think you're perfect for each other, it DOES usually fade away. I mean think about it. You're young. You can't expect yourselves to stay loyal to one person that you never see. It's a huge world out there. There's a very slim chance that you've found your soulmate already.
But now......Don't take that completely seriously....There is always that slight chance that it could work...I was just giving the most-likely-to-happen, realistic answer possible.
Good luck to you...I know that stuff like this hurts SO BAD!!!!
And remember: If it doesn't work out now, there's always that chance that you'll run into him again someday, if it's really meant to be.
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what should a girl get for her boyfriend for valentines day?
Oh gosh. There are millions of cute ideas for Valentines' Day gifts. There's always the classic stuff like a sweet love letter, a box 'o' chocolates, and a big tacky stuffed animal that says, "I LOVE YOU!" across its stomache. Or you could get him something based on what he's interested in. Like.....If you know his favorite band, you could get him a CD, just as long as you make sure he doesn't already have it. Or you could burn one and put a picture of the two of you in the front of the little case, if that makes sense. Cologne is good too, if he's into that kinda' stuff. Or a shirt. It really depends on how long you've been dating and how much money you're willing to spend. All the stuff I listed up there ^ pretty much ranges in price from cheapest to the most expensive.
Hmmm.....I think that's all I've got for ya'! If I think of something else, I'll edit this answer! Hope I helped though!
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okay my b/f is really into me... like he says that i am his world and he's always saying how much he adores me... well the problem is he has a bad past. he slept around alot and i'm not into that. he knew from the start - before we even started dating - that i'm a proud virgin. he is cool with that but when we are in public, ike at the mall or something, he cant keep his hands off me. it's really embarrasing and i dont know how to react. how can i confront him about this??? Please Help!!
Ya' just gotta' tell him that you don't like it when he puts the moves on you in front of other people. Tell him that you're not embarrassed of him or anything, it's just that you're not into the whole PDA thing. It sounds like he really respects you as it is. I mean, he went from sleeping around to not having sex at all if that's what it takes to be with you. This sounds like it would be nothing compared to that. Just tell him nicely to lay off it in public, and if he really respects you like he should (and it sounds like he does), then he should understand and not do it anymore.
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i have a friend (thing is, she's a chick) and i am starting to have.. well.. feelings for her?.. as more than just a friend. i guess you can say we're best friends although we're REALLY different.. and idk. she's helped me get through so many things (like anorexia, cutting, suicide attempts, etc) and i really care about her..
basically i just don't wanna scare her off if you know what i'm saying.. i'm sooo sick of guys and how they're so oblivious to emotions and i guess i just wanna experiment with a qirl for once.. and ehh.. i just don't know. i get butterflies in my tummy whenever we talk and its just getting soo akward. what can i do?? and i *DO* rate.
Well first of all, look for signs that she has the same kind of feelings for you as you do for her, ya' know? Cuz' if you come out and say something to her, and she doesn't feel the same way, it could DEFINITELY mess up the friendship. And I'm assuming that you'd rather just be friends than be nothing at all, right?
And if you really feel that she'd be interested in experimenting with another girl also, THEN come out and tell her how you feel.
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okay so im goin out with this boy and im like crazy about him and hes known ta b a playa and im aware of that. and ive kinda been holdin back. well he told me that hes liked me more than ever! and that he is really happy with me and that he relly does love me and that he never wants ta b apart from me.. well this valentines im scared ta buy him n e thing this soon cuz everyday i wake up thinkin hes gonna break up with me and he knows how i feel and he kinda gets upset but we can talk about n e thing! and we do! we talk about every thing i guess im just paraniod but wut shouldi do? does it sound like he really does like me?!?
I've been in that situation before. I ended up buying my guy some chocolate and stuff, and then right before Valentines' Day, we broke up. I ate all his chocolate, and it was DAMN GOOD!!! LOL. So yeah, I'd buy something to be on the safe side, and if things fall through, keep it for yourself!!!
But based on what you said, it sounds like he still really likes you.......I think you need to come out and tell him exactly how you feel about him, that you're crazy about him and all that. Don't hold back. And then as much as it sucks, you just have to trust him...Trust me, I know what it's like being paranoid. I'm the same way. I'm convinced that my boyfriend is too good for me and doesn't really like me and is gonna' cheat on me. But, there's nothing you can really do, ya' know? If he says he loves you, believe him. If cheats on you, it's not your fault.
Don't pass up a great relationship by trying to convince yourself that things are too good to be true. Just enjoy it. If he says he loves you, he loves you.
Happy early Valentines' Day!
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I really need a lot of help on getting over my ex boyfriend. I went out with him for 9 months and we loved eachother and everything*. but we broke up like 4 months ago and since he was my first love and first and only person to have sex with.. i was absolutly in love with him. But now he has a new gf and i need to move on. I sorta like this kid and he likes me a lot too but i just need help .. i can't like picture myself with any1 else yet.Nothings like 'clicking' with any1 esle.. nothings the same. Help please- i'll rate
You need to surround yourself with a million different things like going out and partying with your girlfriends, schoolwork, after school stuff like sports and junk, this new guy that you think you might like...Just try your absolute hardest to completely put this guy out of your mind. Think of it as you moving on to bigger and better things. Eventually, you'll realize that you're better off without him.
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My friend is acting all weird now because she started to be able to shop at abercrombie and fitch. She acts all like preppy and tries to now hang out with the popular kids. I miss the old her what should i do
It's just a phase she's going through. In her mind, by wearing A&F clothes, she's automatically labeling herself as "cool." Pretty soon though, she'll figure out that clothes don't make a person cool. You could try talking to her about it, but really, the best thing to do is let her learn the hard way and then be there for her when it's all over with. Lots of girls go through that, and it'll go away eventually.
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What do you get for a Male who is 16 likes heavy metal music, likes family guy, and doing dnagerous stunts?!
Maybe tickets to a concert that one of his favorite bands is playing??? That is, if they're coming to where you live anytime soon.
Or you could do the whole Family Guy DVD thing that everyone else has suggested.
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My crush knows i like him and he likes me too! should i get him something for v-day?! what if he doesn't get anything for me?! what do i do?!
(( i'm so CONFUSED ))
Don't be confizzled, my friend. I'd get him something. And to guarantee that he'll give you something too, I'd maybe chit chat a little with one of his friends. You could say something like, "Yeah...I'm thinkin' about gettin' so-n-so something for Valentines' Day...Could you maybe tell him that you heard I was getting him something and tell him he should get me something too or find out if he's already planning on it?" That way, you don't have to deal with the awkwardness of getting someone a present and receiving nothing in return. But since you both like each other, he's probably planning on getting you something already!!!
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my bf and i have been dating for a couple weeks and i asked him if he wanted to come to my granpas superbowl party that he has every year and he said he'll go! but now that i really think about it, it doesn't sound like a good idea becuz my family is CRAZY about football and i didn't know that its my dads 41st birthday dinner that nite, and i don't think that its the rite time! my family is really over protective of me cuz im the only girl besides my lil cuz thats 7! but neways im afraid there gonna make him feel uncomfortbale! and im not sure what to do soo please help
To me, that sounds like an awesome opportunity for him to meet your fam!!! It won't be the typical "boyfriend-sits-down-with-family-at-the-dinner-table-and-there's-a-huge-awkward-silence-for-an-hour" type thing. There will be tons of other stuff going on. And a lot of times, guys like it when they get to see the REAL side of their girlfriend's family, if you know what I mean. Like, normally, parents never act like themselves around their kid's friends/boyfriends/girlfriends. They try to act all proper and all. But at this party, they're probably gonna' be less likely to be like that since they're really passionate about football and will be screamin' and hollering at the T.V. and stuff. It sounds weird, but it might actually make him feel MORE comfortable. And you can just be like, "Yup...That's my crazy family for ya'..." And since the focus won't be all on him, it'll leave time for you two to just spend some time together and hang out.
I dunno', in my personal opinion, it sounds like you should still let him go. But ultimately, it's up to you and what you think would be best. You know your family better than me. Good luck to ya', and I'm sure it'll all work out.
Much love, Berri
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I like someone and my crush likes me too. Whenever he tells me to call i make up an excuse not to because i get really nervous. Hes getting sick of it what should i do ?
Don't let nerves make you pass up an awesome opportunity!!! Don't be afraid to call him. It'll be fine. I think you should call him and just totally be yourself. Guys like a genuine girl who's not afraid to say what she's thinking and feeling. Talk about whatever you have a crazy urge to talk about. That makes for the best conversations. And if you don't know that much about each other yet, ask him questions! If you do know him pretty well, just talk about random stuff that's going on at school. Good luck to ya'. It'll all be FINE.
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