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Public Displays of Affection
okay my b/f is really into me... like he says that i am his world and he's always saying how much he adores me... well the problem is he has a bad past. he slept around alot and i'm not into that. he knew from the start - before we even started dating - that i'm a proud virgin. he is cool with that but when we are in public, ike at the mall or something, he cant keep his hands off me. it's really embarrasing and i dont know how to react. how can i confront him about this??? Please Help!!
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thats awesome that you are a proud virgin.. thats so respectable. but anyways if you are really important to him then he should respect the fact that you dont like PDA. i personally dont like when people do that in public but just tell him not to do it and be strict about it. about his past.. find out whether or not he regrets having slept with other girls.. that might be important to know and it could make a difference for you if he does regret it. but just keep in mind that hes with you now and everything else is in the past.. try your best to just put it out of your mind. hope i helped!!
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I don't know if this is much help but, talk to him about it, tell him how you feel and what you wild like to happen and stop happening. If he really cares for you he'll chill out, repect your wishes, and work on changeing that habbit, i hope i helped you! good luck!
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tell him one on one that you really don't like it...you have to tell him when both of you are alone or else if you tell him when his friends are around he might become embarassed
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well if hes like grabbing your ass or something and you dont want him to then just back away and be like...i dont really want you touchin me there right now because since were in public i might see my aunt or someone i know and ill be in trouble if they see you all over me...and then just like hold his hand or something.....
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Next time he does something like that, take his hands, put them where they belong and say, "Cut that out. I don't it."
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Ya' just gotta' tell him that you don't like it when he puts the moves on you in front of other people. Tell him that you're not embarrassed of him or anything, it's just that you're not into the whole PDA thing. It sounds like he really respects you as it is. I mean, he went from sleeping around to not having sex at all if that's what it takes to be with you. This sounds like it would be nothing compared to that. Just tell him nicely to lay off it in public, and if he really respects you like he should (and it sounds like he does), then he should understand and not do it anymore.
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Just be like i dont feel comfortable with you being so touchy touchy feely feely with me in public places! im just not into it! just tell him how you feel about the whole situation and im sure he will understand if he tells you he adores you and cares about you! he should care how you feel and if you are comfortable with wat he does or not! well i hope i helped if you need anything just ask*
-Caitlin
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Well if he is really into touching you in public and you dont like it just talk to him about it. I know it will be hard but just say in public it gets kind of embarresing and just keep making like little signs to him that you are proud to be a virgin so then he will keep remembering lol you know boys when it comes to things like that they cant keep there mind off it so jus keep letting him know hope i helped if you need to talk anymore im me on juiciexobabe..
karrie <3 xo0oX
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just tell him to stop when he does that! he might get mad but it could possibly save you your virginity and it will save you all the embarassnent! hope this helps!
~Alyssa
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talk to him. if he cares about you as much as he says he does then he wont mind.
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