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My friend is acting all weird now because she started to be able to shop at abercrombie and fitch. She acts all like preppy and tries to now hang out with the popular kids. I miss the old her what should i do
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You have to talk to her. Tell her how you feel, if she doesnt want to listen then, i hate to tell you she wasnt a true friend. And explain to her that now that she shops at abercrombie, nothing is changing exept her attitude and the other kids only care about looks not personality!
♥ Michelle
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talk to her... just tell her that you dont like how she's acting. if she gets mad,leave her alone, thats her loss.~shortie~
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hey. theres not much you can do. you could hint to her that you think that shes starting to act different. otherwise just let things flow, you'll find out who her real friends are. shes probably just trying to find herself. if hses a good friend, she'll come back to you. hwop this helped, peace and love.
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you are jelous because your friend is cool and u aint.. so deal with it...
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theres nothing special about shopping at A&F. maybe youu should slap the bitch and tell her to grow up. that she is still you she is and the people who nevr hung out with her before are not going to change that just because she is wearing A&F. no way in hell.
wtf!?!?!
both of you really should get over this little issue you guys have.
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tell her how you feel about it. say that you miss how she used to act or you could possibly hang around her when she's w/ the pops. hope this helps!
~Alyssa
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This may go against what most kids your age can understand but thats a plus for you! When you see your friend, compliment her. Tell her how good she looks in her new cloths, and how you are happy for her. Chances are the new crowd shes hanging with see her as a "wanna be" You on the other hand are a true friend and she will see that if you dont let the phase shes going thru get to you.
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Ask her questions and stuff, dont be round the bush just let her know!!
-stephanie
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ask her about it. she just got swept up in the whole popularity thing and lost herself. she'll find herself again.
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It's just a phase she's going through. In her mind, by wearing A&F clothes, she's automatically labeling herself as "cool." Pretty soon though, she'll figure out that clothes don't make a person cool. You could try talking to her about it, but really, the best thing to do is let her learn the hard way and then be there for her when it's all over with. Lots of girls go through that, and it'll go away eventually.
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Well I know you want to snap her back into reality but that could be hard. You just need to have a day where its just you 2 hanging out going to the mall & a movie. Like have a sleepover then talk to her about it and ask why she is changing so much wasnt she happy before. You need to bring it up to her otherwise she wont notice on her own-trix
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You need to talk to her and tell her that you miss the old her and tell her how you feel about the way she changed. If she's your friend, she will understand. You can't really do anything about her changing because she can do what ever she wants but if you talk to her, I'm sure she'll understand. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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