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a friend.. being more than just friends.
(14/f)
i have a friend (thing is, she's a chick) and i am starting to have.. well.. feelings for her?.. as more than just a friend. i guess you can say we're best friends although we're REALLY different.. and idk. she's helped me get through so many things (like anorexia, cutting, suicide attempts, etc) and i really care about her..
basically i just don't wanna scare her off if you know what i'm saying.. i'm sooo sick of guys and how they're so oblivious to emotions and i guess i just wanna experiment with a qirl for once.. and ehh.. i just don't know. i get butterflies in my tummy whenever we talk and its just getting soo akward. what can i do?? and i *DO* rate.
<3 -confused
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well, try and talk and act to her in a way that kinda shows you like her.if she sees over a time period that you might like her she might accept it,and start having similar feelings.
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i know where your coming from all though ive never been in a situation like that.you should tell her and yes you might scare her off but its worth taking a chance.remember life is all about taking risks.good luck and if you have anymore questions just ask
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yeah, guys suck thats why i straight. id recommend finding out if she even likes girls before you do anything. she could even be homophobic, ask her waht she thinks about gay marriege and work from there.
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dear.confused
it sounds like you need to let her know how you feel about her and see what she says.and then go from there
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first i want to say im gratefull theres another guy on this site. now 2 say the least if you really like her then you should tell her or at least ask if she has a boyfriend. that should easely get you somwhere and she deos, wait if she brakes up with him. i hope this is good enough advice
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welL if y0u waNt t0o liKe qiRlsz .. ppL sHouLd except y0u for that .. but y0u frieNd miqht baCk away & miqht not liKe y0u cusz she int0o quuysz ..
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im 13/f and iv always thought what that would be like too. i want to try, but idk who and make sure the girl is the right person...
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Well first of all, look for signs that she has the same kind of feelings for you as you do for her, ya' know? Cuz' if you come out and say something to her, and she doesn't feel the same way, it could DEFINITELY mess up the friendship. And I'm assuming that you'd rather just be friends than be nothing at all, right?
And if you really feel that she'd be interested in experimenting with another girl also, THEN come out and tell her how you feel.
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i am also a bi female. there is nothing wrong with having feelings for a girl. its all natural. and dont let anyone tell you that its just a phase. love is not a phase. just write a her a letter telling her how you feel.. a letter is always the easiest way to say your true feelings. tell her that you are afraid that you might scare her off and you might lose her a best friend, which if she is a real friend, you wont lose her. let me know if i helped!!
<3 holly
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well if you have feelings for her you should really tell her so then she will be aware the longer you wait to tell her the harder it will get* you should jus tell her how you really feel. weLl hopE i heLpeD if u neEd tO talk iM mE > juiciExobabe *
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Well just talk to her and tell her your feelings for her...and then see how she feels about you i mean just tell her everything and im sure she will understand wat your feeling... for your sake i hope that she may have feelings back! well i dno wat else to say but just be straight forward with her and dont hold anything back! well i hope i helped good luck! if you need anything just ask*
-Caitlin
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before you go risking a relationship you need to know that what you feel is real. if it is then maybe you can talk to your friend. dont say you like her, just say that you aren't ure of your sexuality. if she's a good friend she'll understand. if she shows interest then go for it. but remember, are you willing to risk your friendship on a crush?
~ANGE
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you just need to tell him the truth, tell him that you are unconfortable when he does things like that, but dont be harsh about it..... and if he wont stop then maybe you guys werent meant to be together good luck!!!!
-donny
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