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Question Posted Monday January 31 2005, 6:31 pm

Ok. There is this boy that i liked for over a year. i met him when i moved here from flordia. And we became friends right away! and we were kindof going out or whatever. We were getting really close untill i had to move again and we talk on the phone everynight and talk about how much we miss eachother. and he tells me all the time that i will make a perfect wife. Ok know here is where the bad news comes from Im moving back to florida and he is really upset he thinks that i will find someone hotter than him and never come back to see him and just forget about him or something. Ok my question is do you think that we will still talk and maybe work out a relationship together??? Or will we slowly fade away from each other??? ~~~~~~I RATE HIGH~~~~~~~~

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lilangelshan08 answered Tuesday February 1 2005, 8:14 am:
i hate to tell you this and you prolly don't want to hear it but, long distance relationships almost never work out, there are some rare times when it does but the people involved would have to be very deeply in love. there might be no chance for a relationship but the two of you can always remain friends
*~*shan*~*

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sToLeNxOxKiiSs answered Monday January 31 2005, 10:01 pm:
you will problly fade away from each other it depends on where he lives.my advice would be to just be freinds untill you get your mind together because chances are it wont work.im sorry about you moving again it must be very hard...good luck if you need any more advice just ask

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mysticpixie05 answered Monday January 31 2005, 7:24 pm:
well truthfully, i think you will able to maintain a freindship, nothing more, nothing less. however i think that as time goes by, you will both grow apart fromeach other. slowly fade away more and more each day until there is nothing left. you may not like that answer but atleast it is an honest one. it is better than the bullshit answers some people will give you just to get a good rating. and just to let you hear what you want. well mines not and i dont care how low or how high you rate me. and i dont care about rating in between low and high. i dont care about ratings at all, just as long as the advice i give is truthful.

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Berri answered Monday January 31 2005, 7:04 pm:
Aggh...Been there, done that. It's horrible. Now, don't rate me a 1 when I say this, but it prroooobbbabbly won't work out. :/ As much as you think you're perfect for each other, it DOES usually fade away. I mean think about it. You're young. You can't expect yourselves to stay loyal to one person that you never see. It's a huge world out there. There's a very slim chance that you've found your soulmate already.


But now......Don't take that completely seriously....There is always that slight chance that it could work...I was just giving the most-likely-to-happen, realistic answer possible.

Good luck to you...I know that stuff like this hurts SO BAD!!!!

And remember: If it doesn't work out now, there's always that chance that you'll run into him again someday, if it's really meant to be.

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xpianogirl89x answered Monday January 31 2005, 6:52 pm:
Honestly? That's entirely up to you.. do you still love him? It sounds like you do... Relationships come from 2 sides so to make it last you have to both work for it. I don't think you'll just fade away. Tell him that you've talked to him every night now for awhile and you could never just "forget about him" I think you'll still have a relationship but that's really your decision.. good luck! If you need anymore advice let me know..

Hope I helped!
~Lana

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DeeplyInLove102203 answered Monday January 31 2005, 6:40 pm:
well just try and keep in touch call him every day and talk to him about how things are going im sure it will work out just fine! well thats all the advice i can give ya sry its not a lot! well if you need anything just ask*

-Caitlin

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kaRriE_xOo answered Monday January 31 2005, 6:39 pm:
Well from experience i'm sorry to say that you will slowly fade away . Long distance relationships are very hard to do and you might find someone out there but if its ment to be with you nd that kid then it will work out but most likley it will fade away maybe you guys will become very close of friends but not a relationship because its to hard. I had that problem to but mine wasnt even that bad we were only a city away and it was even hard then and we slowly faded away and it hurt but i got over it and found someone else . well i hope i helped if not im me on juiciebabexo

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angieroonie answered Monday January 31 2005, 6:37 pm:
long distance relationships CAN work. if you put in the effort. you have to be willing to visit him at every opportunity and talk all the time. if you are willing to do this then go for it. better to end later then now if you still like him!

~ANGE

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