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How should I cope with my cousin's fiancee?
Ever since I was 13 years old, my cousin has been going out with this girl who has always been the same age as me. Also ever since I've never ever liked her that much. I know my cousin loves this girl and all but I dunno what to do about how I feel about her. Most other family members I have know I don't like her but then I dunno what to do anyway. Any suggestions? I'd like to have more prospectives with this situation.
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Lost
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It's not your decision, nor your families, to make as far as who your cousin dates. He obviously likes her for a reason and he probably knows her better than you and his family. Get over it.
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talk to your cousin and tell him that you're not comfortable, just remember that in the end it's his decision not yours
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well theres a lot of people that your going to meet that you wont "like" you'll either learn to get over it .. or you'll just have to deal with them. unless they're a really close cousin you wont see them that much anyway right? i hope i helped
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Well, it's your cousin's girlfriend, and you've gotta' just respect that. As far as getting along with her, I guess just try to give her a chance, seeing how she's gonna' be a part of your family soon...Maybe at a "family gathering" or something, give her another chance. Just go over and talk to her, keeping an open mind, and maybe you'll see that she's not so bad after all. Or if you're really wanting to make things work with her, see if she wants to hang out sometime. Go to the mall or something. Ya' never know. You might see another side of her and realize that you've got a lot in common. But ya' know, you're not gonna' get along with everybody, and sometimes, you've just gotta' grin and bear it. I mean, you have to deal with other relatives like old smelly annoying aunts that you don't really like, and you manage to live through it. And also, maybe you're just a little *jealous* of this girl because since she's your age, it's almost as if she's taking your place, ya' know? 'Till you were thirteen, it was just you and your cousin hanging out, and how he's got this new girl. Well, hope I helped some! Just offering another "perspective" like you wanted. Adios.
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hmmm...
are there certain reasons why you don't like her?
if there are, are they good reasons?
I think you should be happy for your cousin AND for her since she's lucky to have your cousin(since he loves her)
But I believe you should try and get along w/her.
If that's just plain impossible, that's okay. Not everyone in the family gets along.
She should get the hint that you don't really like her. Just keep your distance and comments to yourself. She shouldn't bother you.
Hope I helped you out any:)
~Diamyn~
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You should put your feelings aside, just because he loves her doesnt mean you have to.
~Nokomis~
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