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friend...b/f....
sorry this is long.
okay. this girl, tegan, lives with my family. she's only been here 3 weeks and she's already like a sister to me. problem: she likes my boyfriend josh. she is always saying how awesome he is and how he is realy good looking and stuff. and today she was going on about how jealous she is. she keeps saying she wants a guy just like josh! i really really like him. i am not giving him up! i tried setting her up with another guy and for 3 days she was all 'dan this, dan that' and saying how much she likes him. but then she dumped him and is going on about josh again. i tried talking to her but she is all like 'i'm just mucking around' but i can tell she isn't.
HELP!
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Why don't you talk to Josh about it. I'm sure he'll ease your mind and that way he'll be warned if she tries to make a move on him. Plus, if she really was bothered about it, I think she would have been more honest with you. Remember, he chose you, not her. I know it's annoying at the moment, but I'm sure she'll get over him soon and move onto someone new. Good luck
Be happy and don't worry so much
Claire xx
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then you had better watch your back, make sure that she's not just being nice to you for your boyfriend, don't let your gaurd down and keep being freindly to her, tell josh that she might be trying to take him away and to promise you that he doesn't like her nor is he intersted in her
*~*shan*~*
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I would just try and ignore her. Yes, she's still your friend, but just because she likes him, doesn't mean he likes her in return. She kind of sounds jealous about what you have, so setting her up with someone else didn't work and probably won't work in the future. She'll find someone else to rave about, just give her some time.
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Just tell her that you absolutly agree. Josh is awesome and wonderful- which is exactly why you love having him as your boyfriend. Just tell that your happy she likes him, but it makes you uncomfterble when she talks about him so much. tell her that you totally trust her, and know she's not going to do anything with him, but that if she can help it, itd make you feel better if she didn't gush about him so much.
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Ooh that sucks. Well, there's really nothing she can do about it unless Josh decides that he likes her too. I mean, does he even know about this whole thing? If he doesn't, I'd suggest not telling him. What you need to do is just be like, "Hey, Tegan, it's really annoying that you keep talking about how much you like my boyfriend. Could you please lay off?" If she says she's "just joking", tell her that that bothers you too. I think that eventually, she'll give it up. And keep trying with the whole hooking her up with other guys thing!
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:( Liking your best friend's b/f is not cool.
I would definitely watch her becuz the moment you and your guy split, she'll be all over him like grass on the ground. but since you already tried hooking her up w/another guy, and that didn't work, I think you and her need to have a heart-to-heart talk. I think you really need to straighten this out b4 something bad happens. Hope I helped some.
~Diamyn~
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keep on telling her its your bf, not hers. She can obviously get guys, and if she wants, dump them after three days. Tell her there are other guys for her, but josh is for you.
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