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Ok im sorry if this is long but here is my problem....I dont think im attractive i think i am over weight...I always think my friends are mad at me and at times i can be a bit immature...I havent had a real boyfriend only stupid 2 week things and i think its time for sumthing real but i dont know what to do..all of my close family lives in Rhode Island so i never get to see them and my parents fight constantly..This is not how a 16 year old deserves to live...i am so stressed and its affecting how i work and my grades in school..Some times i just go driving around to clear my head...half the times i feel myself crying....On some weekends i tell my parents i am going out with friends and i take the car and i sit in parking lots and cry becuase i dont want my parents to think i have no friends and all i do is sit at home...but i truly have no friends...i am caring but i guess thats not good enough for some people...Please i am in desperate need of help...I wanna stop crying myself to sleep and when i tell my parents i am going to hang out with friends i wanna mean it...I rate! Thanks bunches....
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YOU HAVE NOT HAVE A BOYFRIEND FOR TWO STINKING WEEKS SO WHAT?HOW ABOUT US PEOPLE THAT ONLY HAD ONE GIRL(OR BOY) FRIEND AND IT WAS FORCED.as for advice you need some serious help sister go see the school qwack and get your parents to a counceller but by that piont it is always too late to repair the lost love(if it ever existed)
feeling sorry and sad
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Many people don't think that they are very attractive and over weight. You could probably make yourself feel better if to started working out and excercising more and watching what you eat. You could also maybe find someone who could run with you and make a friend there.There are many ways to make new friends. Find something that you are good at and have a drive for.Then if you find people with the same interest it will be easy to make friends. And you need to stop feeling sorry for yourself and crying. Life is hard everywhere. Make a list of what you are thankful for and goals you want to get reach to make your life more enjoyable for you.
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I'm so sorry, I think tha you are having your problems with your friends because you are so upset about you family situations. Think about it. One other thing, just because you haven't had a serious boyfriend, does not mean that their isn't one to come, it does not mean that you are unattractive, it just means that you haven't found someone worth your time. You do not need to rely on someone else to supply you with happiness. I hope I helped.
~Nokomis~
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Aww...That's so sad. I totally see how you feel. You could try joining a bunch of clubs/sports at school (as cliche as that sounds). It really works though. You meet a ton of people with the same interests as you. It's how I met my boyfriend. And join up at a local gym like L.A. Fitness or somewhere. Working out and losing weight makes you feel sooo good and confident about yourself, and it's also yet another way to meet people. Just keep in mind that things WILL work out in the end. Keep working hard in school. Show that you're passionate about stuff. Speak your mind. People will see that you're a cool person and be attracted to you. Hope I helped! If ya' wanna' know anything else, drop me a line. Ciao babe!
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