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Ok I have really really thin lips. Like my ring finger covers my lips if I put it on them. I've never actually kissed a boy before except in a truth or dare game and that was just a quick peck, so I'm not that experienced. The boy that I'm getting close to now has really big lips, maybe the size of your middle+index finger put together. I really want to kiss him but I'm self-consious about how small my lips are. Does anybody have any tips on what I should do?
*remember...ring finger+index & middle finger=???
thanx...
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Please don't worry yourself about the size of your lips. It means nothing.
People have all different size and shaped lips. It isn't something that's real noticeable to most people unless its mentioned. And as far as kissing goes, you will do fine when the time comes lip size will make no difference. :)
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does anyone know what the website is where it gives you sex tips? .. ive seen it posted on here a couple times a long time ago and i cant find it .. (link)
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Maybe this is the one you want.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_intercourse
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A guy friend of mine just recently announced that he was moving to another province for a job, that was about a 10 hour drive from where I live.
I was hoping that one day we would be bf and gf, so I was quite upset when he told me he was moving, and I said it was probably the last time we would see each other.
Well then HE got upset and said he was still going to visit me. Then when I invited him over he told me he would give me his old computer. Well he was true to his word, and gave it to me the next day.
My question is: Do you think it sounds like he is into me as more than a friend? I think he does because he just offered me his computer, he didnt ask for it. Also he got really upset when I said we would probably never see each other again. I think he gave me the computer so would could contact each other.
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That was my first thought. He wants to make sure you can keep in touch with him. Sounds like he was serious about it. He definitely likes you.
I don't know if your relationship will progress past the friends stage so long as he is 10 hours away, but it might if you both work hard at it.
Good luck, and keep in touch with him. Sounds like a good guy. :)
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Me and this guy were talking for a couple of weeks. We went on dates and had so much fun. Then we just stopped talking because we got mad at eachother. That was about a month an a half ago. I still like him and want to call him but if i do then i'll seem like a total dork. I need some advise on what i should do. I mean I want to start dating him again but i don't want to be the one to that calls him first. Should i just move on because he's not into me anymore, obviously, or what should i do? (link)
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Could be hes sitting at home thinking the same thing you are!
Lack of communication does in so many relationships it isn't even funny. If you still like him, go tell him so. If he doesn't feel the same then at least you'll know it for sure. It would be easier to move on if that doubt were erased from your mind.
It won't make you a dork. Just say to him, look...I shouldn't have gotten so mad. I enjoyed the time we spent together and I miss it. I'd like to give it another try if you feel the same.
Waiting for a guy to make the first move could have you waiting forever. So, go tell him how you feel.
Good Luck! :)
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for some reason the games on my msn don't work.. like the invitation is accepted but then it keeps on saying that it isn't like.. available or something so is it something wrong with my comp? i use dialup.. (link)
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I don't know if this will help you or not but, here is what has happened to me.
I have windows XP. My mom has windows 98.
She can't play MSN games with me because her computer doesn't have the same capabilities as mine does. So I get the message that it won't play because she has an older version.
Sorry if that doesn't help much. Just thought I would throw it in. :)
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You offered other links for Christmas ideas? :) That would be great, gimmie all ya got! lol Thanks again! Youre a great Advicenator! (link)
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OK, I add new ones all the time this first one is full of links to some different craft sites. I haven't checked them out yet but I will send it to you.
http://www.craftsitedirectory.com/
Heres some more. Hope you find something good!! :)
http://www.bhg.com/bhg/family/index.jhtml
http://www.hgtv.com/hgtv/crafting/0,1788,HGTV_3352,00.html
http://www.worldofchristmas.net/christmas-crafts/index.html
http://www.imagitek.com/xmas/crafts/
http://www.i-craft.com/
http://www.craftown.com/
http://www.kidsdomain.com/craft/
http://www.make-stuff.com/
http://familycrafts.about.com/
http://www.frugalchristmas.homestead.com/index.html
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Is finding the right gift! What can I get/make for my friend for Christmas? I have no cash but I want to make something really nice. She's getting me something great for christmas so I want to get her something equally great. No scrapbooking.. she's already done that.. What can I make that's personal? Please help! I rate! (link)
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I am sending you a few of the links in my collection. If you don't find anything interesting on them let me know because I have some more. :)
http://oldfashionedliving.com/holidays/main.html
http://www.sacredspiral.com/crafts/
http://www.readersdigest.ca/christmas/home_made_gift/home.html
http://www.daniellesplace.com/html/christmas.html
http://www.almanac.com/holidays/winter/
http://www.christmas-corner.com/
http://www.allfreecrafts.com/indexpage.htm
http://www.bellaonline.com/Channel/c17.asp
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ok. theres this guy that i like. his names ricky. and hes a major hottie. and i think he likes me but im not sure. ok. and he wants to hang this weekend. i dont know what were gonna do yet. but he was saying he wants to hook up with me. and i dont know if thats kissing or sex. but im not worried about that right now. ok. and like he seems like he likes me. but then sometimes he doesnt. like.....i dont know how to explain it. but anyways...like hes nice to me. and seems fun to hang with. and i like him alot!! and i really wanna hang out with him. and do a lil more. =] ha. but anyways....do u think he likes me or just wants to get some....? cause im a virgin. and he aint gonna get that. he might get kissing and maybe a lil more. but not that.
i'll rate high!!
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If he doesn't get what he's after you will know for sure his feelings!
Hopefully he isn't like that though. He may just want to hang out.
Sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders, don't do anything you aren't ready to do just to get or keep some guy. :)
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I want to know if it's possible to answer feedback once it's on my column, and how you do it. I want to give the person who gave feedback to my answer to their question some more advice but don't know if or how I can.
Thanks
Kizlode
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You can click on answer question again and edit your answer. Just put what you want to add at the bottom.
Or there is a link in the blue column to edit answer.
That's about the only way, unless they told you who they were. :)
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This may be long. Well, I've known Greg since 7th grade. We dated all through highschool. He's a fun-loving guy and doesn't always take things seriously. So during the first semester of college, we broke up. I couldn't handle the way he didn't value academics. The next year I met Aaron, who's a few years older than me & already graduated college and earning a good salary. The whole time I was dating him, Greg and I were still good friends...and still in love. Now Aaron has asked me to marry him. (The wedding would be this summer some time, after I graduate.) I like Aaron a lot and he really cares for me. He could provide a good life for me and I think he'd be a good husband. Using that logic, I told him yes. But lately all I can think about is Greg. I love Aaron but I almost feel like I'm more in love with Greg. Greg still has feelings for me, too. The thing is, Greg still hasn't improved. He isn't very serious about things and I don't think he can handle responsibilty. I couldn't marry him. But can I marry Aaron, knowing my heart isn't fully his? So should I wait to get married or what? I really don't know what to do and I just want some opinions. Please reply; I really need advice. (link)
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I think you will only figure it out if you totally put Greg out of the picture for a while. See if you can live without the guy.
You already know you have no real future with him. He is to put it bluntly a waste of your time. On the other hand, if you were crazy in love with Aaron it probably wouldn't be a problem anyway.
If there is a problem with your relationship, you have to fix the problem. In this case Greg is the problem. I think if you can't do that, then you don't get married. It will cause problems and that is no way to start a lifetime commitment.
Good luck whichever way you go. :)
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I'm male, 17, and in high school.
Two of my friends, let's call them Enrique and Polly, went out for about nine months. Enrique is probably my best friend, and during this time, I became good friends with Polly as well. Recently (a few months ago or so), they broke up, and they've both gone through ups and downs, getting back together, breaking up again, dating other people, etc. Finally, it seems that they've really broken it off. I hang out with both of them a lot, but separately, because they feel awkward together. And I'm starting to get the impression that Polly likes me.
Now, the complicated part. I've had a purely physical (f-buddy) relationship with a girl I know, let's call her Edna, for the past month or so. We've made out many times and had sex once, and the tricky part is that we're both emotionally shy, and I'm not sure how she feels about me. She may want something more out of the relationship, and I'm confused as to whether she just wants an open thing going like we already have or if she would care if I dated someone else.
Unfortunately, long story short, Polly and I ended up making out. We got caught up in the moment and a lot of feelings came out, but now I'm in an unusual place. Polly feels that we need to tell Enrique. Enrique is going to be very upset when he hears this. As an added element, I'm worried about what Edna will think, since I'm not sure what she wants out of our relationship. I'm really confused as to what I should do here. (link)
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The question isn't what Edna wants, its what do you want?
If you don't have any feelings for Edna other than keeping her around for sex...get out of the relationship. If she wants more than you do from it, stringing her along will only be harder on her in the end.
If you and Polly are good together, go for it. Enrique may be mad for a minute but, he'll get over it. :)
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Every night for the past week or two, I've been having really bad nightmares. Two of the nights I've had nightmares that I was in a car accident. The other two nights, I've had dreams that I killed someone I love and tried to hide their body, then realized what I did was wrong and felt scared and guilty. I looked everywhere online to find out what these dreams mean and why I keep having them. Can someone tell me what all of this means? I rate 5's for all answers. (link)
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Personally, I don't think dreams mean a whole lot. Just your mind wandering. Maybe thinking of things you fear in the daylight.
I do have a website for you though. Hope you have fun with it.
Oh, by the way, Are you by chance taking any medication that is new to you? Sometimes they can make you have weird dreams. :)
Dream interpretation….
http://www.sleeps.com/dreams.html
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I'm currently in an internet relationship with this guy in Canada (I'm in Australia) We liked each other for about a year, and only recently decided to give the relationship a shot. We had a few problems before we got together, but we worked them all out. We're meeting in a few months time. I do like him, however, there's a lot about him that bothers me. He's a REALLY extremist Catholic, and whilst i am catholic too, I'm nowhere near as religious. A lot of what he believes I respect, however disagree with. I have to act different around him, for example, I can't swear or say anything even remotely 'suggestive' Sometimes I feel like he's testing me, because he asks me questions like "did you go to mass today on sunday? Did you enjoy it?" and "How far do you think is too far?" I never feel comfortable around him and he doesn't know much about who I truly am due to this reason. He's a really innocent guy for a teenager, and whilst its good that he respects me, he's really uptight and we can never talk about things or joke around like other couples can. I realize that not everyone is into that kind of thing, but it's like we never do anything 'fun'
I tell him I love him every night but sometimes I wonder whether I truly do. I want to make this work but I have a nagging feeling telling me that this isn't right and I shouldn't be with him. What should I do? Is it normal to feel like this? Do you guys think I should still try with him?
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Honestly, if he is very into his religion and you are not...it won't work out in the long run.
I think you already know that. You need to follow your instincts on this one.
Even if you don't have a romance. It doesn't mean you can't still be friends. Talk to him, let him know exactly what your are thinking. :)
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i make/embellish my own clothes.. and yes.. sometimes they look really cute!!! im afraid if i wear them people will make fun of me.. my quesion is should i wear them to school or not?
answer this question to get a 5! (link)
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By all means. If you have a talent share it with the world! :)
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If your "dating" someone. and they asked if u wanted to "go out with them" are you considered their bf/gf. you are...right? (link)
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Yes indeed. You are officially the bf/gf!
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I am a 35 year old musician/composer/performer who currently resides in Los Angeles. I write soundtrack/rock/western and blues original tunes. I moved to Los Angeles 4 years ago to continue with musical group which was originally formed in Delaware in 1994. The band is still together and we have performed many times around the east and west coast as well as doing a random 2 week tour every 8 months. We have a fairly nice and loyal following and have independently released our own recordings(about 6 different CD's are available) and are now breaking into the realm of soundtracking with a self produced(yes, our own money) film the band is currently working on in Hollywood which is very exciting. Over the years I have become the main member of the group, we do not have a record contract or do not have a record label. Since this art is my passion I have put everything in my life into it. All my $$, time, relationships, and future plans have gone into my love to create for the last 11 years since its inception. I do not make any income with this project and work a part time job here in Los Angeles as a pizza delivery guy to help fund it and its driving me crazy! All I want to do is make a living out of the music I am soooo passionate about and have sacrificed sooo much for. This creative force inside governs my life and I feel it may actually be damaging in the long run to my well being because of feeling of not being completely successful. So what do I do? Tough it out and keep going or decide to throw in the towl? This question is too difficult for me to answer on my own. (link)
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I think you don't ever give up anything you care about so passionately. You may just have to get a little more organized with it.
Please realize I know nothing of the music industry from personal experience, nor do I know anything about L.A.
It looks like you are into a lot of different genres. Maybe you could try concentrating on just one kind of music for a while.
I'm not saying you need to give up on them all...not at all. But, if you are wanting to sell anything you may have to be able to say to someone...this is what we do. When you tell someone you do everything, you may not be taken seriously enough.
Do you have a favorite radio station? Is there a DJ you like that you could call for info on how to get airtime? I don't know if they can do that but I think it is a place to start. Bug them, play it in the background whatever. Get aggressive about selling what you have.
Anybody on these tours you do able to help out? How about finding an agent? I'm sure there is no lack of them in LA. Find someone fairly new if some better known places won't talk to you. They will be eager to sell your product and find you someone to back you.
You will have to do a lot of leg work, knock on a lot of doors, and suffer a lot of rejection. If you have what it takes to endure all that, I think you will someday be able to have all the different music you like put out there for the world to hear. But, you may have to start by paring it down a little.
Tough it out. :)
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Ok i am 16 female and i got to high school and my boyfriend (getting married) is like 20. Well the other day he seen me hugging my Step-Brother and he was like this that you boyfriend and what are you doing with him anyways. Well told him that it is my Step-Brother and he is going back home and i dont know when the next time i get to see him. But my Boyfriend just said bulls**t. And he is always with other girls. but he don't know thhat i know about it. But then i just said that if you are going to keep on saying that i am cheating we are though so he said fine then i said ok we are over. but i still love him. Was it wrong for me saying we are over or did i do the right thing? (link)
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Even though you still love him (it will take a while to get over), you did the best thing.
He is always with other girls, and he didn't want to believe you about your step brother. He is old enough to know better.
My guess is HE wanted to break up, He just didn't want to be the bad guy. There is someone out there who will treat you better than that. :)
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Hi I am a 16 year old virgin. I find myself thinking about sex a lot. It all started when I caught my dad watching it on the computer, and I was only twelve. I dont know how to stop my obbsession. Can you help me?? p.s. i am a girl (link)
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Thinking about it a lot at your age is perfectly normal.
Are you watching it to or just thinking about it?
Either way it is normal. You probably won't stop thinking about it so long as you are curious.
I don't think catching dad watching it made all that big a difference. May have started you thinking about it but that's about it.
Unless it is interfering with your day to day functioning, I wouldn't worry about it. If it does, then you may have to seek some professional advice. If you do normal 16 year old activities other than the thoughts, you are okay. :)
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So I've never really had to buy my girlfriend anything because my mom always took care of all of that. But last year, my gf found out that I don't personally buy her presents and she got all upset. Now, she wants me to go out and buy her her present this year by myself. My mom refuses to help me now. I've really never done this before and you don't have to believe me but it's true. Anyways, this is what I have so far:
100$ Abercrombie card (her fav. store)
50$ Hollister or Forever 21 card (her second fav.--I'm not sure which yet though)
And these earrings her sister helped me pick out. They're pink sapphires with pearl on top they're pretty nice.
But I can see my gf's face when she sees these..."oh gift cards...thanks babe..." She might like the earrings more though...I don't know. I'm already spending 250$ on all of that--I'll put in maybe like 75 more. Does anyone have any ideas? (link)
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I think anything YOU pick out will be fine with her. She just wants to know that you personally thought about her when you bought it.
Gift cards...you're right. Not personal enough.
Earrings, great idea. Maybe you could find her a necklace. Just pick something you personally like. Tell her (or put in a little note) that you saw it and thought of her wearing it. She will love it.
Good luck :)
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Situation: My mom basically got mad because my older sister gave my little cousin glitter, and it escalated into a big fight. Evantually my mom said (right in front of my grandma and little cousin) that my sister smokes and she found her butts downstairs. I called my mom a bitch and flipped her off and ran to my little sister because she was crying. I told my mom I lost all respect in her because what she did was downright rude, saying it in front of company. Then she told my little sister that I was the one that told her (which is true, I am worried for her, but I told my mom that in trust, not so she could tattle) and now...I can't even trust her. It just, I can't believe she'd do this rude of things.
Well, now my mom is saying that all of this happened because she shouldnt have to take the dog out (the dog was practically a mini-part in the fight!) she said everybody here was wrong because she shouldnt have to come home and take the dog out (which would take less than a minute to do, plus everybody else in the house has been doing it all day). She won't even admit she is wrong! She wants an apology from us.
Should I suck it up and apologize. Am I in the wrong, because I feel awful for calling her those names. I don't know what to do... (link)
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I think you apologise for calling her a bitch and flipping her off.
Then, I think you need to calmly explain to her why you did that (probably again!).
Tell her you were upset that she had violated your trust in her in front of company. There was a time and place for discussing the smoking issue, and the time she chose was indeed inappropriate.
Honestly though, so was calling her names and being disrespectful.
So, apologize for that alone. She was probably stressing out or something but her behavior warrants an apology too. :)
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