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Me and this guy were talking for a couple of weeks. We went on dates and had so much fun. Then we just stopped talking because we got mad at eachother. That was about a month an a half ago. I still like him and want to call him but if i do then i'll seem like a total dork. I need some advise on what i should do. I mean I want to start dating him again but i don't want to be the one to that calls him first. Should i just move on because he's not into me anymore, obviously, or what should i do?
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If he was as cool as you say, then I would call one last time just to see how he reacts. If the call don't go so well, then I would just leave it alone.......
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If you want to rekindle what you had, you need to make the move. Don't move on without seeing if there's a possibility for you two again. Just call him up, apologize for your part in what happened a while ago, & ask him if he wants to hang out again because you miss him.
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Well, first of all you won't be a dork if you call this guy! It would appear to me that you'd be making the first gesture towards repairing a friendship, even if you two don't get back together as a couple. That's good...and very reasonable and mature.
Whether you decide to talk to him in person or on the phone, be honest with your feelings and let him know that you're really sorry that the two of you got into it the last time you were together. No need to bring up whatever subject about which you were arguing. It will be enough to just say that you wish your relationship hadn't ended the way it did. Ask him how he feels about things now that you both have cooled down and taken a break.
Hopefully by his responses to your honesty, apology, and request for his thoughts you'll be able to better determine where his head is and what you will need to do to make yourself happy - like moving on, if he can't handle a decent and calm discussion. Who wants someone in her or his life (boyfriend or pal) that walks away from a relationship just because of an argument? That's the pits, though it happens all too often because people are either too stubborn to apologize, embarrassed to make the first move towards repairing a friendship, or just too plain immature to communicate honest feelings.
Good luck! I hope you can get this resolved one way or the other...
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Could be hes sitting at home thinking the same thing you are!
Lack of communication does in so many relationships it isn't even funny. If you still like him, go tell him so. If he doesn't feel the same then at least you'll know it for sure. It would be easier to move on if that doubt were erased from your mind.
It won't make you a dork. Just say to him, look...I shouldn't have gotten so mad. I enjoyed the time we spent together and I miss it. I'd like to give it another try if you feel the same.
Waiting for a guy to make the first move could have you waiting forever. So, go tell him how you feel.
Good Luck! :)
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