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ok...i heard that sex hurts yet feels good..does it? (link)
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hey
the first time you have sex (depending on whether you have used tampons or not) may hurt because he will pop your cherry.
if he gets really rough and youve had your cherry popped, it will hurt.
but for 99% of the time it will feel good. it's just when it starts getting rough and youre not used to it when it hurts.
i hope i answered your question!
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ok so im s tartign to watch what i eat.
and i have these snacks that i love. and i was wondering if there helthy or sortof healthy or not. so if you cna just tell me?
-chex mix..traditional
- cheese cracker sanwich things
- same as above but with peanut butter
- peanut butter
-chicken noodle soup
-n.e clam chowder
- gold fish
-peanuts
- pretzels
- baked chips
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hey
- chex mix : yeah sure! they have lots of whole grain
- cheese cracker sandwhich things : cheese is good for you because it has calcium, but too much is fatty
- peanut butter sandwhich things : in moderation, sure. more fatty than cheese
- peanut butter : again, not too healthy in large quantities. a few is all right.
- chicken noodle soup : yes. chicken is very healthy and light, and noodles are always good for you.
- clam chowder : you need all parts of the food pyramid, so this is one of the more rare snacks. go ahead. but not too much.
- gold fish : yes. they have cheese, but not too much. you can have a lot of these.
- peanuts : yes. peanuts have lots of good oils and antioxidants. good for youu
- pretzels : sure! why would pretzels hurt you?! not too much salt though.
- baked chips : sure. but dont freak out and eat too many. even though they're baked, theyre STILL potato and have lots of carbs.
i hope i helped!
a good snack is fruit as well as veggies. fruit tastes good and it's good for you!
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ok so mi bf is all mad at me because i accidentally talked about him in a not so nice way to his friends (i know stupid me right) anyway...should he have the right to be mad at me? (link)
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well, I think that he should have the right to be mad at you, but hey everybody makes mistakes! Mabe you should re-evaluate whether or not you really want to be with him.
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I have a friend who recently travelled to India, and brought me back some little jars of coconut oil.. she says it is common to usecan in your hair as a conditioner. Should I use it after shampooing on wet hair, then rinse out? Or is there another method? (link)
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indians put it on dry hair, then keep it on for as long as possible, than wash it.
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Me and my boyfriend have only made out so far. If we were going to do anything further, would it be weird to do it at the movies? I just mean him fingering me or me giving him a hand job. The movies is the only place I can think of that is possible for us to be able to do anything like that. Any other places? (link)
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Um to begin with, yes. I mean it is alright to have a little PDA but that takes it way too far. Most people think that sort of thing is really personal and even doing it in an environment as dark as a theater, it is still something that should be left in private. You'll appreciate it in the long run,especially if it gets really intense and awkward trying to contain yourself with some cartoon characters running around on screen.
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around what age do guys stop getting those random erections? (link)
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Unfortunately for them, never.
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I love my bf to death and everything..
But for some reason we've been having problems.
I've been crying so much over him for little things.
Like lately it's like he doesn't care about things anymore or something or he's lost interest in me..
He said I need to learn to respect and trust him.
I mean it's hard because he's lyed to me a couple of times.
It seems like he doesn't feel the same way about me anymore and it makes me cry.
I never used to do that before.
I feel like he used to be obsessed with me and I loved that and now he just doesn't care it seems like..
We've been together for almost 5 months now.
I really really don't want that to end because I love him and I know he really loves me.
What should I do?!
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Basically what is going on here is what I like to call 'ending the honeymoon stage'. Pretty much once guys start to get comfortable in this routine of dating you it is almost like they stop trying so hard becuase they think they already have you and there is no need. What you really need to do is tell him that sure has you, but he needs to learn to keep you and appreciate you. Don't start second guessing things or denying his love for you. Just know that all guys go through it, because it is hard for them to express themselves. Secretly he could be bursting with adoration just seeing you, but we wouldn't know it just looking at you. If you need to have those sweet things to be happy, then just let him know and give him a warning about how if he doesn't shape up then you might have to find someone who will.
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Well I straighten my hair everyday because its really curly. But a few hours later it starts to curve inward. I see all these girls at my school with PIN straight hair and it lasts all day. Does anybody know how to keep my hair pinstraight all day.
PLEASEEEEE HELP.
THANKS A TON :). (link)
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hair spray it before you straighten it. also, put a little hair spray on your straightener
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Please any advice would be amazing.
Last night, my legs were really itchy. It happens sometimes. I put lotion on them and its usually goes away. But today I noticed tiny red/purple pin point dots on my inner thighs. They aren't bumps. They don't hurt or itch.
If anyone knows anything about it, please any advice is great! (link)
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hey
they're probably from shaving. the ones from shaving don't itch or hurt.
however the things you described are
- itchy
- no bumps
so.. i'd suggest seeing a doctor.
for the ones on your inner thigh, they MIGHT be from shaving if you notice they stick up from the skin. if you can feel them sticking up, and they're kinda rough, just put some lotion on it and it will heal. try not to shave so much on that area; get a new shaving blade. blunt shaving blades cause more cuts than sharp ones. ironic, but true.
if i were you, i'd ask my mom first before going to the doctor. moms know a lot of things that you might be surprised she knew :]
i hope i helped!
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i have a couple actual guy friends, but i want more. im so sick of all the drama girls bring along, and i think hanging out with guy friends would be a ncie break once in awhile. the couple i have that are actually friends not just aquantinces could probably introduce me to their friends, but once im introduced i dont know how to like become friends with that person. any advice? also, how do i make more of my OWn guy friends? thnakss (link)
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hey
totally totally know where youre coming from. girls can be frustrating sometimes. but they also have their advantages.
to make more of your own guyfriends, it's actually pretty easy. try to look cute one day. cute shirt, do your hair neatly, and not TOO much make-up.
if you sit near a guy you wanna become better friends with, it's much easier. if you just got back a quiz or something, be like, "what'd you get?" but dont sound nosy. if he gives you a weird look cause youve never talked to him before, just try another guy. if he responds like, "Not so good, you?" then you've gotten one step closer to getting a good guyfriend :] the next few steps are big ones, but just ask him for his sn... if you have a friend near you, this is so much easier! to your friend, just be like, "omg youre never on aim!" and then just casually ask if he has a sn. great strategy. used it a few times. i know it seems awkward just randomly talking to a guy, but it's not random when you start. a lot of girls are like, "omg but idk what to say to guys!" just pretend like it's a girl. how would you start talking to her? don't treat guyfriends any differently than girls except for certain things like timing (how quickly you move onto the next step in the friendship- phone numbers, hanging out, sleepovers, etc.)
if youre not very self-confident or think youre that pretty, you gotta change your attitude. guys like girls that are confident and outgoing. so if youre shy, start out talking to the not-so-outgoing guys. they'll love that they have a girl they can talk to. but keep your space. you dont know how clingy they are, and if it will, in the long run, ruin your social status. by talking to the lower-class guys or same level as you, you gain confidence in yourself and start talking to more popular guys.
i really hope i helped, and this is just my opinion & how i get my own guyfriends. i talk to all the guys so you can take it from a girl that's not very popular AND outgoing yet shy at times.
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I have two pairs of American Eagle jeans that fit my waist but the leg part is really baggy. Is there anyway to make them tighter (besides washing them a bunch of times)? If there's not, can an alteration place fix them? (link)
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hey
just to let you know, it's not the "washing" that gets them smaller.. it's the "drying." so that might be one thing.
another thing is, have you tried buying a size smaller? if the leg fits and the waist is a littttttle tight, that's better than having a waist that fits [ which no one sees... cause your shirt covers it. so even if it's a litttle tight, everyones looking at how your jeans look from behind ].
an alteration place can fix them, but if i were you, i'd go in order of the suggested answers because they're cheaper than getting them altered. btw- if you just return the jeans and get a size smaller, it won't cost you a dime.
i hope i helped! :]
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i was thinking....hmmm...since the brand of gum i chew only has like 5 or less calories in it and actually chewing the gum is a relatively physical action, do i burn the calories of the gum by actually chewing it??? (link)
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hey
you probably burn more calories chewing it than it has to begin with... which is a good thing :]
it depends also on if youre in school or not. cause in my school, we're not allowed to chew gum. but everyone does anyway. so we just keep it on the side of our mouth till the teacher turns around and then we start chewing. so, if you have a piece of gum in school all day, and considering your school rules prohibit gum-chewing, then you burn a lot less calories than if you were freely chewing the gum and not concious of who is watching you chew it.
i hope i helped! :]
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ok so this like creamy white stuff keeps coming out of my vagina is this normal? (link)
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yepp its discharge, all girls get it eventually! im assuming you havent had your period yet, because you tend to get it first.
if you have, then maybe youve never noticed it before, haha
if you havent, youll (most likely) get it in 6 months time, but it can be as long as 2 years, as short as 2 months...
but yeaaa its totalyl normal!!
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i see that your like really smart cause your in like excellerated classes. Anyways im not in any of those classes and i have a TON of stress, how do you deal with stress? I have acne and this is just making it so much worse and like i cant sleep good at night and its all stress and yet im still getting HORRIBLE grades. =[
ps. ( totally off subject) did you make that burn book? or is it really a book? lol it looks cool i want to make oneeee=] (link)
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honestly... im just naturally smart, not trying to be conceited. i dont study or do my homework, and im i get straight As (which is a good thing, because my school is like number 34 of public schools in the couuntryyy!)
basically, i eat and sleep well. thats whats important. it helps you remember things better in the long run, so you dont have to study as much for tests.
also, eating well prevents acne. dermatology ISSS my future career, and soda and other junk food are bad. i only drink stuff like water and juice and milk, because those are also good for the brain!
when im stressed, i sleep. i suggest taking a 20-30 minute nap every day after school, because that gets me refershed for the rest of the night!
i party a lot... but yea im am smart, so yea
burn book = from mean girls =]
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people type VV or vvv orr ^^ ? like on peoples picture comments? help?! (link)
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hey
it means that they are referring to a comment above ( ^ - pointing upwards) or below ( v / V - pointing downwards) their comment.
i hope i helped!
(theyre simply arrows)
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i have itunes right now.. but i dont like buying all my songs becuase i want so many but it gets expensive.. so does anyone know where i can download songs for free.. and it wont put a virus on my computer??
Thanks! (link)
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hey
limewire. free. safe. legal.
http://www.download.com/LimeWire/3000-2166_4-10552048.html?tag=lst-0-2
when you search music videos, just be aware that you might get lots of porn. yeah just letting you know.
i hope i helped! :]
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It's really gross but I have like really dry skin on the back of my ear! One time I rubbed the back of my ear and like when I looked at my hands there was white stuff(skin) on it and then when i removed it my hands smelled so gross and bad! is this normal? what can i do? (link)
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hey
it's totally normal. it's just dead skin cells building up. what you can do is wash behind your ears everyday and if you have dry skin, moisturize it a little. it should be totally fine.
the reason why it smells bad is cause it hasn't been properly cleaned with soap and water. i'm sure you shower everyday and just dont put soap behind your ears cause i mean, who puts soap behind their ears?! but i think you should start :]
i hope i helped!
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This past week, I've had two dreams with basically the same basis. Fire. And I'm not exactly sure why.
The first dream happened around Saturday-ish. I had a dream my aunt's next door neighbor's house got caught on fire. And then I was at the corner of the street with my car [and I don't even drive yet] and my car started to be caught with fire. So I ended up miraculously putting it out, and my parents just came out of nowhere. Then we were driving, and my dad's seat caught on fire [he was driving], and I told him to jump out of the car. So he did, as did my mother and I [where my brother was, I've got no clue], but then the car blew up. And we were on the corner of a pub near my old house. And then I woke up with a feeling something bad was gonna happen. I have a little bit of an ESP power because I know when someone's gonna die, or when something bad is gonna happen. My feelings usually are right. But nothing's happened yet.
Now just yesterday, I was taking a nap, and I had the most horrible dream. My cousin who's my age just had her son in January [I'm 16, she'll be 17 in June], but anyways. My cousin, her sister, her parents, and her son were in my dream. I dreamed they were living in the house I moved out of 7 years ago. The house caught on fire, and the only person I managed to get [I was sleeping over in the dream] was the baby, and I tried getting everyone else, but they just wouldn't wake up. They weren't dead because they were snoring, but I just couldn't wake them up. My cell phone wasn't with me in my dream, and it took me forever to find a phone to call 911. They were all okay even though the house was in a horrible fire, and they were breathing everything in. I woke up with a bad feeling about that too.
I feel like something bad is gonna happen, and I'm not sure what it is yet. I've never dreamt of fire before, so this is quite the eye opener, and I'm scared of fire so maybe I'm just trying to face a fear in my dream, but I honestly doubt that's it. Because of these bad feelings, I've turned off everything that can cause a possible fire, and I've kept my room clean so nothing can spark a fire. I'm extremely cautious of it. I don't want my house to set on fire, because I value my things, but I can't help but to feel something bad's gonna happen.
Why am I dreaming of fire, and why am I so paranoid [though I suffer from it]? I don't want my house to set on fire, or my aunt's neighbor's house to catch fire. She's a lovely woman & she's been friends with my family basically since my aunt was a little girl. I don't know what's gonna happen, but I keep having this feeling. =/ Sometimes I hate knowing when something bad is gonna happen. I've been trying to warn people to be careful because something bad is gonna happen, but when they ask what I can't tell them because I don't even know myself. I'm hoping my dreams can lead me to something, but all they lead me to is a bad feeling, and bad thoughts. =/ Ugh, help? (link)
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i have this too. many of my dreams come true. i'd take this very seriously if i were you. i'd avoid turning on the stove, oven, excesive electrical outlets, etc.
you never know what will happen.
http://www.dreammoods.com/dreamdictionary/f.htm
Depending on the context of your dream, to see fire in your dream can symbolizes destruction, passion, desire, illumination, transformation, enlightenment, or anger. It may suggest that something old is passing and something new is entering your life. Your thoughts and views are changing. In particular, if the fire is under control or contained in one area, it is a metaphor of your own internal fire and inner transformation. It also represents your drive and motivation.
To dream of that you are being burned by fire, indicates that your temper is getting out of control. Some issue or situation is burning you up inside.
To dream that a house is on fire, indicates that you need to undergo some transformation. If you have recurring dreams of your family house on fire, then it suggests that you are still not ready for the change or that you are fighting against the change. Alternatively, it highlights passion and the love of those around you.
To dream that you put out a fire, signifies that you will overcome your obstacles in your life through much work and effort.
i hope i helped!
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however you spell it, what does it mean? my friend said his cousin tried to do it to his sister, i was like haha but idk what it means (link)
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hey
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=nook
i hope i helped!
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ok heres another question about my car the battery is good the wires to my starter is good and the cylenoid is good too had that all checked my car will not turn over at all but all my lights in the car works so im pretty sure that its not the altenater could it be it by posibilty that it could be something in the secruity i have a 93 buick park avenue....ty
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the advice from the guy below me is right. check your plugs, and coils, and probably replace them. also it'd be best to check your fuel injectors and the injector rail/rack. the thing with cars is there's two reasons they wont start. one is electrical, and once you can rule that out the next is fuel. what is happening here is you're getting fuel, and electricity but you have no way of burning the fuel to get going. check those plugs, replace them, then sheck the coils and distributor/distributor rotot. all of them could potentially be bad.
also (thanks DN) is your starter even getting a charge from the battery? you gotta remember for a car to start the starter has to energize and start the crank turning. you may have a good solenoid but if the linkage between the solenoid and the starter are bad you wont get the starter motor turning to get the car started. take a second look at that starter, make sure everything is connected right, and then give it a go. also well you gotta make sure your starter motor is in good running shape.
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