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ok i have this friend and she thinks she has the worst skin and really all that's bad is she's got kind of redish skin and a few spots of acne and its not TERRIBLY bad..but she thinks its really bad so she fricken LOADS on concealer..powder..foundation and all that junk and it takes her AT LEAST 20 min to do her make-up (meaning just the foundation n stuff) and it looks SO bad and people are now starting to talk about her and she just wears sooooo much foundation and idk how to tell her and its disgusting almost..what should i tell her??

Just tell her the truth. And tell her that it doesn't help putting all that stuff on there cuz it just clogs her pores even more so the acne will never go away. But just be honest with her and even if she gets mad at you she'll forgive you and thank you for mentioning it.
Muah*

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Okay I dont know what exactly to say about this but I'll try. I have this problem. Everyone makes fun of me becasue I sitll think about it all the time but its something hat has really gotten into my mind. Well... I am a music freak, and I love to sing, and everyone tells me that I can sing.. and everything.. but then the person whose opinion matters the most to me just recently told me that I cant sing and in all seriousness. I want him to think that I can sing.. that I can do just as well as any of his other "favorite people" that CAN sing! It tears me up that he thinks that I cant sing... All of my friends tell me that this person is just joking and that I'm good and all.. But I still dont believe them ever since this person told me that I cant sing... I feel so horrible over it.. like I dont even want to isng anymore.. what should I do? Much help needed... And please only serious answeres for this one.

Dont depend on what he thinks. If you think you can sing then keepp going for it. But if you want you could take singing lessons and they can help you with your singing. I havent heard you sing before so i'm not gonna say if your good or not but i'm sure you can do it. But alot of artists can't sing either so don't worry.

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i have a boyfriend.. we'll call him R. R and i have been dating for 7 months. The first 5 months were great! He's been starting to hit me, he kicked me, and I fell and I had a bump on my head last week. Last night he tried suffocating me. I've also been told about him flirting with about 5 other girls at school. 2 of them are some of my best friends. Oh, by the way, I'm only a freshman in high school. He's a sophomore. But anyway, I'm so sick of hearing about him doing other stuff with girls. He told me if i ever broke up with him, he'd ruin my life. What am I supposed to do? I am scared of him, but he'll do crap to ruin my life (believe me, he's done it to many.. trashed reps.. everyone hates that person, etc.) but what can i do? please help! i'm scared

First of all if you act like you're scared and he gets a vibe that you are then you gatta change that. Deep down you might be scared but you have to pretend that you're not. And even if you do break up with him and sais that he's gonna ruwin you life just say: "phfsh... yea right...i'll ruwin yours first" or whatever. But i mean stick up for your self and tell someone that hes neglecting you.

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ok well i have a boy singing partner, and we spend alot of time together, and well my boyfriend thinks i like him. and hes all mad at me because, well, i had to kiss my partner for this song, and my boyfriend didnt know that it was part of the song and he got really mad.

Tell him why you had to kiss him and make sure he actually understands and knows that it didn't mean anything unless it did...

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I met this woman through work, and I would like to get to know her better. I don't ever get to see er anymore though, and the only way I know of to get in touch with her is to cal her. I vever asked for her number, but I can look it up. Should I call her, or would it be a bad idea, since she hasn't given me her number?

I would just call her. I called this guy once without him giving me his number but still i talk to him. So just call her up.

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about 10 months ago, i moved house. i had this crush on a boy since i was in year 7, and now i'm in year 10. thing is, i still fancy this boy! i haven't seen him since i moved house, but i really miss him so much. i thought i'd forget about him when i moved house but i still think about him lots even though i haven't seen him for so long. i really want to see him again but i don't know how to get in touch, i don't know his phone number, i've searched on msn for him but i couldn't find him.. what else can i do? i can't move on and find another boy, there aren't any boys worth it where i live now, they're all really immature. i keep thinking about him and i miss him really badly. please help, thanks.

Ask your friends back there to get his fone number for you or look in a fone book.
good luck and hope everything works out great. Hopfully you get to talk and see him!
Muah*

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ok well,this is sorta a love life thing, but i dont know it has to do with singing. so i was alone after school in the gym and i was shooting hoops waiting for my boyfriend to pick me up and i didnt know my friend was behind me, so i started singing, and then i shot the ball and when it came back down and i got the rebound, i turned around and he was standing there, and i was like really embarrased, even though he said i was a terrific singer. the only person i can sing in front of is my boyfriend, who also says im a good singer. but i dont know, im really afraid to sing in front of people.

Lol thats totally fine. I only feel confortable singing in front of like 2 or 3 of my friends :P but you start to get used to it i guess.

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ok,
there is tons of girls that like me at my school and they all want to go out with me, so i need to know if i should become a "player" and go out with all of them at once or let them take turns?

I wouldn't go for the playa because you'll loose alot or respect from the otha grls. So just have them take turns or only date the ones you like. lol h.i.h.
Simone

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is it just me?..or do other people think like me, that they hate themselves, that theyre not worth living. Because there are so many stressful things in life, school, personal life, friends, family..so on and so on....im stressed over so much stuff, and all i do to make myself feel better is to cry. i keep my emotions up inside of me, and all i have to let my feelings out is in a journal i keep and write my deep thoughts and feelings in it. i dont think there is anyone in this world that i can tell ALL of my feelings to. is it just me?...is there anyone else out there who thinks just like me?...how do you solve your problems?...

Well somtimes i feel like that but i'm starting to think posotive about more things and it really clears that all up. I also try to talk to my friends or i tell everything to my self out laud and that also help relieve my stress and what not. But feel free to talk to me on AIM. I'd be glad to help you out.
ttyl
Simone*

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Ok, theres this guy that went to my church last night and he was SOO cute and really funny! and his eyes are VERY pretty, they arent blue or green they are brown but SOO pretty! lol anyway, we have a youth group place and we went to the worship place and its where we like stand up, then sit down and then stand up ya know and when i looked at him he was staring at me! im only 13 and i guess i should know what that means but i dont! haha everytime i looked he was staring at me! and when he first did it, he like jerked his eyes away quick and i did the same but later on we would take like 2 seconds glances, like i dunno! what does that mean? does he like em or jsut think im cute! please i need advice before i make myself look stupid! haha

He couls like you but he definatly thinks you're cute. So thats also high hopes for him likeing you.
Simonexo

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this month is my birthday and i dont kno what to do since im turning 14 and i am 2 old for a sleepover.. so what should i do?

Well if you can't do a sleep over try the movies or a fun part that a few friends and you could hang out at. Maybe even go to a sports game (ex: baseball, football, soccer, ect...) but even going out to eat and then your friends and you staying up kate and not having a sleep over's fun too. :D
good luck!
simone..::

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idk what category this is .. but i need a new s/n any one got ideas?

(things about me)
heart broken
kinda tall avage
i love ryan
hmmm...idk any thing else to put lol

please help

how about

lovelybrok3nhrt
luvthieman
tallfortheonly
brok3n4himonly
heartsforryan

feel free to IM me and ask for more because i have a whole bunch lol

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I have a guy friend that I really like, but he's shy and I kind of want to leave hits that I like him. Does anuone have any tips for flirting, but not coming on too strong? I don't want to freak him out or anything... Thanks!

Stare at him everyonce and a while and if he looks back quickly look away. or also you could ocasionally say "hey" or somethin.

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Everyone is always saying "I hate tanlines" blah blah blah. Is it wierd that I actually like them? Like if you wear a tube top after wearing a bathing suit that ties around your neck, or if you had cris cross straps on your back. I think its kind of like a sign that you tan. idk, I think its kind of cool...is that wierd? I don't like tanning lines after you wear shorts, or a farmers tan...

In a way yea i think it is kool too cuz its like you show off that you are tan and it gives up a kool design on the back lol. But yea its totally normal lol

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Okay me and this guy have been "together" for about 8 months now...well were not technically going out but were kinda friends with benefits i guess...he said that he wants to not have a commitment bc he is going through alot right now but he doesn't want either of us to hook up with anybody else...just eachother...so should i take that as were going out or as were just friends with benefits? and also should i say we can hook up with other people or no? thanx ill rate a 5 to nebody who answers

Well in a way i would say that you are going out and if you really like him i would just wait till he's ready to hook up. But if you do wanna hook up with other ppl then tell or ask him if it's ok.

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I'm 14 and I've never made out with a guy, but I think something might happen with this kid this weekend. I don't really know what I'm doing so does anyone have advice? Is it weird that I've never made out with anyone?

it'll just come naturally. and just play it cool and dont get to nervus.

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ok i like this guy and we flirt a lot! he has a gf though. i think i've caught him staring at me and he always is sweet and nice. he is not the most popular boy in the class, but he is also the most sweetest boy. when we flirt people always point out to us that we are flirting and we both say" no we arn't" he is one of my friends too. my friend told him" dont cheat on prism(his gf) when we were talking and flirting. and he said " i wont" what does this mean? i mean i like him an lot, i had a dream that we kissed.

what does this mean?does he like me??

*confused grl*

I think its possible that he does like you.
ask him if you're not sure.

simone*

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OK for the school talent show, aside from singing, an act I will do is dance with my friends. I was wondering if you guys think Helena by My Chemical Romance is a good song to dance to. I was either thinking that or !,2 step by Ciara. We will most likely be doing Helena and I was wondering if you guys think my friends and I should do the moves the dancers do on the video or make up our own. We have until towards the middle of the month. Thanks

P.S~ if you want to see the video of Helena go here http://music.yahoo.com/ar-309929-videos--My-Chemical-Romance (hit the one that just says Helena not Helena laucnh preformance or whatever)

I'd try doing the steps in the video but if you think you cant learn it fast enough then go for your own moves.

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I want to know if guys like to be touched..in general? Like, arms, stomach, etc. Is that like..a turn on for them?

Well it really depends on the guy but it is a definate flirtying tip.

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i hear constantly about 14 year olds having sex... this is scary. what has the world come to? one day people will be having sex at 8 and then people will finally realise there is a problem. i dont see why 14 year olds have sex when they are so young... at 14 i was like, gross, why have sex? i'm 17 now and i am a virgin... i am proud of that and i like it coz guys respect me and i know a guy isn't going out with me for sex. what i want to know is why do girls lose that respect at such a young age? and how young were people when they lost their virginity???
- confused

Im 14/f and i feel the same way you do. I'm like ew... no lol. And yes i think some guys do respect that because they know you wont go doin it with the next person you see and all. But i think the same thing somtimes and i dono why they would want to but i mean yea... feelin the same thing you do. lol
sim1*

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