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Woman who works for a company my company works for. I met this woman through work, and I would like to get to know her better. I don't ever get to see er anymore though, and the only way I know of to get in touch with her is to cal her. I vever asked for her number, but I can look it up. Should I call her, or would it be a bad idea, since she hasn't given me her number?
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Hmm...TRY try try to see her again. Look her up in the phone book, and write down her number. Don't call her, ONLY when u feel comfertable enough. When you are comfertable, you will already have the number, so you won't chicken out after you've found it. ]
call her and if she asks how you got her number.. be like.. you gave it to me.. remember? l0l.. thats what i did when i called thys one guy.. l0l.. and he was like.. oo.. okay.. anyewaes.. orr.. yoo can find a way to fynd her.. and ask for it..!! ]
I would just call her. I called this guy once without him giving me his number but still i talk to him. So just call her up. ]
I would say that you should go ahead and call her. If she's interested, then she will be really flattered that you would go out of your way to find her number.
You really have nothing to lose.
Maybe she isn't interested and wouldn't want to get to know you more. But really, why would that matter? You never see her anymore, anyway. You don't have to worry about the akward "hi" when you see her.
But, the other option is that she is interested, she wants to get to know you, and you two hit it off. ]
I think if you never get to see her then go ahead and call her. I think she would be flattered..besides ..i wouldnt want to sit around wondering what could have been between you two. So i say go for it..and who cares if she turns you down. The important thing is to call her and ask her out to dinner or something. (if you dont it will drive you nuts..you'll be constantly asking yourself "what if?") So go for it and I hope it all works out with her!
-melissa- ]
She might get freaked out if you call her without asking her for her number. It would be a bad idea, since she never knew that you had her number and you shouldn't look it up, ask her yourself for it and then you can get to know her.
-Karen ]
go ahead and call her. it could be very flattering for her. but it depends on what you say! if you say the wrong things, she may think youre a total creep! maybe send her flowers first...maybe every other day for about a week but dont put your name on it. then call her! that would be so adorable!
Love Always,
Maria ]
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