Woman who works for a company my company works for.
Question Posted Friday March 4 2005, 6:37 pm
I met this woman through work, and I would like to get to know her better. I don't ever get to see er anymore though, and the only way I know of to get in touch with her is to cal her. I vever asked for her number, but I can look it up. Should I call her, or would it be a bad idea, since she hasn't given me her number?
AnDiE answered Friday March 4 2005, 10:37 pm: call her and if she asks how you got her number.. be like.. you gave it to me.. remember? l0l.. thats what i did when i called thys one guy.. l0l.. and he was like.. oo.. okay.. anyewaes.. orr.. yoo can find a way to fynd her.. and ask for it..!! [ AnDiE's advice column | Ask AnDiE A Question ]
selectopaque answered Friday March 4 2005, 10:12 pm: I would say that you should go ahead and call her. If she's interested, then she will be really flattered that you would go out of your way to find her number.
You really have nothing to lose.
Maybe she isn't interested and wouldn't want to get to know you more. But really, why would that matter? You never see her anymore, anyway. You don't have to worry about the akward "hi" when you see her.
But, the other option is that she is interested, she wants to get to know you, and you two hit it off. [ selectopaque's advice column | Ask selectopaque A Question ]
icey0990 answered Friday March 4 2005, 8:26 pm: I think if you never get to see her then go ahead and call her. I think she would be flattered..besides ..i wouldnt want to sit around wondering what could have been between you two. So i say go for it..and who cares if she turns you down. The important thing is to call her and ask her out to dinner or something. (if you dont it will drive you nuts..you'll be constantly asking yourself "what if?") So go for it and I hope it all works out with her!
-melissa- [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
Karen answered Friday March 4 2005, 7:15 pm: She might get freaked out if you call her without asking her for her number. It would be a bad idea, since she never knew that you had her number and you shouldn't look it up, ask her yourself for it and then you can get to know her.
-Karen [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
punkrockprincess answered Friday March 4 2005, 7:14 pm: go ahead and call her. it could be very flattering for her. but it depends on what you say! if you say the wrong things, she may think youre a total creep! maybe send her flowers first...maybe every other day for about a week but dont put your name on it. then call her! that would be so adorable!
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