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I need some advice!
Okay! My problem is that my boyfriend and I have been dating about two months, well evertime we are together he talks about starting his own buisness in the oil field! Well I am really starting to get fustrated with him cause that is the only thing he ever wants to talk about! I know that he has to make his living, but we are dating and he should make time for me to right? What should I do about it? Please help me!
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tell your bf ho9w you fell about it wen he brings it up all the time, not so he gats mad tho, just to get the point in his head, but say you are really happy that he has something to look forward too, but you want some of his attention too.
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Maybe when he brings it up say "wow im really happy your so determined...(then say my grandpa,friend, yourself, whoever was determined also...) hopefully that will trigger a new topic. I know its not the greatest topic..but hey its different right? Hopefully he'll go with it and talk about something else for a change. If he doesnt..then thats a problem. If he ignores your gesture for a new topic and goes on with the oil field thing..its time to confront him. Maybe he doesnt realize its bothering you? Ask "can we talk about something else? im really happy your so determined..but its all we've been talking about."
I hope it works out..if he doesnt catch on after awhile i would think about dumping him. Hopefully it wont get to that though.
-melissa-
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Tell your boyfriend how you feel about it.. and tell him you want some attention.. and also tell him you know he needs to make a living but tell him to not talk bout it so much and jus go ahead and do it..much luv dez
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tell him. what else would you possibly do?
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gently sway the conversation in a new direction.. don't even say it.. just ask him a radom question and talk about something else.. like.. "what kind of dog do you think we should get."
random.. but it would spark some interest.. unless you guys are cat people like me.. but a lot of people prefer dogs..
don't tell him to do anything.. guys don't like being told what to do... most guys don't anyway... just sway the conversation to topic you would rather discuss.
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