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Im always here to help You! Thanks to all you guys who have helped me already!
My boyfriend and I have been togeter since Feburary 2nd,2004! We are still great, and going strong!! :)
That car to the side is a 1999 Honda Prelude in pearl white! My favorite car!! :)
I have had a bunch of friends that have had wierd problems, and I Have always experienced a lot.
I babysit a lot, so if you have questions about that, Ask away!
I love fashion questions and Questions about clothing and what looks good with what and where to find cheep stuff.
I love make-up questions and most hair questions!
Although I do answer them, I hate sex questions.
I am good at the whole "being a girl" thing, like shaving and periods. Ask me those, I'd love to help!
My Absoulte Favorite Columnists are:
Mackenzie She is amazing! :) She is REALLY amazing!!!
YG Yeah, She is definately awesome!
The Old One He is good! :)
Karen Can we say genius?
Selectopaque Excellent!
Emily *Clap Clap Clap*
NaImEE amazing advice!!
Bryndon Pretty good advice right there!!
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and I'll be adding more soon! Could it be you? :)
I would love to and gladly accept any questions on anything, it does not have to be anything above.
Favorite Books:
*Go Ask Alice
*Annie's Baby
*It Happened To Nancy
*Teen Idol
*All-American Girl
*The 1-800-Where-R-You Series
*The Mediator Series
*The Body Of Christopher Creed
*Freaky Green Eyes
*Of Mice and Men
*The Wattsons Go To Bermingham
*To Kill A Mockingbird
*The Earth, My But, and Other Big Round Things
* The Secret Life Of Beez
*Where the heart is
Favorite Movies:
*Now and then
*where the hear is
*Honey
*Save The Last Dance
*Love Don't Cost A Thing
*Kate and Leapold
*Miss Congeanility 1 and 2
*Beauty Shop
*A Cinderella Story
*Confessions Of A Teenage Drama Queen
*Raise Your Voice
*Drumline
*The Notebook
*Coyote Ugly
*Sisterhood Of The Traveling Pants
*Hitch
*Where The Heart Is
*Now And Then
*10 Things I Hate About You
*Drop Dead Goregous
*The Wedding Planner
*Uptown Girls
*Finding Forrester
*Greese
*Leagly Blonde 1 And 2
*Sweet Home Alabama
*What Women Want
*Napolean Dynomite
*Shrek 1 And 2
*Finding Nemo
*Pirates Of The Carriebean
*Pay It Foward
*Charlie and the Chocolate Factory
*Maid In Manhatten
*Charlie and The Chocolate Factory
*The Unfinished Life
Music:
*ALL COUNTRY!!!!
*Usher
*The All American Rejects
*New Found Glory
*My Chemical Romance
*Sugar Cult
*Black Eyed Peas
*Switchfood
*John Mayer
*Gavin DeGraw
*Trapt
*Ashlee Simpsion
*COHEED AND CAMBRIA
*Lonestar
*Fall Out Boy
*Hilary Duff
*311
*Systen Of a Down
*Chronic Future
* The Gorillaz
* My Chemical Romance
*Fall Out Boy
*Embodyment
*Boxcar racer
* Alien Ant Farm
Songs:
*Kyrie- By Mr. Mister
*We Danced Anyway- Deana Carter
*Breathless- The Corrs*
And Much More!!
If you want to know about any of the books, movies, bands, artists, or songs, please feel free to leave one in my inbox!! Always There For Ya!!
I Love To Help!!
Feel free to ask me anything! :)I try to help as best I can! :)
*You get what you give, & everything you do comes back to you*
One night, the moon said to me " If he makes you cry, why don't you leave him?" I looked upto the moon and said, "Moon, would you ever leave the sky?"
I know there's something in the wake of your smile. I get a notion from the look in your eyes. You've built a love, but that love falls apart. Your little piece of heaven, turns to dark.Sometimes you wonder if this fight is worthwhile, the precous moments are all lost in the tide. They're swept alway, and nothing is what it seems, the feeling of belonging to your dreams.AND THERE ARE VOICES THAT WANT TO BE HEARD,so much to mention, but you can't find the words. The scent of magic, that's the beauty that's been, when love was wilder than the wind.
♥ -Kelsey- ♥
advice
How do you start a conversation with the guy you like? What makes the conversation interesting? What should i talk about? And how do i keep the conversation lasting? Answer all please! i rate 5s and comment
ask him about
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fav tv show
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fav sports team
fav sports player
fav candy bar
fav soda
smile alot, and be interested, if you talk to "him" tomorrow and he says he likes football, watch the game, do some "looking arounD" for info, and then the next day you can talk about it!!
yeah, if you need anything else, please leave one in my inbox! I would love to help!!
thanks so much for letting me help yoU!
always there-
Kelsa
please leave feedback! :)
i've been having these dreams, about breaking up with my bf. and i know i never want to do that. i love him with all my heart. then i have other dreams where hes cheating on me. i cant help but let these dreams get to me b/c its not what i want. i see him once every couple weeks and i miss him terribly, and i know some of you might say "maybe you dont want a long distance relationship" but thats not it. we've been together for a while and yes i dont like it but i would never break up with him b/c of that. hes too important to me. i dont know whats going on but i want these dreams to stop but i dont know how. and i refuse to break up with my b/f. i would literaly die first. please help. thanks.
i get them all the time too, it just shows that you really care about him, and that you have a good thing, and dont want to loose it, and it also makes your realize how much he means to you. and also, my boyfriend lives close to me, but we go to differetn schools so i get to see him only on the weekends, and only for like 5 hours! and thats not alot, considering how many hours are in a week! well, i will always be here for you if you need anything, because i understand, and we are sortof going through the same thing!!!
if you ever need anything, please leave one in my inbox!!
always there-
Kelsa
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this might seem a little gross but, i was wondering what is a discharge? and what is too much? if someoen was getting it for about 2 years shouldnt they get their period by now? arent you supposed to get it soon when you have that? -- thanks
its the norla wa of cleaning out "down there" and go to http://www.beinggirl.com
they can answer all of those questions. also, i am good at this too, I dont want to sound conceded, but i am! I know a lot about it. hmm, there isnt too much, i checked with my doctor. and it can happen all of your life, even after your peroid, my doctor told me that!
if you ever need anything else, please leave one in my inbox!!
thanks for letting me help you!
always-
Kelsa
please leave feedback! :)
random question, but if you marry your highschool sweetheart right after senior year and before college, is that a bad thing? like will that cause problems with being married and going to school at the same time?
and basically is it bad to just get married at that age in general? is it hard to handle money, buying homes, etc?
because I really want to ask my beautiful girlfriend that I've known my whole love to marry me, but I don't want it to cause problems.
I want my boyfriend to do that!! ANd we want to too! i think that it will be a good thing because then you will remain true to eachother! and be happy, and it will just make you work harder for everything!!
best of luck!
leave one if you ever need anything! I think that this is the best idea!!
thanks for letting me help yoU!
always-
kelsa
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My hair is blonde and goes down to about my shoulders. Im thinking about getting my hair layered, but i need a good idea of what I want my hair to look like. DO you have any links or pics of what i should get my hair cut like? THX SOOO MUCH GUYS!!! YOUR A LIFESAVER!! I rate high!
well, wehn you go to the hair salon, tell them what you want, but tell them to go slowly, and to point things out as they, go, and you can both decide on a length, ect, togehter, and see what would work and look the best, thats what i always do instead of a picture!! :) and it works great!!
thanks for letting me help you!!
always-
Kelsa :)
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Is it normal to have a late period?..like a 2 week-late period?Also,anyone have websites that would answer my questions please?
www.beinggirl.com
is amazing!!
and yes it is normal, unless you have been sexually active! also, please ask me if you have any other questions! I am soo good at this!
thanks for letting me help you!!
always-
Kelsa :)
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My hair is extremely long and straight, and I recently took four inches off of it so the tips reach around the middle of my back. I'm a dancer, so I can't go too short, but I want to make it seem shorter by making it wavy. I heard curling irons can be damaging to hair. Is there another way to get my hair into waves?
you could get a purm, or sleep in curlers!!!! i used to do that!! shower @ night, then put them in while your hair is wet, and then by morning your hair should be wavy. or you could blow dry your hair w/ the curlers in it!!!
thanks for letting me help you!!
always-
Kelsa :)
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Hey! My sister is 10 and she wants a Summer job. Her and her 2 friends want to. They keep bugging me for jobs they can do and I really have no idea what 3 ten-year-old girls can do! If you have ant ideas please tell me! Oh yeah, remeber they're 10!!! 10~10~10~10~10~10~10~10~10~10~10~10~10~10~10
Please don't say any hard jobs for teens or I rate 1's. Thanx! I RATE!
maybe dog walking or some sort of yard work or gardning. also, maybe while people are out of town during the summer they can get the peoples mail and newspapers and turn on and off lights! i did that when i was about ten with one of my friends!!! and also, they could take care of their pets while they are out of town too!!
thanks for letting me help you!!
always-
Kelsa :)
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Well I have a party on Friday and it is a pool party.. but I am also just starting my period... I know I can use a tampon.. but I am afraid it will leak.. will it? and should I use it?
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the water could go inside, and yes, the tampon will absorb it, but you will find that the water keeps the blood from flowing, and so when you do change your tampon it is mostly wet from the water, and not too much blood, thats how it is for me!!
yes you should use it, but the water usually keeps it from leaking!! just go and change it ever few hours if you want!!!
then you will be on the same side!
always-
Kelsa :)
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he doesnt like to be hug or w.e...whenever i try he backs away..and i would really like to be in his arms...he would make me happy..i was thinking of talking to him about it in december...but my plan didnt work well..and i havent seen him since january..and that was nothing..it was only for 30 mins..and we were inorging each other then..and i was trying not to make eye contact bc i was mad at him and we got into a fight mid-december and yeah...i do miss him and want to see him soon..just our schedule's are so booked that we cant see each other till prob the summer...-hopefully- and its driving me insane that i havent seen him in so long!!! urghhh...X3
awe, i am so sorry! I hope things work out this summer! keep me posted!! good luck!
*Kelsa*
i just got my period today, but i have already had it this month. is something wrong?
no
www.beinggirl.com
helps alot, ive had mine for 3years,and it still isnt regualr! no worries
any more questions, please ask, i am really good at this stuff!!
thanks for letting me help you!
always there-
Kelsa*
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Every year i have a friend party. This year i want to have something rly cool and i want to have like eveyone there. The only thing is i know a theme might b totally nerdy but i need some ideas for my party. Like games we can play and stuff we can do. I have a rly big backyard so i want to have it there. Any ideas??
*~Sam~*
thats a cute idea, maybe a "lioui" the hawaiian thing, i cant spell.
that is so awesome, sorry i dont realy have verry many good ideas!! buti like that you do that, its awesome!!
kelsa*
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What are some cheat codes for the sims game? thanks in advance!
move_objects on
works on everything but the sims 2
and then you can delete the people, then click on them in the corner, and they come back with all their things like hunder bladder ect at max!! uh, you have to hit control shift c to make the box come up to type that in
rosebud gives you 1000 sim things and then
rosebud;! with those gets more
and for the sims 2
motherlode gets you 50,000 sim things, and that is the same control shift c thing
and also, you cannot delete people on the sims2! they wont come back!!
thanks for letting me help you!
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Ok, I like one my best guy friends and my BFF and I think he likes me as well..but he is too shy. I want to kiss him, without doing it outta no where and freaking him out. Are there are some suggestions of signals that I could send to show that I would like to be kissed?- thx
well, do you hug him, if so, while you do kiss his neck or cheek! and also, if he is your best guy friend, you can talk to him about it right?
so go for it!!
its the only way to know for sure!!
thanks for letting me help you!
always there-
Kelsa*
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Okay...I am having a birthday party in a couple of weeks and I need some activites to do while I am there. I am inviting about 15 girls...no boys and would like things to do to entertain the guests. Thank-you very much!!! 15/f
music and snacks and movies!! it will be so much fun! girls are easy, just start talking, and dont be too gossipy or hurt anyone, but talk about guys, and dance, do karokie, and watch some movies, do make overs or nails and hair! do like horrible hair and make-up then good ones. give massages (back) and just chit-chat!!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!
HAVE FUN!
THANKS FOR LETTING ME HELP YOU!
KELSA*
PLEASE LEAVE FEEDBACK!
this is embarassing to ask... but i really want to know
is using tampons like a guy fingering you? or will it loosen you up? and does it pop your cherry?
i will rate 5s because i really want to know...
its not like fingering, it can loosen you up, and it could "pop your cherry" but ist no big deal, it can pop while riding a bike or any other activity.
www.beinggirl.com is an amazing site that helps a lot!!
if you have any other questions, please ask, i am really good at this!!
kelsa-
hi im 15 and my boyfriends 16. although many adults say that us teens dont know what love is teens know when their in love. i just want peoples opinions (teens and adults) on if teens know what love is and also me and my boyfriend are really in love and its NOT lust. we know it. anyways we decided we were going to have sex (no my boyfriends not like that hes never pushed me into sex ever) but were not having sex for the fun of it we really do love eachother. please give us ur thoughts and please dont be mean thanx!~Kelley
i love my boyfriend, i am 15 and he is 17, and we are inlove, and we are not going to have sex either, before marrage. and he has never pushed me either! i am the same as you two! i thinK!! well, we should totally keep in touch with this, and i will ask you if i have any problems, and you too! please leave feedback with your user name or leave me one in my inbox with your user name please!!
I would love to be "buddies" so we can help eachother with this, because i know it can be hard!
well talk later!
Kelsa-
(sry,didn't know where to put this)
I got my period on halloween. I am the first of my friends to have gotten it. I know that it probably won't come back for a while, but it has already been just under 6 months. I have all the symptoms(irritablity, discharge, cramping) but I have been feeling like this for a week and it hasn't come. Any advice or help? I'll rate high!
~?
www.beinggirl.com
its an amazing site for that.
its okay, its just because its the begining, i have had mine for 3 years, and it still isnt normal!!
if you have any other questions with this, please ask! i am really good at it!!
Kelsa-
Dudes
How can I get my mom to let me get my ears pierced? She says I have to wait until I'm fsxking 16! I just turned 15 two days ago!!! She says people would say I look like a sissy. Ok. Well, only the shallow asshats would actually say that out loud, and even then I don't care. They can bite me. But she says I have to wait until the age even SHE got them! 1) I am not a woman 2) I am not my mother.
M/15. I'm just /curious/ as to how I would look in them! If I dont like them I could just let it cover up. I seriously don't see her logic in this other than the usual parent crap 'I want you to be just like me and grow up the same way.'
I dont really have an answer but ask
fabolouzxkay8
she is the BEST at this stuff!!
ok so i gave my b/f a hand job, and he precummed and after that i rubbed the lips of my pussy.. is there any chance i can get pregnant?
yes, because i went to a seminar on that, its basically the same thing as the guy there said, if a guy like masturabates (sp) before a date, then fingers you, you can get pregnant. '
But i dont know what you mean by "lips" do you mean like you went to the restroom? and then whiped? and your hand hit?? i duno. but, i dont know if that would so much as if you masturabated and got the "pre cum" inside of yourself.
thanks for letting me help you!!
always there-
Kelsa :)