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dreams
i've been having these dreams, about breaking up with my bf. and i know i never want to do that. i love him with all my heart. then i have other dreams where hes cheating on me. i cant help but let these dreams get to me b/c its not what i want. i see him once every couple weeks and i miss him terribly, and i know some of you might say "maybe you dont want a long distance relationship" but thats not it. we've been together for a while and yes i dont like it but i would never break up with him b/c of that. hes too important to me. i dont know whats going on but i want these dreams to stop but i dont know how. and i refuse to break up with my b/f. i would literaly die first. please help. thanks.
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it means that you are nervous about your relationship and there is some un settled tension between you.or that you need to be wary of personal desires as they will leasd to failiur in life
Solemnstar
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They might stop if you don't let them get to you. Don't make it seem like such a big deal...it's just a dream!
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i get them all the time too, it just shows that you really care about him, and that you have a good thing, and dont want to loose it, and it also makes your realize how much he means to you. and also, my boyfriend lives close to me, but we go to differetn schools so i get to see him only on the weekends, and only for like 5 hours! and thats not alot, considering how many hours are in a week! well, i will always be here for you if you need anything, because i understand, and we are sortof going through the same thing!!!
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You really haven't any control over your dreams.
You just miss him and are maybe wondering some things since you don't see him to often. Just give him a call or try to talk to him on the phone or something before you go to sleep...maybe that will help some. :)
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These aren't dreams, obviously, they're nightmares. You don't take pleasure in them, so its bad. Nightmares.
What to do about them? You can take a B12 vitamin supplement once every day for awhile to help control your nervous system during REM. I had horrible repetitive nightmares where if I even touched something a maniacal laugh came forth and the world blew up in a supernova. o.O;;
Or, try thinking of something pleasureable before you sleep. What you think of before resting can sometimes affect your dreams.
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i know how you feel. this happened to me before. the reason your having these is because you're afraid to loose him! don't worry about it, this is just showing that you love him alot, proving your point that you wont break up with him. you guys are probably a really cute couple!♥
MiiCHELLE..*
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Often, sunconcious fears and worries manifest in your dreams. I know this is true for me. If I have a particularly disturbing dream, I can usually analyze it myself, and then deduce what caused me to dream up that particular scenario.
For example, I once dreamt that a close friend of mine was trying to kill me. I was walking out of a restuarant with another friend, and I saw him standing across the street, beside his car. I knew that he was stalking me, and that he intended to do me serious physical injury. I ran, and he pursued...
In reality, I know that my friend would never hurt me deliberately. He would not even so much as step on my toe intentionally. So where did this nonsense come from?
At the time, our friendship was changing...And I was afraid that he would hurt me emotionally. This emotional threat that I felt in reality, translated itself into a physical threat in my dream.
What I am trying to get at it this...Maybe the distance is causing some emotional strain. While you obviously care about this person, and don't want to end the relationship, it could be that you are afraid that you will eventually break up, or that he might be cheating on you. Such worries may be unwarranted.
I'm NOT suggesting that you dump your boyfriend. I'm suggesting that you address the deeper concerns that you have about your relationship with him. If you feel that such worries are unneccessary, fine. If not, you need to have a discussion about your relationship, and where it is going.
Best of luck ;) Adieu...
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Ok this is what i think you should do i think first of all you should tell your boyfriend and ask him if he can help you like you need comfort but it has to be face to face. then call and say lets hang out when you know he is doing something with his friends if he picks you over them then you have nothing to worry about and if he picks his friends dont worry either just keep alarm
sally
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Don't worry. I have dreams like that all the time, and my boyfriend has them too. I'm in a long distance relationship, and I get to see him once a week if I'm lucky and we've been together for almost a year. It is hard not seeing him every day but long distance relationships are always the ones that end up working out in the end. Sometimes I let the dreams get to me and I'll wake up crying and wanting to call him in the middle of the night and I do. I just talk to him about what my dream was and he just reassures me that nothing is ever going to get between the two of us. Just sit down and talk to your boyfriend and tell him what your dreams have been about, and just let him reassure you that nothing will get between the two of you and that he loves you and he doesn't want to leave you. I've had like 3 times in one week I'd wake up from one of those dreams, we all get them so it's completely normal. And alot of experts on dreams always say that alot of the bad things that happen in your dreams always mean that something good is going to happen. And the best thing that's happened to me was my boyfriend and I are still together and we want to be for as long as God lets us. I know it hurts when you have those dreams, but it's normal. Think of it as an obsacle and you also have to reassure yourself that everything is going to be okay between you two. Good luck... I hope this helped.
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Hello,
Dreams are usually a manifestation of what we think about during the day. You must be worried about all these things coming true, and so you dream about them. Understanding that is key, I know some people who say, once they understand the reasons for the dreams they are able to control the outcome. I have never tried it, so I can't tell you how to do that, but maybe it is just matter of telling yourself that you are going to have a good dream. Or maybe spend some time daydreaming about the two of your getting married, or something simple like going on a picnic, and maybe you'll dream about that.
I hope this helped.
Michele
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