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Ear Rings


Question Posted Monday April 25 2005, 8:02 pm

Dudes

How can I get my mom to let me get my ears pierced? She says I have to wait until I'm fsxking 16! I just turned 15 two days ago!!! She says people would say I look like a sissy. Ok. Well, only the shallow asshats would actually say that out loud, and even then I don't care. They can bite me. But she says I have to wait until the age even SHE got them! 1) I am not a woman 2) I am not my mother.

M/15. I'm just /curious/ as to how I would look in them! If I dont like them I could just let it cover up. I seriously don't see her logic in this other than the usual parent crap 'I want you to be just like me and grow up the same way.'


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diebadspellers answered Thursday June 2 2005, 10:20 pm:
"Shallow asshats" is so awesome that I won't make fun of you. I bet you will look dashing with them on.

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adorable247 answered Wednesday May 18 2005, 6:09 pm:
you can always wear fake earrings..,my friend got some and it looked so real on him or you can tell her that times have changed totally or the worst thing you can do is go get them pierced at like walmart/claires/or where ever and be like opps i forgot you said no! she would be angry

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BlairDotCom answered Thursday April 28 2005, 2:52 pm:
Well i think your mom doesnt want you wasting the mnoey on it if you dont like it. You say if you dont like it, you can just take them out, or cover it up. Well, earrings cost money-- depnding on what kind you get--so maybe she wants to wait until YOU are paying for it so ou dont waste your money on it.
Also, maybe she wants you to wait until your older because she thinks this is just a phase you're going through? Ask her about it, say you'll pay for half of the expenses of the piercings.
Plus, you should explain to ehr that you are not like her, and that you aren't a woman. Make these two points known and maybe she will let you sooner. Don't whine about it, she may jsut change her mind altgother, and definatly dont push it if she says no.

Hope it all works out for you.

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redxroses answered Tuesday April 26 2005, 12:25 am:
You need to tell her to catch up with the times. In today's society ear piercings don't make a guy look like a 'sissy,' most people find it stylish, characteristic, and hot. Remind her that you're 15, an age that should make you responsible for your own actions. Begging helps too.

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sweetxcatastrophe answered Monday April 25 2005, 10:42 pm:
get small gages.
you wouldnt look like a sissy
and i think its pretty hott

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qotsa369 answered Monday April 25 2005, 10:26 pm:
So what is your question?

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SheDidntLuvUAnyways answered Monday April 25 2005, 8:53 pm:
Explain to your mom that it is your body, your decision. And if you want to go through with the piercing of your ears "and deal with people calling you a sissy" then youll deal with what anyone says. Explain to her that you're mature enough not to care what people think. (Even though I seriously doubt anyone is going to have a problem with you being a boy and having your ears pierced.) Maybe say that you will pay for it. But explain to her in a normal tone dont yell or your mom will just be thinking "oh its just another teenager acting out."

Good Luck.

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yesiliketobeme answered Monday April 25 2005, 8:40 pm:
i dont think you would look like a sissy at all. i think guys that have there ears peirced are hott. just ask your mom. and if she still says no. then just do it yourself. it doesnt hurt at all i did 2 in each ear by myself. if she notices then just tell her to f*ck off and that there not coming out.
hope i helped

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Abbey Rosa answered Monday April 25 2005, 8:39 pm:
My best freind had that problem once and I told her the same thing I am telling you. What I do when I really want something and there's no way i can convince mom is.. research. yah yah I know it sucks but if you were to get online and do some research and write about the advantages and disadvantages of getting the ears peirced it might change her mind. it will show her that this isnt impulse and that you are really serious about this addition to your body. It also shows responsibility that you are willing to do everything it takes. and even then if she says no dont get mad or throw a fit that makes it worse.. it doesnt make you look to good either. Try to be mature and show your mom that you want to be treated more like an adult and really think this is a good thing

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K2204 answered Monday April 25 2005, 8:28 pm:
I dont really have an answer but ask

fabolouzxkay8

she is the BEST at this stuff!!

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LinDsx3 answered Monday April 25 2005, 8:25 pm:
tell her its not a big deal and atleast u dont wanna get ur dick pierced like other dudes

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