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How do you start a conversation with the guy you like? What makes the conversation interesting? What should i talk about? And how do i keep the conversation lasting? Answer all please! i rate 5s and comment
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just find something you have in common. DONT pretend to like what he likes if you dont. its good to be honest about what you like. you can have little minnie debates about your differences which can be interesting. for example, my boyfriend loves nascar..but i think its boring. so we are always arguing about it..but i always end up letting him watch a little bit of it. so basically..find stuff in commom..but embrace differences as well. =).
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say something funny or find something you both have in common
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Well first, if its a guy you like, you have to know what he likes, right? Or something that he likes. Maybe he has a sticker for a band on his notebook, or hes wearing a sports jersey... start a topic about something that you notice he likes.
If he's a sporty guy, talk about the school sport event that just happened. If hes a musical guy-- talk about a CD from the band that he likes that just came out. Stuff like that.
Making the conversation last isnt the hard part. Just talk about things he's going to like-- not necessarily just what you like. Also, know what you're talking about. Dont just pull some random topic out of your ass , that he likes, that you know nothing about because then it will end really quickly. Be smart about it and start a conversation about something you have intrest in(you dont have to necessarily like it but just know about it) so you dont seem fake when you bring it up.
Do what comes natural to make it intresting. Random fun facts about the things that he likes, or just talking about it in general may keep it intresting. Having a common intrest with someone is the key thing for a good conversation.
I hope I helped you out. And I hope if you do start a conversation with the guy you like, that all goes well :)
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just start it as a normal conversation. what is he into? talk about that, liek sports and stuff and say that you like those sports too or whatever he likes and it will get him interested in you knowing that there is a girl who likes the same stuff as him. i hope i helped!
Tara
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try talking about his intresets. toast ,music,tv shows,toast,girls,computers,toast
Solemnstar
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K, so I talked to my ex on the telephone foR the fiRst time in oveR a yeaR about an houR ago... things ended alittle shakey with us because theRe was something up with his fiancee at the time... Haha, now seee... if *THAT* doesn't sound like a Reciepe foR awkwaRd moments... I don't know *WHAT* does!!! It was gReat though, I asked all soRts of questions about his life, and made silly comments, and I thought it went Really well. He called, and I answeRed saying his name, then he Responded with a "yep", and I asked "How aRe you" - that's the fiRst step... bReaking the ice. Also, make shoRe YOU ask it, because some guys use the Response to that line with something cute, such as "betteR now" oR something like a "Thankful that I get to talk to you" type-of-deal. Now you didn't include an age, oR how well you know this guy, so I don't have much to go on heRe, but I can tell you to fish foR a lot of details with the questions you ask. FoR instance, my ex told me he moved. I asked if the house was "pRettie", then asked if it was "cute" and if he was happie theRe. He said he was, and I asked him about his bedRoom. He went on to say the size of it, and I asked what fuRtnituRe it contained. You get what I'm saying... I asked about his fuRnituRe.. it's Really like a 'who caRes' type of question honestly, but it keeps it fun and keeps it goin'. I don't know if this guy has a job oR not, but if so, ask him if he's happie theRe... and what exactly does his job entail, and if he has tons of fRiends.. and if theRe's a giRl he likes... and it's impoRtant to say that like you'Re just cuRious, but it doesn't matter to you... that way, he's pRobably moRe likely to give you an honest answeR, and you can see wheRe you stand and how good youR chances aRe. If you'Re on the youngeR side, say 12, 13, oR 14, talk about old t.v. shows, such as "GUTS", "Wild N CRazy Kids", "Hey Dude", "SailoR Moon", "ARe You AfRaid Of The DaRk" and so on. Also, a good question... ask about his day!! I always ask people about theiR day, but I make them go into detail... eveRy single detail fRom the moment they woke up til the veRy second I asked -- this usually keeps things going, because theRe's alot to be commented on heRe also. If you don't know this kid too well... tRy getting to know him by asking him what his middle name is... wheRe he was boRn.. if he plays any instRuments and things like that. TheRe's almost always a whole lot to be said to just about eveRyone!! I can only RemembeR two people in my life that I could just could not keep a conveRsation with, so my questions and techniques woRk Really well as faR as I'm conceRned! Just push youR feaR aside and go foR it! I'm shoRe you'll do excellent, so go get 'em tigeR!! I wish you the best of luck!! Hope I helped, and peRhaps you can let me know how things tuRned out?? =D
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dont worry about what to say or u wont be able to say anything! just be yourself and relax and youll be fine..guys can normally tell when youre nervous and it might make things awkward..u got it girl
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ask him about
pets
family
friends
classes
cars
sports
fav stores
fav color
fav sport
fav tv show
fav music
fav movie
fav sports team
fav sports player
fav candy bar
fav soda
smile alot, and be interested, if you talk to "him" tomorrow and he says he likes football, watch the game, do some "looking arounD" for info, and then the next day you can talk about it!!
yeah, if you need anything else, please leave one in my inbox! I would love to help!!
thanks so much for letting me help yoU!
always there-
Kelsa
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First start off with bang. say hi lol. then just ask how he's doing and talk about movies, music, books that he and you like. Find some things you both have in common. if it gets boring, ask him about sports or something. most guys can go on for hours about sports and you can just sit back and listen. but be sure to put in some input. hope i helped!
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I will answer your questions in the order that you asked them. I will be brief, so sorry if you want long, detailed answers.
1) "Hi dude!"
2) Your facial expressions, say his name a lot, eye contact, subtle touches.
3) Dinosaurs, pirates, and Thomas Jefferson. Then eventually be like, "sooo is there a girl you like?"
4) If he seems like he is uninterested, back off. You did your best.
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