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I go to Russia every summer and last year I met this wonderful darling cat that I just fell in love with. It is a girl and she was pregnant when I met her. One day when I was walking with my mom the cat was meowing so I petted her for around five minutes and then I asked my mom if we could get her some food. We gave her food and she was very thankful! So then we ended up feeding her everyday. I begged my mom if we could bring her back home but she said no because it would be too expensive and we already have a cat but he's mean! So my question is, will she remember me? I even gave her a name! Kisa! And whenever I called her she came running even if she was all the way down on another block!! I miss her bunches and I want to know if she'll still come when I call her and if she'll be happy? Thanks

I understand why we could not bring her. It would indeed be expensive, but sadly I am so sentimental in that way

yes I know touching a stray was potentially dangerous but I did it, and now what is done is done

the idea of being forgotten by anyone I made a connection with, even a cat, makes me sad.

Animals can be more human like than we give them credit for. Whether this cat will remember you depends on the individual cat. I have known strays that have their rounds and go to each place they know they can get some food and attention. It isn't often in life that people and animals make connections that are real close. I am sorry you dont have that with the cat at home.

Ok hey guys
I was wondering if it was a bit weird that I like it when my bf gets a boner
I mean when he hugs me from behind I can feel it and it feels so good
I'm 14 and my bf is 15
Please no comments about age

Should I say anything to him about it and if you have any suggestions what could I say

Thank you for answering🎀🎀🎀

No, its not a weird thing to feel like that, its quite normal if you are interested in the guy.

Females like to know when they are turning a guy on. Woman are so critical of themselves often finding the tiniest of flaws with themselves and their looks so it is comforting to know beyond a doubt that a guy is turned on by them.
If you're in puberty, these feelings come with it, so it's appropriate to feel this way even at a young age. What may not be as good, is becoming sexually active before one is ready.

You don't need to say a thing. Guys have had to get used to the idea that their boners are out there for everyone to possibly notice.If you mention you noticed it, it could make him feel embarrassed or self conscious if he is that type of personality. It can be quite embarrassing at times. Young guys can get hard very easily even without a girl around, just the thought of her is enough. A girl can be just as turned on as the guy except there is no visible evidence to see as with a guy that is real obvious.

I moved into an apartment with 3 other girls for college in October. We were randomly assigned to be apartment mates. At the beginning it seemed like we all wanted to be polite. At the beginning I tried to reach out to all of them to ask to hang out. One responded ok but I almost never see her because she sleeps during the day and wakes up at night. The other two always said they had other stuff to do.
These two other girls are very different from me. I'm the bookworm and they're the frat party type (they go to a lot of frat parties). As the weeks went on, they started to be really cold to me. They say 'hi' and 'bye' if they have to in the hallway. If I ever try to make conversation (like "Hi amy, how was your day?) they respond in monosyllables. It's hard to describe in detail, but basically they glare at me with disgust and loathing. They avoid me as much as possible and completely ignore me in public. I hear them gossip about other people constantly and it's now obvious they hate me too.
I'm so fed up now after spending weeks trying to be polite. It's gotten to the point where I dislike them as much as they dislike me. The other day I made a point of glaring at both of them and using the exact same crumbled 'hi' they used to greet me- they seemed surprised. I know it's immature but I'm so aggravated by their hostility that I want to treat them as badly as they've treated me from now on.
What can you do if the people you live with hate you? My other friends seem to be getting along fine with their suitemates. I'm not looking forward to spending the rest of the year with these girls. Please help. I don't know why this is happening.

I suggest you talk to the person who assigned you to room with these girls. There may be another apartment with a similar situation and personality mismatch and a switch might be able to be done.

In the meanwhile realize that a roommate doesn't have to like you or have a great desire to become your friend. You are only sharing living space, not social life. I know its hard maybe for a friendly person to be around people who aren't socially friendly back. But as long as you all can be civil to each other, respective of each others privacy and cooperative on any areas of the apt. that need to be shared, then nothing else is required.
Then again, it may be that this is just how you are interpreting their actions and not at all an issue of dislike or hate.

19/f
Okay in October my friend had a Halloween party a few days before Halloween and I saw this guy that I had seen on campus quite a bit but never really talked to there. Well, eventually we started talking at the party and with the consumption of alcohol present, we ended up making out in the basement of my friend's house. Nothing else happened that night but we ended up texting quite a bit for a few days afterwards. About a week or so later we went out to dinner, ended up going back to his place, one thing led to another anddd we slept together. We hung out a few more times after that and it seemed like everything was going great and then I realized that he was hanging out with a girl that I knew he was talking to/dating at some point but I wasn't too worried about it because we're not in a relationship or anything. Then he started rescheduling plans and coming up with excuses when I asked him to hang out. His excuses sound legitimate and he always ends up getting back to me so I'm not entirely sure what to do. Should I continue pursuing this as a potential relationship or should I just let it go? Thanks.

He is the kind who likes to play around with other girls if the opportunity comes up but not commit to be monogamous while in a relationship with a girl.
If he knows he isn't ready to do the serial monogamy thing with a girl, the reason he doesn't say anything is likely because he feels if he were honest and told a gal he wanted to date occasionally and have her for an occasional sex partner but likes variety, all at the same time and that he wasn't committing to only her, well...likely few females would want to be with him because thats not their idea of a romantic relationship.

He is not a good prospect for a boyfriend. Keep looking. If however you have no idea how to recognize what a good potential boyfriend is, you will need to read books on healthy relationships to get a picture of what the guy would be like.

Tell me a woman can be pregnant if she has fucked by her ass hole?

Internally there is no connection from the anal cavity to her vagina so sperm deposited inside can't make a woman pregnant.

the only issue is if there is any sperm on the outside of her anus because it is a short distance to the vaginal opening from there so there is a slight chance of a sperm surviving and making it inside.

The only other possibility is the man not paying close enough attention between thrusts and on one comes out too far and then thinks he's reentering the anus but its the vagina instead.

my wife wants me to get off with a guy and join in and then is willing to go with a girlaswell as a three some dose any one know of any we dating that do this????

If you are in a young marriage and haven't had many years to strengthen and season your marriage, even though both of you want to try other sexual encounters outside the marriage...I advise against it. I've been there, not threesomes necessarily myself but the whole swing club environment, where there are bi women going after each other, 3 somes, swapping partners with another couple for either full on sex or whats called soft swing, everything but penetration. A couple needs to have boundaries, rules that they both do not ever break. Even with boundaries followed, I have witnesses wives get extremely jealous of me or husbands get extremely jealous of their wife with my husband. There were also the mates going along just for the partner into this kind of thing tho they were not and people like that were avoided like the plague cus it was a matter of time before it became a problem.

As a man, are you intrigued and interested in doing something with another man? If truly not, then don't go there. Have a good talk with her. Perhaps she thinks she may be bi-sexual and is just waking up to that fact.
I witnessedd many couples where the husband brought his wife so she could play with other women but he had no interest what so ever in another female for himself. I never saw males go after males in clubs...that was always a private thing done at ones home. Why? No idea.

If you are in the childbearing years and she is trying in a round about way to work out being with another guy for sex, don't even go there. If you're trying for children, and condoms are the only protection, forget it. statistics show that 2-9 out a 100 women each year get pregnant using condom.I had the experience of one guys condom totally splitting and couple other instances where the condom stayed inside as he came out. I was on pill. But then theres still the chance for STI's or STD's. If you have any specific questions for me on the subject, let me know.

So far, for all I know, she's only made the suggestion but the two of you have not talked in depth about what brought up this idea on her part. Give her a safe environment in which to share whats going on in her mind and why she thinks she wants to do this. You'll need to be open minded and supportive in your words but you do not need to agree to something that makes you uncomfortable in any way. If you're wondering if many girlfriends and wives suggest this kind of thing, I interviewed every couple I met to find out whether it was his idea or her idea to go for the alternative sexual lifestyle, and in 80=90 % it was the women who wanted it.

17/ female. Hey there so Im going to try not to make this long, so here goes. Me and this guy have liked each other sense 5th grade we just didn't really get to talk that much in middle school, because we went to different schools, but we would still keep in touch and when we did text off and on 6-8 grade it would still be flirting and us still liking each other. Well the summer of 8th grade going into freshman year came and that means both middle schools combine so I would be with him. Anyway that summer I met the guy who would be my first true love and I would have all of my firsts with. Turns out he lead me through an abusive relationship my whole freshman year and got me mixed up in some big situations and cheated on me the whole year but that was my first love, so I kept ignoring all of it, well finally in May the last month of school he broke up with me because I finally confronted him about the cheating, and the guy lets call him Jack the one im writing about text me one night saying he knew what happened and he would be there for me always. I really needed a friend so I took him in and he would come over and hangout every week we would go walking to our old elementary school and talk about memories and then facetime every night for a long time. The more and more we talked the more and more I really fell for him, he was the sweetest guy ever and would do anything for me I asked and helped me and said I was beautiful even when I felt the most ugly and he was the only guy I didn't feel nervous around. Well I liked him too except I knew I wasn't ready for a realationship and he was well one night of hanging out, he really wanted to kiss me and I mean I wanted it too, but I was still so touchy and he kept wanting to and asking and everytime I would move he would try to kiss me and it made me nervous and violated because I wasn't ready and my past realationship got to my head, well I finally gave in and did it but because my past relationship was still messing with my head it made me feel like horrible so i went a while without talking to him because it scared me and so I went from july until about almost a month ago not talking to him. I thought about him a lot and around September I was finally 100% over my ex in the past relationship and becoming emotionally stable so I text Jack but he woudldnt take me back like i thought we would text for a couple days and just argue and then we would hangout and he would be pretty sweet but not text as normal and its still like that two weeks later, I know hes still hurt but i would never do that again to him and ive told him and expressed my feelings I just want him to believe it because I realize now he is the perfect guy for me. He has treated me better than any guy has ever treated me and I want to be more than friends with him now I miss him so much! please help me!

How well did you communicate how you weren't over the trauma and totally healed from the last relationship yet? You didn't give the time frame of how long from the breakup until Jake tried to kiss you...a couple of months, a year? Likely he is too young and inexperienced to know that your rejection was not one of him but of the memories it brought up. You can try to have a talk with him face to face...this isn't texting material. But you better be sure you have no residual stuff hanging around from what you say was an abusive relationship. Because if he gives you and him a chance and some odd reminder comes up and you pull back, thats it...you've just killed the relationship forever.
Or you could choose to push past the uncomfortable memory instead of letting it hold you back. You basically give your subconscious mind a little pep talk... about how Jake is not anything like the ex so you have nothing to worry about and assure yourself that you really did learn from that mistake and will not put yourself through a similar thing ever again.

If you find long term, that issues keep coming up for you, you may want to consider getting counseling.

Me and my GF (yes, i am a lesbian, though i don't prefer that term) have been doing pretty well. She always knew she was a lesbian, but i have dated more guys than girls. One of them was my best friend (Jake) and me and him still hang out. We used to talk about getting married when we were kids, and i've known him for really long. We have nicknames for each other, but me and my GF, don't. My GF is mad at me, and thinks because of the nicknames i'm cheating on her. Can you help me think of a nickname for my sexy GF, to show her i care for her. The only reason me and Jake are close is because we are best friends, and touchy feely ones on top of that. I really don't want to see her sad, but don't want to have to give up Jake either.

There's more problems dear than a nickname will cure. It doesn't matter if you gave her 10 nicknames and still used one for Jake, if she has it in her mind that using any endearing terms with another person means you love someone else like you love her and are possibly cheating on her, then a nick name won't cure it....distract her for a short time but not make it go away. She needs to have some counseling and discover why she feels so threatened in the relationship. Theres a possibility she has a low self esteem.

You have dated guys in the past. So either you were denying to yourself all along that you were lesbian, or perhaps you are not lesbian at all but bi-sexual instead whether you've had sex or not with men. Perhaps your girlfriend senses this deep in her subconscious and so she fears losing you to a guy, whether Jake or someone else that may come along.
Not allowing you to have friends outside your relationship is not a way to deal with her insecurities and an unfair thing to ask of anyone.

Even if you stopped seeing Jake, it will be only a matter of time before she sees something else as a threat.
But don't take my word for it...go ahead and make up some nicknames...time will tell if it works for good or not.
In a nickname, choose something that refers to a favorite food, favorite animal, a habit of hers, u a hobby, and it becomes quite easy,

example:favorite dessert=cream puff, Punkin pie, favorite animal=Kitten, Bunny
I know a gal who over used the phrase, "We'll see" and her boyfriend started calling her "Weesy"

Hello,
im freaking out, cause one day after my period my bf and i were on the bed with underwears only, and we ended up grinding on (dry humping)
that makes he cum on my lower tummy, like after belly button, so he had on his boxers, on my panties and on my top...
oh im on the pill, but needed to start again with my period. so the question is
theres is no ways im pregnant nope?
as there wasnt any penetration, and im on the pill..
its just im freaking out a lot since that...

No you have nothing to worry about and besides you're on the pill. All contraceptives are not 100% safe but very close to it. So chances of getting pregnant while on the pill are extremely slight when having sex without clothes on. According to planned Parenthood, 2-9 out of 100 women get pregnant per year while using the pill. (Link below.)
With clothes on, the sperm can't travel that distance, they die before making it to the more hospitable environment o f the vagina.

If you ever get to the point you are comfortable having sexual intercourse during the 7 days you are not taking a pill or the non active pills, then use a condom during those times just in case.

http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/birth-control/birth-control-effectiveness-chart-22710.htm

I really like this guy and he likes me back. Yesterday my friend asked him to make a list of things he likes about me *ikr soooo cuteeee* and he asked me if I looked on the back but I didn't so I looked on the back of the paper and it said " can you be my girlfriend please" and he said reply by Friday and so it's tomorrow and I'm freaking out please help!

It's actually quite easy. You both like each other already. Spending time together is the best way to find out if you will like him enough to want to be with him long term dating. So your answer is "Yes", theres no other answer it could be unless your parents have some rules about when you are allowed to date and under what circumstances.

You didn't mention your age. If that is the case, let him know you are interested and your answer would be yes but your parents won't let you date until you are ___ years of age. Then check with the parents if you can have a friend who is a guy come over to the house? they may feel more comfortable with that arrangement for now which is a good safe way to be able to see him and become close friends without the pressure of dating. Good luck.

It was Thursday and I had been at the stage of ovulating, the mucus had been really stringy/clear and on the following Saturday I had unprotected sex, my boyfriend didn't realise inside me, but he pre-c** a lot, it's now been 4 days after I had unprotected sex. I am still experiencing the mucus, but it's not as much, when I wipe after the toilet, it's just a bit sticky, but only very little. I was just wondering if there is a possibility to be pregnant? But I'm experiencing cramps in my abdominal and I have really tender nipples and breasts, so this could be my period too? I'm really confused...

Its possible to become pregnant just from the precum of the man.
Are you trying for a child? Not many woman pay attention to when they ovulate unless they want to become pregnant.
Even if a sperm was able to get to the egg. The egg goes through some changes before it finds a place to attach itself in the lining of the uterus, a process that can take about 4 days. It would be at this point that you become pregnant, or your body is aware of it.
Yes, tender breasts can be related to menstrual cycle.
If you were not trying to become pregnant, get the plan B backup method immediately.
Here's how it works:

Plan B

The Plan B package instructions state that you should take 1 white pill within 72 hours after unprotected sex and 1 more white pill 12 hours later. Each dose contains 0.75 mg of levonorgestrel. The two pills are identical; it does not matter which pill you take first.

However, recent research indicates that both doses can be taken at the same time up to 120 hours after unprotected sex. The pills are more effective the sooner they are taken, so take 2 Plan B pills at the same time as soon as possible after unprotected intercourse.

I got that piece of instruction off a website. So if you haven't taken plan B by time you reach 5 days or 120 hrs after sex, then you will need to take a pregnancy test.

Hello, I posted last week asking for advice on this matter. My boyfriend of two years and myself recently discovered I was pregnant. Him already having a daughter that I am helping raise. We both decided now was not the time for another child if we wanted to progress in life at the moment. Well I decided instead to go for surgical. The most physical and emotionally painful thing I have experienced in some time. Luckily he was by my side every minute. Afterwards I cried and cried for several hours. He went to sleep and I continued to cry. I feel extreme guilt and sorrow over this. Half of me pictured another sweet little girl like his with darkhair, fair skin, and a sweet smile. I didnt want his.little girl confused though as to why another child could call me.mommy but she couldn't. I still feel guilty and upset about it. It was very traumatizing. How do I let this go? Any woman or even men know any post abortion methods that helped relinquish their minds of guilt and sorrow in the slightest?

I am no professional but first thing that comes to mind is that it is important to go through the grieving process, grieving the loss even though you made the decision for abortion. In ways, this is much like post traumatic stress that people with PTSD go through and specialized counseling helps some. So whether its counselling for grief, guilt, post traumatic stress, i think being able to talk to a professional would be helpful.

I have read many new age, metaphysical books about the soul and past lives and have also come across books where theres not just one account but many of people who recall their time spent in between the last two lives. This would mean needing to believe in reincarnation. If you don't i understand and you can stop reading further at this point.

In all accounts told, while these people were hypnotized, they recalled reviewing the past life, deciding what they wanted to work on next to either learn or experience. Some choices given are whether to be male, female and the circumstances under which the person would be born into. And once decided, the soul joins the fetus in-utero or comes in shortly before birth time. And it is already known whether the babys life would be short so a soul is there only a little while. So my conclusions from what I've read is that so much is known ahead, then a soul doesnt choose or isn't given as a choice a couple or a woman who is going to abort the baby. I believe in most cases the soul doesnt bother to waste time going in to reside in a fetus that will be aborted. A baby is dependant on the mother for life while inside her. Without a soul, once born, the baby will be dead without a soul. I believe that still born babies are ones where the soul changed their mind at the last minute and there wasn't enough time to choose another soul to take that life. I don't know if it makes you feel better knowing there was likely no soul involved. Its still hard to grasp that we have these choices but God sees into the future and already knows what we will do and so even the birth of or abortion of a baby is known in advance. So as far as feeling guilty that God may be angry with you..I dont think so. I believe if you can look at the abortion as perhaps the very thing your soul wanted for one thing to experience in this life, the heart ache, guilt,doubt... God is all for the experiences that will help your soul grow so the abortion is just one of those things.And if by some slight chance, a soul had decided to enter baby early on, they already knew they would never get a chance to live this life, that what they were doing was for you, to support and be a leading role in your souls learning experience. If you can look at it this way some day once you've gone through counseling, then in your prayers, send a thank you to the soul who was there to be a part of your sorrowful experience.

22/f

Okay,so I've been working out rigorously for the past year. I have lost around maybe 25-30 pounds. I originally was a size 3 but then went on antidepressants last year and blew up to a size 12. I am back to my original size 3 jeans...sort of. I kept my old jeans because I wanted to get back into them and for some reason, half of my size 3 jeans fit again but then the other half I can get up to my waist but I can't button them. I noticed I gained muscle in my legs so I thought that might be the reason. Does that make sense? What could be the cause?

Thanks!

Could it be that originally the size was the same but cuts of the pants different so you had some with more room for those days when more bloated in tummy on period. I had several different fitting pairs of pants during the time I had periods.
Perhaps the ones for bloated days are the ones that fit perfect now and the others for regular days don't because though size 3, you may have a little more tummy than you originally had.
Hold on to the pants, you may still lose more and fit them.

this girl said i was mean after making a playful comment to her which kinda came out wrong... lol. what should i say to her if she ever brings up me being mean again without sounding like a bitch. thanks

Next time,If someone thinks you are being mean when you didn't mean to be, let em know you didnt mean to hurt feelings and if you truly have no clue as to what upset them, then ask. That way you can avoid making the same mistake again.

So ask,"Hey I didn't mean to be mean or hurt your feelings, really. I guess I don't know you well enough to know what things might easily upset you. Please let me know what it is if you're comfortable telling me, cus I don't want to accidentally do it again in the future. "

As an adult, I made some comment to a new adult neighbor, something teasing about her not really paying attention when I answered her questions. End result, i find out later why she was upset, she had hearing problems due to a birth defect, and couldn't afford hearing aids. Heck I had no idea! when I saw her next, I apologized and After that I was careful to never say anything that she could take wrong about her hearing ability.

The safest policy is to not tease anyone you don't know really well, to know if they like and engage in teasing, playful comments themselves.

I want my mom to be able to find new recipes, DIY's that would save money, and other stuff moms might like ( maybe some funny stuff too). Well I'm on YouTube a lot and I thought my mom would like it, but I don't know what channels I should subscribe her to! Any ideas?

Does she want you to help her with this? Does she want to become more computer savvy, using You tube and Facebook and such?
If you simply just thought she might like it, she may not have the desire or interest.
However if she is curious to see what kind of channels are out there that she may have interest in, then it might be best to sit together at the computer as you ask what some of her interests are and go do a search right then with her watching. I do not need to see videos to learn a new recipe. So mom may prefer just a recipe site by doing a web search. One of my favorites is allrecipes.com She can create an acct. on that site where she can save all her favorites. She can also post her favorites or add comments on other recipes.
For the DIY's , theres so many sites depending on what she'd like to learn, such as lets say a tutorial on making rag rugs.

Hi, I'm 13 (obviously a girl) I have had vaginal discharge for almost a year now. I have had pubic hair for 3 years. No armpit hair. I have a lot of mood swings, like one second I think that I look so great and the next I'm crying about how every one looks better than me (I'm in a good mood right now). I have breasts but just but if I wear a big shirt I look flat. I have also had pimples/oily skin for 4 years. I have had them for 2 years. I often get cramps were I'm pretty sure my internal girly stuff is. My mom isn't really a help cause when I say that I have gas. I know I shouldn't be this concerned but all of my friends have periods and boobs just feel really out of place. I'm afraid I'll never get it. I just want it so I can stop worrying that I'll never get it. I really don't want to get it when I'm in high school cause that will be way too embarrassing. I know that people will always say just wait its not as great as you think, but I only want it to stop worrying. Is there any way I can make it come faster?

While the norm is 13/14 for girls to get their periods, there are those who get it at 9/10 or 15-17.
All the things you describe including the emotional changes prove you are on your way through puberty.
The period is only one aspect of it.
The more stressed you are, the longer it may take to start, and once started, your monthly cycle can be delayed by stress, illness, being too athletic, etc. I read somewhere that if a period hasn't started by age 17, it might be a good idea to go see a dr. and get a check up. Before hand, don't worry, even though everyone you know has theirs, it doesnt mean anything is wrong.

I'm a bit confused. So like my boyfriend and i have broke up for a few weeks and weve been together for over a year. He said that like i can try to show him that the reasons why we broke up wont resurface again if we get back together. When id ask him if we could hang out then hed ask why. Then he'd hint that being intimate and like a couple wont make us magically get back together. And i understand that but then hed agree to go hang out with me but the two times weve hug out hed start out by kissing me once we're alone andeventually we'd both get to third base. He has told me that he still has feelings for me and missed me during the time we were broken up. But its weird that like he texts me saying that us being intimate wont fix the problems that we broke up but when we see each other in person it seems like we never broke up. Why is it like that? Like is he unsure about us or something that he says its too early to get back tohether again ppssibly because we both are scared to get hurt all over again? Im not sure whats going through his mind.

A year is a good amount of time to be together. So who wanted to break up? If just one of you, have that one write a list of things they feel were issues in the relationship. If both of you, then both of you write your lists. Next you need to have conversation about it. Once you have pin pointed things you are doing that cause problems or things he's doing that cause problems it then becomes a bit easier to give advice on what to do to get past those issues.
Obviously, the sex was never the issue. The attraction is still there so that when in your presence, even though he feels there are things that you and he need to learn, change to have a healthier relationship, the sexual attraction of being near you overcomes him and he can't stay away until you've worked on other issues. He's not necessarily unsure, just strongly attracted sexually. He sounds like someone who is willing to try and work things out. There may be some common mistakes that couples make due to not understanding the differences in the opposite sex which cause misunderstandings, or it may be common mistakes made in any kind of relating to other people. Its best to learn what that is and work on it now. If you or he avoid getting to the bottom of the issue and run away from it by breaking up, then guess what, what ever it is that you and he are doing thats counterproductive in relationships, is still gonna be there, no matter how many partners you might in the future.

I was wondering where I can get a vibrator if I am under 18 (I'm 15). I know Spencer's and Walmart have them, but would I be able to purchase one? Please don't tell me I shouldn't have one until I'm 18. It's better than me risking STD's or pregnancy (though that's not an issue, I'm les.) :/
I was thinking since Spencer's is more of a 'gag/novelty' store, they'd let it slide. What about Walmart? Could I just self check out?

I have heard both stories, 1. that There is no restriction for teens buying vibrators. The restriction is regarding allowing underage teens to enter 'Loves' or some other sex toy shop where pornography is sold.

And 2.that its illegal either under 18, under 21 and in some states illegal at any age even adults.
I feel its totally unfair teens aren't allowed to purchase one.

Best thing would be to have someone you know really well who is old enough, to go buy you one and you pay them back.
If you dont have anyone who could or would do that for you, then some teens have been purchasing the vibrating toothbrushes and using the non brush end for a vibrator.

Last choice would be to try to get one at Walmart on self check out.
If that doesn't work, just say you didn't know and walk away with out purchase.

http://gayteens.about.com/b/2008/05/27/is-it-legal-for-teens-to-buy-sex-toys.htm

how is babby formed

how girl get pragnent

Glad to hear you want to know. Some people don't care if they don't know anything about sex. With little or no sex ed in schools, we have a generation of people who really will have need to self educate. So I will list some sites to get you started, all of them, videos.

How does a woman get pregnant?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WRpKabYJ8bU

How to get pregnant
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yAwElfuvCt8#t=257

A site on teens health sexual:
http://kidshealth.org/teen/sexual_health/

About 165 videos on you tube channel Laci Green Sex+ on sexuality and relationships. Young college aged, funny, entertaining, but very factual. Here s the main page. There is much to learn here.
http://www.youtube.com/user/lacigreen/videos

And keep researching on your own. Put a phrase in your search bar and surf the net yourself. there is alot of info out there.

The best I've seen of diagrams and real photo of the internal female organs is by this University:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WVL_GudwAOI&list=TL2MK_zAzxt5bMU-9uri-EogIDnkCtiYLe

so my bf and I have planned for ages that he would lose his V-card on his birthday.
However, I will be on my period then, and I don't fancy doing it.
How do I tell him, when he's been looking forward to this day for weeks, without making him feel disappointed?

Better tell him now so he can decide if he wants an early birthday present or a late one.
These things are stuff a person has no control over. Life tosses curve-balls at us all the time-- when things don't go as we imagined in our minds.

Disappointment is one thing. But if he decides to get angry at you because of it...my advice would be to make sure he never gets that privilege to have sex with you and dump him. You and your welfare and happiness should matter more to a guy than something that didn't go as planned in his mind. I had an ex like that. When things didn't go as he planned he dumped his anger out on all family members no matter if we were involved or not.

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