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Is it weird that I love it when my bf gets a boner when I hug him
Ok hey guys
I was wondering if it was a bit weird that I like it when my bf gets a boner
I mean when he hugs me from behind I can feel it and it feels so good
I'm 14 and my bf is 15
Please no comments about age
Should I say anything to him about it and if you have any suggestions what could I say
Thank you for answering🎀🎀🎀
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Ya it's weird your only fourteen... And you like it! You slut... Hope you have fun being a teen mom you whore
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No its not weird at all. In fact it is quite normal for you to feel as you do. I would suggest you not say anything to your BF though as getting hard is something that happens quite a lot to a 15 year old boy.
First you and your feelings. What is happening to you as I said is quite normal. What is happening is you are starting to feel your sexuality, that you are no longer a child. You are becoming a woman. Now do not read anything into this meaning that you are ready to have sexual intercourse with anyone; YOU ARE NOT. In fact at 14 while your body is developing the features of a women your sexual organ, your vagina, is also developing. Your reproductive system and sexual organ need time to develop properly in order to function properly. This could take some time a year or two or even three.
The nasty trick of this is if you were to have sexual intercourse you could get pregnant. The intercourse could be very painful and the pregnancy very problematic. Even the delivery could be more painful than need be as the muscles required are still developing.
As parents we tell you not to have sex out of fear of pregnancy. This is not only the major reason for saying not to. The other reasons include your body truly not being ready and the fact that until you are much older you are not really mature enough.
Now for the boy side of things. Boys will get erections with or without stimulation. The male of the species has been getting erections since birth. Their mothers notice this when changing their diapers. This is normal as and not a sexual response. When they go through puberty they will have several erection in an hour without thought. It happens mostly because of hormones.
Now when they are with a girl friend the girl may give of a scent which contains pheromones. These pheromones are the females way of attracting a male. Remember that basically we are the highest animal on the food chain and pheromones are a part of our animalistic instincts. Males also give off pheromones to attract females.
When your BF is near you it is your pheromones that cause his erection. Your pheromones are part of your sexuality.
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No, it's not weird.
I don't think it's necessary to say anything to him. He's only 15 so a lot of things can get him hard. Even looking at girls or thinking about them will make him hard. Even things that don't even have to do about a girl can possibly make him hard.
So unless it's bothering you, then I don't think you really need to say anything to him about it.
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No, its not a weird thing to feel like that, its quite normal if you are interested in the guy.
Females like to know when they are turning a guy on. Woman are so critical of themselves often finding the tiniest of flaws with themselves and their looks so it is comforting to know beyond a doubt that a guy is turned on by them.
If you're in puberty, these feelings come with it, so it's appropriate to feel this way even at a young age. What may not be as good, is becoming sexually active before one is ready.
You don't need to say a thing. Guys have had to get used to the idea that their boners are out there for everyone to possibly notice.If you mention you noticed it, it could make him feel embarrassed or self conscious if he is that type of personality. It can be quite embarrassing at times. Young guys can get hard very easily even without a girl around, just the thought of her is enough. A girl can be just as turned on as the guy except there is no visible evidence to see as with a guy that is real obvious.
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