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Should I pursue this?
19/f
Okay in October my friend had a Halloween party a few days before Halloween and I saw this guy that I had seen on campus quite a bit but never really talked to there. Well, eventually we started talking at the party and with the consumption of alcohol present, we ended up making out in the basement of my friend's house. Nothing else happened that night but we ended up texting quite a bit for a few days afterwards. About a week or so later we went out to dinner, ended up going back to his place, one thing led to another anddd we slept together. We hung out a few more times after that and it seemed like everything was going great and then I realized that he was hanging out with a girl that I knew he was talking to/dating at some point but I wasn't too worried about it because we're not in a relationship or anything. Then he started rescheduling plans and coming up with excuses when I asked him to hang out. His excuses sound legitimate and he always ends up getting back to me so I'm not entirely sure what to do. Should I continue pursuing this as a potential relationship or should I just let it go? Thanks.
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He is the kind who likes to play around with other girls if the opportunity comes up but not commit to be monogamous while in a relationship with a girl.
If he knows he isn't ready to do the serial monogamy thing with a girl, the reason he doesn't say anything is likely because he feels if he were honest and told a gal he wanted to date occasionally and have her for an occasional sex partner but likes variety, all at the same time and that he wasn't committing to only her, well...likely few females would want to be with him because thats not their idea of a romantic relationship.
He is not a good prospect for a boyfriend. Keep looking. If however you have no idea how to recognize what a good potential boyfriend is, you will need to read books on healthy relationships to get a picture of what the guy would be like.
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