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wife and me
my wife wants me to get off with a guy and join in and then is willing to go with a girlaswell as a three some dose any one know of any we dating that do this????
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If you are in a young marriage and haven't had many years to strengthen and season your marriage, even though both of you want to try other sexual encounters outside the marriage...I advise against it. I've been there, not threesomes necessarily myself but the whole swing club environment, where there are bi women going after each other, 3 somes, swapping partners with another couple for either full on sex or whats called soft swing, everything but penetration. A couple needs to have boundaries, rules that they both do not ever break. Even with boundaries followed, I have witnesses wives get extremely jealous of me or husbands get extremely jealous of their wife with my husband. There were also the mates going along just for the partner into this kind of thing tho they were not and people like that were avoided like the plague cus it was a matter of time before it became a problem.
As a man, are you intrigued and interested in doing something with another man? If truly not, then don't go there. Have a good talk with her. Perhaps she thinks she may be bi-sexual and is just waking up to that fact.
I witnessedd many couples where the husband brought his wife so she could play with other women but he had no interest what so ever in another female for himself. I never saw males go after males in clubs...that was always a private thing done at ones home. Why? No idea.
If you are in the childbearing years and she is trying in a round about way to work out being with another guy for sex, don't even go there. If you're trying for children, and condoms are the only protection, forget it. statistics show that 2-9 out a 100 women each year get pregnant using condom.I had the experience of one guys condom totally splitting and couple other instances where the condom stayed inside as he came out. I was on pill. But then theres still the chance for STI's or STD's. If you have any specific questions for me on the subject, let me know.
So far, for all I know, she's only made the suggestion but the two of you have not talked in depth about what brought up this idea on her part. Give her a safe environment in which to share whats going on in her mind and why she thinks she wants to do this. You'll need to be open minded and supportive in your words but you do not need to agree to something that makes you uncomfortable in any way. If you're wondering if many girlfriends and wives suggest this kind of thing, I interviewed every couple I met to find out whether it was his idea or her idea to go for the alternative sexual lifestyle, and in 80=90 % it was the women who wanted it.
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