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me my wife and our sex life


Question Posted Thursday November 21 2013, 1:17 am

my wife wants us to have a bi boyfriend so we can have a three some and whatch me get off with a guy and in return is prepared to get naked with a girl and turn the tables, I find this quite interesting and am qurious to see what happens but canot find any sites online that accomadate this fun, can anyone help?

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K3587 answered Thursday November 21 2013, 12:10 pm:
Craigslist is your friend here. Post an ad requesting exactly what you're looking for, and make it casual. Rather than "come over so we can fuck" try more like "let's go out for drinks, get to know each other and see if there's a connection." If you're not 100% on board with this, don't do it. If it solely her idea, this will not end well.

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adviceman49 answered Thursday November 21 2013, 9:56 am:
Try typing in something like "adult friend finder" into a search engine. It should return what you are looking for.

I would be remiss if I did not add the following. Sometimes the fantasy is better than the reality and should remain a fantasy. Many a marriage has failed over turning a fantasy such as this into a reality. It is quite a large step to take with your sex life to include a third or even another couple. One of you may think the other is having way too much fun with the third person and that is where the trouble begins.

Then there is the possibility that when it is time for the rubber to meet the road. One of you may have second thoughts about being naked in front of a total stranger and may call a halt at the last minute. This could foster some resentment in the other spouse.

I'm not saying it will though it has been known to happen. You really need to talk about this and make sure you are both going to be comfortable with being naked, having sex and watching your spouse have sex with a stranger. If either one of you have any reservations at all then you need to stop and find a way to get comfortable with that reservation.

For being naked with a stranger. I can recommend visiting a clothing optional resort. For the other problems I do not have any suggestions on how to overcome them.

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