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When I walk in my bathroom, theres always poop on the toilet. I think my dad does it because my pets don't use the toilet. LOL. I know it's gross but how can I find out who is doing this. (It's not my sister or my mom either.) HELP!!!!!!!!!!

well you can either ask the 3 of them, becuase you can't be sure that it was not your mom or sister. But what you could do is see who goes to the bathroom and then when they're done check... it might be gross but at least you would no. But i personaly would just ask them...

Emo bands should die
We'll stuff their faces with pie
It'll get all over their ties
And we wont even cry

Am I the only one that feels this way?

I don't listen to emo cuz i don't like it... but some people do so it's just an oppinion that you have. But respect others for their likings and they'll respect yours.
Geesh i sound like one of those... shrinks lol

(ok not funny...)

Okay I am 21/f and I have this friend who used to be so funny. He would have me rolling all the time. So lately he is so not as funny as he used to be but he tries so hard to make me laugh that is actually quite pathetic. And I have been faking the laughs. He can't tell the differemce! He loves it when I am happy. How do I let him know that I love the laughs of the past but he needs to stop trying so hard without hurting his feelings.
Signed
Feeling like a bad person :-(

Just tell him the truth and maybe try to make him laugh so he feels better. Maybe he's just down. So talk to him about it.
hope everything goes great!
simone*

I am so lonely. I can't get a boyfriend. I have been so broken lately. I don't know what to do to make a guy want to be with me. I have guy friends and i mean i am a unique person but i can't get a guy. i am not skinny but i am not too heavy. i am 15 and i probably weigh about 190 lbs. what do i do to make myself more attractive for guys to look at? are there any certain measures i should take such as loosing weight or changing my personality? please help...luv forever--->kelsey lou

First of all don't change your perosnality. That's just who you are. But some ways are... maybe dress different. Maybe more sofisticated or the new trendy styles. Lose weight? just eat healthy. But most of all be yourself. There's a guy out there for you but you just havent found him yet.

i am going to an interview because i want to become an actress but i am scared because i dont no who is going to be there and i am frightend that i will throw up or do something humiliating. does any one have experience or advice so i can calm down?

First of all if you worry that you will mess up it wont help calming down. Maybe practice infront of the mirror and answer some questions you think they will enter. Basucall i'd say it's like giving a presentation at school. But you'll do fine.

Hi,
I'm going on holiday to Europe with my friend in the next holiday. We are gonna go out a lot of places but the thing is I have really heavy periods. There is a chance I will be on my period for this holiday and they are so heavy that I can't walk around or anything without having to rush to the toilet. I know I should see the doctor, I have an appointment for when we get back. But what excuses can I give my friend as to why I can't go out for the couple of days my period is this heavy? Could I pretend I was ill? I DON'T want to tell her I am having heavy periods 'cause it's just gross OK. So don't answer with that.

You could say that you need some rest or bring a book and say you really want to finish it lol. um... you could also maybe try and act like your taxi sick or train sick lol. Or the easyest would be telling her that you have your period. But when i went to switzerland with my mom and bor i told her i couldnt go because i really wanted to finish the book i was reading so i stayed at the hotel. But yea... those are the best i got right now lol. Have Fun! Europe is beautiful lol.

ok look i kno this chick and we've been goin out for about 9 months and she wants to do stuff really bad and dont get me wrong i do too but i am not done with puberity and i am shy about it i dont kno what to do what do i do? what do i say? should i just go for it and see what happens or should i just wait?

P.S. we love each other VERY much!! :)

Well i would wait but if you really want to go ahead. lol sry i didnt help much.
me*

I really want to become a singer. I mean i REALLY want to. I asked my mom about going to singing lessons, but she said we cant afford it. But if we can afford Piano, we probably can afford singing. I only do piano lessons, and I LOVE music. I have an absolute passion for music.
Ana

Girl you can try tallent shows and maybe church. Anything where you can sing. Thats the way to go first.

I have piano lessons and I love it. My mom says that im probably going to quit because I dont practice. But i do practice! She just never listens! I really really really dont want to quit Piano! Music is my life! I have an absolute passion for it! I LOVE music!
Ana

Thats the same with my mom. I play the drums and she's always sain i dont practce but i do! but what i do is that i just keep sayin that i do pracice and ect. what oyou could do is maybe go like... mom i practicing and then play. maybe that will work. Good luck!

my boyfriend tells me im a REALLY good singer, and he says that i should go out to be big, because now i just sing small gigs in coffee houses and stuff, but im afraid too. how do i overcome the fear?

Well once you do it for a while you start to loose you fear so just practice infront or people you know and don't know. That how you start.

Across the street from me, an elderly couple sold their house and the people that bought it have two young boys, ages 4 and 7 I believe. They have asked me if I'd like to babysit for them and that's fine with me. I've babysat before but normally I'd do it free of charge. It's come the time where I'm getting older and I need to get money. I'll be driving in a year and my parents aren't going to be paying for my gas and car insurance. What would be a good amout of money to ask for? I don't want to be asking for too much. I'm 15/ female.

Ask for about 5-8$ an hour. If they want to charge you more let them. They might also pay you more if you maybe do the dishes if there is any of if you clean some. I get 10$ an hour. but i only charged 5$ an hour so it basically depends on how much they would like to pay but go for 5-8$

I am 13/f, 14 in july, but i took a baby-stting class for 2 days at a saint francis hospital...well now that i have done that, i dont know what to do! i mean theres like nobody i can babysit! anybody know a site that i can go to thats like a teen babysitting line or soemthing haha!?!?

Basically look for parents with little children. LIke to to parks or somthing where you can help if they don't mind.
But no i don't know of a hotline for babysitting lol. But im sure if you search in google somthing might pop up.

ok im startin to like a gurl and i want to get to kno her more wat r sume good convo starters and things to ask and talk about?

Just go up to her and start something. Like if you think you have somthing incommen start with that.. or just ask her wats up or ask her hre day's been goin. Um.. you could start with maybe music, sports, what shes interested in.
Like if she was a new student you would randomly start a convo and get to know them. It's sorta like that lol.

14/m i kinda like this girl but i don't know if i want to go to go out with her. The reason i don't want to go out with her is that i don't know what my friends will think. I know that sounds bad but i don't know if i can choose her over keeping my reputation with my friends. I think she might ask me out and i don't know what to do. please help.

Ok well first of all you cant depend on what your friends will think all your life. I mean one of these days if you still have your friends and you really like this woman alot... you worry about what your friends think? the girl will definatly ditch you.
But ok... if you like her ask her out cause there might only be one chance with her. Don't worry to much about what your friends think. If they're true friends they wont care about what kinda girl you got.

How do u get a girl to kiss you? Or find out if she wants you to kiss her? or let her know that u want her to kiss you or be kissed by u?

Thnx 4 da help!

Just ask her or make your move slowly when you think the mood and time is right.

ok i need help......when should you kiss a guy? i mean when your dating...on the second date? cuz i will have my second date w/ him soon and i dont know if i should kiss him or not. soo which date should i kiss him on??
~confuzzed

Just wait until the right moment. You'll know when and so will he. So just wait for it. :)

how do i get rid of a sunburn on my lips?? or how long does it take to go away? (i got it friday, today is sunday)

First of all it definatly helps if you wear chap stick with sunscreen in it. And if you apply that while you have a sunburn then it will help it heal faster.

Would making eye contact a lot and smiling at each other because we are both shy count as liking each other? It's just a simple question that I need the answer to. Please tell me.

I will rate the first people to give me an answer.

I'd say yes. I too am shy lol but i think it is very possoble that if you make alot of eye contact and smile that you like each other.
Muah*

I asked one of my close guy friends to prom. he said he doesn't know if he wants to go because he said he can't dance. he also said that dances aren't for him but he said he would think about it. how can i persuade him to take me to the prom?!

Just comprimize with him. I know the prom is a big deal. So ask him if he goes but doesn have fun you can leave and go somewhere else and have fun. Or if he says no just go with a couple of grl fiends.

There is this guy and we always talk on the internet (AIM) and I always tell him to come up and talk to me at school, and he says okay he will and I say im gonna hold that up to him. When we are at school and I see him he never says anyting to me he just walks away. I wanna say somthing to him so bad about it but im shy too. I aways catch him looking at me what should I do?

Just go up to him and say "hi" he sounds shy too so you might just have to make the move first.
simone

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