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I just auditioned for my school talent show and I think I did really bad. I sang (Un Moto di Gioia) because my friends said I should. I have a terrible case of stage fright, and I thought this audition might help me get over it. I mean, some of the girls on the audition panel were laughing (which is very rude, but that's not the point). I am so embarassed, I don't think I'll ever show my face again. I dropped out of the show, of course. I'm questioning my talents as a singer right now. I have been singing for 6 years. I am very trained as a singer, was admitted into an Advanced Choir at an early age, but still...I think people think I'm a bad singer and don't want to tell me. Does anyone know what I mean? (link)
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I know what you mean. You mean like those poor fools on American Idol try outs. You wonder how any true friend or relative could have let them embarrass themselves before the entire world!
I don't think that is the case with you. I think the laughers probably were some who may have thought they were superior. Which they aren't.
It sounds to me like you have every reason to believe you are a good singer. You had a bad day...it happens now and then. Especially if you are prone to stage fright!
Don't give up. Try again and again. If you don't make it, at least you have gone one step further in overcoming your stage fright.
If there is any way to get back into the show, do it.
Good luck! :)
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okay. i must make a desicion. First I will describe the boys and why i llike them
Boy A: I dated him for a year, we were in love and i know it. He left me and i met boy B but anyway. A is the sweetest and i can tell he cares about me, and he really wants me back but im afraid to get hurt, but its weird that when im with him everything feels perfect. But hes very strict and i dk if he would let me hang out with Boy B anymore, he thinks i might cheat on him, but boy B and I havent kissed since the transition of dec 31-jan 1st.
Boy B: My best friend. I met him and had a like mini relationship with him when A and i broke up. He told me if i go back out with A he will never talk to me again bc he doesnt like the way A treats me(idk whats wrong about it). I really really like B but he doesnt like me more than in a suster brother way(gross, i know). At least i think, i dont know ive been getting mixed signs from him. But if he does like me then i want to go out with him because i need to find somthing new ya know??? And if i go out with B, A would be mad but he would get over it.
So my problem is that i dont know what to do.
do i go out with A, and lose B as a friend.
do i go out with B and have A really mad at me?
pretty much i want B. but he isnt right for me, i know it. he treats girls like crap, and i am always there for him when they break up. BUT I LIKE HIM SO MUCH!!!! He always sticks up for me when A and i fight and hes always here for me. and ugh i just dk what to do.
What do you guys think??? (link)
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Personally I would pick B.
A has a couple of quirks I didn't like.
You say hes strict. And he thinks you may cheat on him. If he doesn't trust you he isn't worth your time. He has no business being "strict". Someone who likes you doesn't try and control who you have as friends.
The only bad thing about B is you don't know his feelings about you. Talk to him and find out. I don't know how he treats other girls, but seems he treats you alright. :)
The decision of course is all yours. This is just my opinion. :)
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I am a 16f. I'm concerned about my older brother. He is 27 and he still lives at home with me and my parents. He lives in the basement. He is unemployed and extremely lazy. He usually sleeps in until 1 in the afternoon, then for the rest of the day he'll either watch MTV or play on his X box. He doesnt have to pay rent as he is unemployed. He also doesnt do any chores, and never washes his own laundry. I am angry at my parents, and feel like they are just enabling him. He can never get a gf because as soon as they find out what a lazy mooch he is they want nothing to do with him. How can I convince my brother that he needs to get a job, and get his own place? If I don't do anything my parents will probably let him live in the basement until he's 50. He's also really depressed and unsatified with his life. (link)
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Hes depressed because he hasn't got a life of his own. Working actually give a person some sense of worth.
You probably won't be able to tell him much that he will listen to. You parents however, need to give him a date (not a year but a week or two), to be out by. They need to stick to their guns and job or not give him the boot.
What they have to realize is that by enabling him, they are actually doing more harm than good.
They won't be around forever. When they are gone he is left with absolutely no way to fend for himself.
He really needs to get to work. Pretty soon nobody will hire him because he hasn't got a work
history. You could tell him that much.
Good luck. :)
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which medicins effect human mind upto the level of mentally retarted persn (link)
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Medicines help everyone about the same. If a person is mentally retarded it doesn't matter.
Medicines affect them the same as everyone else. :)
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If I like a guy how do I tell if he likes me and also what flirting tips can you give? (link)
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Here are some web sites that may help you out.
Does he like me?
http://www.links2love.com/teens_flirting_2.htm
http://www.lovingyou.com/content/advice/dating/content.shtml?ART=5flirtingtips
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this guy I like asked me to my schools valentines day dance. I accepted, but im nervous becuase of one thing- grinding. Everyone will be grinding with eachother and Ive never done it before and im not sure if i would feel comfortable with it. My question is, what do i do if wants to grind with me? x0x (link)
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Whats wrong with normal dancing? Just tell him you aren't comfortable humping on someones leg like a dog :)
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i am 15 nd going 2 be having a baby.i havent told my rents yet,and i want 2 keep the baby,but i was wondering if there was ne way my rents or the state could take my baby away without my consent (link)
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Nobody can take it from you if you don't want to give it up.
Good luck! :)
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F/14
Everybody is good at something right? WRONG.i suck at almost evrything. I dont't have any hobbies, im not in any clubs, sprots, or anything. I'm okay at some stuff and i can speak/read/write fluent polish, but that pretty much it. I'm so scraed about my future. I don't know what i want to do in college or high school or ANYTHING. I'm scared i won't be able to support myself as an adult and i will be a boring person with no hobbies or anything. (link)
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You won't be a boring person with no hobbies!
The best thing I can tell you right now is just stop worrying about it. Even when you go to college, you can be there a couple of years before deciding what you want to do with your life. By then you will know!
Relax, have fun, and what you want to do will come to you out of nowhere one of these days. :)
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Okay, I really think you should here my story.
(I am 13 and female)I went on a camping trip last year in August, and my grandmother's friend brought her 2 kids and her sister's son Zach. Zach and I really connected, and I REALLY liked him, but he never made a move, I didn't get his address, his phone#, or his email address. So, I haven't been in contact with him since, and I'm afraid he's found a new girlfriend by now. I thought about waiting till this august, but my mom said we might not go camping again. I've thought about asking to hang out with him, but my mom doesn't think I am old enough to have a boyfriend. I've even thought about asking my grandmother to hang out with Zack and her friends 2 kids so I wouldn't sound obvious. But, I've changed a lot since I last saw him, like cutting my hair, losing weight, making the basketball team, and i don't know if I'm ready to see him again. i THINK I'm just looking for a mean to contact him, with out seeing him in person, but I have no idea on how to get in contact with him, and I think I'm really crazy about this guy, I'm always thinking about him.
PLEASE HELP, I'LL RATE 5! (link)
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Your mom may think you are to young for a boyfriend, that doesn't mean you can't have him as a friend until you ARE old enough!
I would get with your grandma. Tell her you really had fun talking to Zach when you went camping and would like to keep in touch with him.
Write down your email address and/or phone number, IF grandma thinks it is safe to do so, Have her give it to him for you.
I doubt she will have a problem with it since she is friends with his mom. :)
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I'm 17, thinking about going on the pill, I understand you need a doctors prescription to do this so I'm wondering what happens...
I've done research into side-effects and effectiveness so I'm clued up on it but will they make me have a pelvic exam or visit the gyn? I'm not really sure how it works, I live in the UK and know it works abit differently to the USA, could anyone help me out on what kind of things I'll be asked by my GP and what I should expect?
Thanks for your time! =) (link)
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I don't imagine its to much different in the UK.
You will need to get a pelvic exam first. You can have it done by an OBGYN or a family doctor.
Here is a site that explains how it is done.
http://www.coolnurse.com/pelvic_exams.htm
The doctor will want to know your medical history and all that good stuff, it is covered on this web site as well.
If you have any questions about sex, write them down and give it to the nurse. Nows the time to get any questions you may have answered. Writing them down will help you remember. You will be nervous, it is normal. :)
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well, im talking with this kid and were about to go out. we go to the movies and dinner a lot but where else is there to go besides bowling dinner and movies? thanks! (link)
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I found a great site for you. It has ideas of things to do on dates. It lists them by category's, like cheap dates ideas, romantic date ideas etc. Hope you find something interesting. :)
http://www.coolestdates.com/
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Ok Im 15 nd having a baby nd will the baby take the fathers last name or mine or is it our choice? (link)
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You can give the baby its fathers name if you want to. I think its the right way to do it myself. But, you can also just give it yours.
A lot depends on your relationship with the baby's father. If he will play an active role in raising the baby then by all means give it his last name. Should you decide to marry him in the future, it will save a lot of adoption type headaches.
If he wants nothing to do with it. Give it your last name.
Choice is all yours. :)
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19/Male...There is one girl in my Accounting class that I am attracted to. We are in the same lunch line every day right after class, but it seems like every time I am about to talk to her, i freeze up. I still haven't said one word to her. What should I do to break the ice? (link)
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I found a couple of web sites that look like they might help you out.
Hope you find something useful. :)
http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/advice/271
http://www.somazone.com.au/content.asp?Document_ID=6794
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Okay so I masturbate like 3-4 times a week and I like to alot. The problem is, I feel so perverted and gross. How can I sto pfeeling so disgusting? 14-f (link)
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Just tell yourself it is a perfectly normal thing for you to do. No sense feeling disgusted about it.
Here's some web sites that may make you feel better about it. While there, check out some of the other topics. :)
http://www.coolnurse.com/masturbation.htm
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What causes guys to get boners? What are they thinking about also? (obviously sex but like what else?) (link)
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Do they think of much else? Sex is it. They think of it a lot. Anything else they may be thinking doesn't cause it...well, unless they are some sort of weirdo. :)
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do guys like if a girl has her belly botton peirced? why or why not (link)
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According to my hubby...who considers himself somewhat of an expert (hehe)...If a girl has a sexy tummy it looks pretty good. If not, then no.
He also says it is sort of like girls with tattoos. It used to be kind of sexy, but now everyone has one. Its just another earring or tattoo. Nothing special. :)
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i just started goin out with my boyfriend and i use to be able to talk to him when we were just friends and now im all shy around him and cant even look him in the eye! can some one tell me why.. thanks (link)
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This happened to my daughter once.
Now that you are dating, you all the sudden think you need to impress each other! You don't.
You like him & he likes you.
Just talk and treat each other as you always have. Things will work out fine. :)
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[True Question.] 15/f
I`m scared of dying or anyone dying close to me. I asked this question:
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=412887
And I`m doing really good about that situation. I can finally look at his picture without wanting to cry. But lately everytime my mind goes blank, death of my parents or sister or brother come into my mind. The thing that even freaks me out the most is that I know that they are doing to die sooner or later, & I can`t even try to stop it. I know i`d be miserable without them. I couldn`t even cope with the lost of my cousin, imagine trying to cope with my parents or sister/brother dying. No body knows I feel this way, and it`s eating me inside. What I`m trying to ask is how can I possibily get over this right now & worry about it later? I don`t want my fear of death running my life. Ughhh. I`m just so scared of this. Help. PLEASE. (link)
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Everybody is going to die sometime. It is just the way it goes. Scary as it is there is no sense in dwelling on it. You deal with it as it comes. You can't think about it all the time or it will drive you bonkers!
Instead, spend your time doing things with those you love. If all you do is worry about the future you are missing out on today. Which will be something you will regret later.
If you really are obsessing about death right now, say something to your parents about it. You may need to get some professional help in dealing with your thoughts. :)
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I was just on a website, www.rotten.com, and i pretty much clicked on every picture on it. I'm not a murderer or anything, im a 15 year old girl. Basically i'm trying to say that i dont know what to do becuase I feel so dizzy and sick, and I think those pictures are going to be stuck in my head for the rest of my life? I dont know what made me look at them all, but i did and theres no turning back. How do i stop feeling so..i cant even find the word for it, and stop thinking about them, and function normally? Thanks, i'd really like to sleep, hah. (link)
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You looked because you were curious. Sometimes seeing things like that can actually be helpful.
Makes you want to buckle up, not play with guns or mess with people that do...that sort of thing.
Some people it doesn't bother to much. They are only pictures after all. I would imagine you have a big mix of feelings. Shock, amazement and then guilt because you were amazed! It is natural though.
Your best bet will be to do something nice before you go to bed to occupy your mind. It may not work to be honest, it may take a couple of days to get over. They are about as graphic as you can get without being there. The feeling will more than likely not be with you the rest of your life. More pleasant things will put it to the back of your mind.
As a former emergency worker I can tell you the pictures, while being very horrid, are not near as bad as actually seeing it... complete with smell. Eww. :)
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I'm 23 years old and I study in Holland and I have more than 1 year and a half with my bf ..I first met him at my old job(place where I was born,the caribean) and we where just friend.than I quit my job because I had to come to Europe to study.Meanwhile HE got a girlfriend and they had a son togheter but sadly he had to com to europe to study leaving his girlfriend and son behind ,He did this because he was going to get a house and job and than send for them(they could't come together because the girl was still in school,she was about to graduate)SO When he came up here we met again and we begun to hang out (as friends) and it was fun having him although things were really thoug for him (he could not get a job to send money for his kid)around..He than told me he was having trouble with his girlfriend ..so I offered to talk to his gf through msn explaining her what was really happening to him up here..because she did't believe him...But I begun to really understand him the way not even her ex did't and we kind built a nice friend relationship ..it was soon that we had to see each other ,call everyday and for a long time I begun to see him smile again..After about 1 year her girlfriend broke up with him ..and we begun to date,,this was not planned but in theory the relationship was broken sinds the day he came in Europe because they did't communicate without a fight and most off the time it was me who put them togheter.Now we are more than a year togheter and me and his ex still chat with eachother .....I explained to her what was happening between me and her ex and she was fine with it because she had a new boyfriend anyway.....But 3 month ago her boyfriend broke up with her and she than told me that she thinks she is still in love with my bf and that she iss going to try to get him back.....I did't see it as a problem because sinds she is far away from here and I kinda trust my bf and I told him what his ex had told me and he than told me that he won't go back with her...
Now this is my problem..
Yesterday She told me that she is giving up everything and she is coming to live in europe just in the same town we live...
I feel kinda strange ,or afraid because they have a kid togheter and that a powerfull reason...
It 's kind unfair because she said she didn't love him anymore ..she left him hanging when he most needed her ..
Help I don't know what to do
Should I talk to my bf about this feelings ..I never felt this before....
I will rate high
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Yes you need to talk to your boyfriend about it. Don't let the frustration you are feeling build up. That will only make things worse.
He will have to have contact with her because of their son. Even if he doesn't love her that way anymore, they will always have that bond. It is a strong one.
He will be having contact with her when she moves closer. You realize that. It may be something that will be very hard for you to deal with. There will be times when you will be very jealous of their relationship. That is normal. You will have to keep a good level of communication between you or it will drive you nuts.
Start talking with him about it now. If you trust him then all will work out well.
I wish you the best of luck. :)
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