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stuck between 2
okay. i must make a desicion. First I will describe the boys and why i llike them
Boy A: I dated him for a year, we were in love and i know it. He left me and i met boy B but anyway. A is the sweetest and i can tell he cares about me, and he really wants me back but im afraid to get hurt, but its weird that when im with him everything feels perfect. But hes very strict and i dk if he would let me hang out with Boy B anymore, he thinks i might cheat on him, but boy B and I havent kissed since the transition of dec 31-jan 1st.
Boy B: My best friend. I met him and had a like mini relationship with him when A and i broke up. He told me if i go back out with A he will never talk to me again bc he doesnt like the way A treats me(idk whats wrong about it). I really really like B but he doesnt like me more than in a suster brother way(gross, i know). At least i think, i dont know ive been getting mixed signs from him. But if he does like me then i want to go out with him because i need to find somthing new ya know??? And if i go out with B, A would be mad but he would get over it.
So my problem is that i dont know what to do.
do i go out with A, and lose B as a friend.
do i go out with B and have A really mad at me?
pretty much i want B. but he isnt right for me, i know it. he treats girls like crap, and i am always there for him when they break up. BUT I LIKE HIM SO MUCH!!!! He always sticks up for me when A and i fight and hes always here for me. and ugh i just dk what to do.
What do you guys think???
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Okay, it sounds like both of these guys come with a lot of baggage. Boy A sounds really immature and insecure with himself, and Boy B seems like he's already a wonderful friend. If you date either one of them, you'll lose the other -- and they both sound like they're not going to treat you like you deserve to be treated, anyway. I say that you don't choose either of them, and wait for someone better to come along. Hope I helped!
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well my gf had the same problem because she loved me but there was another guy in it that she liked too and it didnt work out and now shes goin out with him and honestly im over her. i would take the guy that makes you feel really good and would be truthful but still be protective to you. the hardest lesson i had to learn is to find someone new but i look and no girl wants me so i hope you can have much better luck because if the guy A really loves you he would let you do what you wanted and all 3 of you could be friends. hope it helped.
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Alright, first comes first. You need to ask Boy B if he has any feelings for you in "that" kind of way. Ask him is his feelings are only mutual or if his feelings you know are deeper for you. Just find that out before you do anything. If he doesn't feels for you in the way that a guy feels for a woman that they wish to be with, then you should ask him why he'd have a problem with you going out with B. Reason it out with him and tell him that you know: he may be the right one for you. And what does it matter to him if he doesn't like who you go out with. If he doesn't like who you go out with, try to get him to respect your relationship but don't force him to. Don't force your relationships on him when you go out with others, don't mention it, and if he doesn't want to accept it- IT's his problem, he has to deal with it.
Problem A : If he's strict, then you might want to talk to him about that before you hook up with him or the other. You might want to ask him this question before you ask any others. Also, think of some of the other things that you go through with him that you have problems with. Talk to him about it. Discuss them, and see if you like what he says and the way he says it. If you think going out will be a waste of time with him, don't do it. Time is a precious virtue, so do not waste it. DON'T WASTE IT. Talk to him about your issues.
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hey pick B. he seems sweet. i didnt like how A was strict and stuff. &hearts cait
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Personally I would pick B.
A has a couple of quirks I didn't like.
You say hes strict. And he thinks you may cheat on him. If he doesn't trust you he isn't worth your time. He has no business being "strict". Someone who likes you doesn't try and control who you have as friends.
The only bad thing about B is you don't know his feelings about you. Talk to him and find out. I don't know how he treats other girls, but seems he treats you alright. :)
The decision of course is all yours. This is just my opinion. :)
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