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Im always here to help You! Thanks to all you guys who have helped me already!
My boyfriend and I have been togeter since Feburary 2nd,2004! We are still great, and going strong!! :)
That car to the side is a 1999 Honda Prelude in pearl white! My favorite car!! :)
I have had a bunch of friends that have had wierd problems, and I Have always experienced a lot.
I babysit a lot, so if you have questions about that, Ask away!
I love fashion questions and Questions about clothing and what looks good with what and where to find cheep stuff.
I love make-up questions and most hair questions!
Although I do answer them, I hate sex questions.
I am good at the whole "being a girl" thing, like shaving and periods. Ask me those, I'd love to help!
My Absoulte Favorite Columnists are:
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and I'll be adding more soon! Could it be you? :)
I would love to and gladly accept any questions on anything, it does not have to be anything above.
Favorite Books:
*Go Ask Alice
*Annie's Baby
*It Happened To Nancy
*Teen Idol
*All-American Girl
*The 1-800-Where-R-You Series
*The Mediator Series
*The Body Of Christopher Creed
*Freaky Green Eyes
*Of Mice and Men
*The Wattsons Go To Bermingham
*To Kill A Mockingbird
*The Earth, My But, and Other Big Round Things
* The Secret Life Of Beez
*Where the heart is
Favorite Movies:
*Now and then
*where the hear is
*Honey
*Save The Last Dance
*Love Don't Cost A Thing
*Kate and Leapold
*Miss Congeanility 1 and 2
*Beauty Shop
*A Cinderella Story
*Confessions Of A Teenage Drama Queen
*Raise Your Voice
*Drumline
*The Notebook
*Coyote Ugly
*Sisterhood Of The Traveling Pants
*Hitch
*Where The Heart Is
*Now And Then
*10 Things I Hate About You
*Drop Dead Goregous
*The Wedding Planner
*Uptown Girls
*Finding Forrester
*Greese
*Leagly Blonde 1 And 2
*Sweet Home Alabama
*What Women Want
*Napolean Dynomite
*Shrek 1 And 2
*Finding Nemo
*Pirates Of The Carriebean
*Pay It Foward
*Charlie and the Chocolate Factory
*Maid In Manhatten
*Charlie and The Chocolate Factory
*The Unfinished Life
Music:
*ALL COUNTRY!!!!
*Usher
*The All American Rejects
*New Found Glory
*My Chemical Romance
*Sugar Cult
*Black Eyed Peas
*Switchfood
*John Mayer
*Gavin DeGraw
*Trapt
*Ashlee Simpsion
*COHEED AND CAMBRIA
*Lonestar
*Fall Out Boy
*Hilary Duff
*311
*Systen Of a Down
*Chronic Future
* The Gorillaz
* My Chemical Romance
*Fall Out Boy
*Embodyment
*Boxcar racer
* Alien Ant Farm
Songs:
*Kyrie- By Mr. Mister
*We Danced Anyway- Deana Carter
*Breathless- The Corrs*
And Much More!!
If you want to know about any of the books, movies, bands, artists, or songs, please feel free to leave one in my inbox!! Always There For Ya!!
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Feel free to ask me anything! :)I try to help as best I can! :)
*You get what you give, & everything you do comes back to you*
One night, the moon said to me " If he makes you cry, why don't you leave him?" I looked upto the moon and said, "Moon, would you ever leave the sky?"
I know there's something in the wake of your smile. I get a notion from the look in your eyes. You've built a love, but that love falls apart. Your little piece of heaven, turns to dark.Sometimes you wonder if this fight is worthwhile, the precous moments are all lost in the tide. They're swept alway, and nothing is what it seems, the feeling of belonging to your dreams.AND THERE ARE VOICES THAT WANT TO BE HEARD,so much to mention, but you can't find the words. The scent of magic, that's the beauty that's been, when love was wilder than the wind.
♥ -Kelsey- ♥
advice
theres this guy in my drama class who is really fat and is like 350 pounds and has a billion pimples all over his face that is not able to be cured. hes telling ppl that i'm his girlfriend and i'm not. plus he stalks me becasue he knows where my house is. today he went to my house and tried attacking me becuase i don't want to be with him. lately hes attacked 3 of my friends cuz hes really violent. one of them that hes had a crush on he stalked her by breaking into her house by breaking her window and bringing flowers and a boom box so he can sing to her. he tried kissing my other friend but then she refused and then he bruised her. he also ruined the birthday present that i spent alot of my time making for my best friend and so it got destroyed. he also started moving over on where i was sitting and tried to touch me and put his arm around me but then thank god before he was able to do that my friend susana yelled move outta my way!!! and i don't know what do becuse today i have to meet up with the drama group to finish a project and hes in my group and itz too late to kick him out of the group because the project is due tomorrow. and i'm just scared on what he'll do to me. hes nasty and doesn't even have a good personality.
definataely call the cops. thats horrible. and get your friends to call or go with you to the cops. and dont be goofy, each take turns talking, and make sure that you tell them everything, and bring any evidence, such as pictures or other wittnesses or parents!
thanks for letting me help you!
best of luck!
always-
Kels
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My friend got a new puppy. Its a Yorkshire Terrier and its brown and black. Its a boy and she really needs help thinking of a name for it. Can some one please help! I rate high! Thanks!
Cuddles
Rex
Riley
Yorkie (Yorky/Yorkee/Yorkii)
Terri (Terry/Terrii/Terree)
Tee Tee
Chocolate
Brownie
Chip (as in Chocolate Chip)
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Kels:)
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I graduate in 3 days, and my parents wanna know what I want for my graduation present....
Any Ideas?
i had the same problem, about what to ask for for my birthday,
here are some ideas:
gift cards to fav. stores!
gift certifercats to a spa/massage/nails and/or toes!
A lap top computer
an Ipod
a (New) Cell phone
Car?
It depends on your family, really, my parents would never buy me a car! well, anyways, i hope this helped! try to think of things that you like to do!
thanks for letting me help you!
-always there-
*KeLsEy*
K, so I've been going out with my boyfriend since 1-31-05, and lately we've kind of been like, you know, "touching". At first I was kind of like, well I dunno about this, and feeling indecisive about whether we should even be doing it, but kind of wanting to at the same time. (I'm 14, he's 15) Well now my problem is that when he touches me it feels *kind of* good at first then it just hurts. What are we doing wrong?
its because you are probably not "Wet" down there. maybe he is going to hard or using too many fingers. purchase some ky gelly or whatever its called from the store and use that, or just tel him to ease up!
thanks for letting me help you!
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How do you know when your boyfriend/girlfriend is ready to have sex? I'm ready, but I don't know how to find out if he is.
well, the easiet way is to ask him, and the key to a relationship is communication, so you two should have probably talked about it already. so just ask him!
thanks for letting me help you!
*22kelsey04*
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ok, after everytime i masterbate, i feel really, really guilty...i wounder what my girlfriend would say if she had found out, i feel like it is a complete sin, and after everytime i do that, i feel that God punishes me, but he doesnt seem to punish other people i know do it... what should i think? is it ok, or should i try to stop?? HELP!!
EDIT!!
if you are scared or whatever it is or currious enough to ask, then you probably do regret it and waht to stop! :) your a smart kid! :)
well, i know that it is a sin, and just dont tell your girlfriend but if she asks you, tell her. uh.... pray to God for forgiveness because its a sin. and just try to stop, maybe not all at once because that will be real hard. try to gradually cut back on it! it should be real easy that way!
thanks for letting me help you!
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im a very good catholic. i really feel bad if i do so much as say oh my god. anyway. i have been sort of mastribating lately. when i get horny sometimes i use a fake penis to 'have sex'. is this sinning because i wanna know if i should stop doing this. please please please help
yes it is. pray for forgiveness. Sex is for after marrage. it was a gift that God gave us to share with another person, after we are married.
thanks for letting me help you!
*22kelsey04*
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ok this is kinda weird to be asking but i had to know...If your going to tease about it dont write me... Ok here it goes
every time i get fingerd i tend to cum alot adn i was just woundering if it was normal to cum so much. and if it is normal is there a way to slow it down a little bit? Please, give me any advice.
its because you are sexual excited, you get "wet" because your insides "down there" are getting ready for sex. this helps to moisten the inside so that if you were to have sex, the penis would enter easily and it would not hurt. its okay,and i dont think there is a way to slow it down. you probably get more wet when you are thinking sexual thoughts and are more sexually excited, also, probably around the time of your perioid. before and after.
http://www.beinggirl.com
good website!
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when i have got my hands wet my nails go almost transparent and take a while to go back to the normal colour. does this mean i have a calcium defiency? if so what can i add to my diet to improve this as i already eat a fair amount of cheese and drink milk in my tea.
well, i take viactive, they are little chews, in different flavors, i take two each day. also, i take tums, there are kinds that are rich in calcuim! :)
thanks for letting me help you!
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My b/f thinks im cheating on him... but his friends are telling me he is the 1 that is going around grabbing other girls butts! should i believe them and break up with him... or should i just go on pretending like i don't notice?
talk to him about it, and tell him calmly what you've heard. I dont think your should pretend because relationships need honsety.
I hope everything works out for the best!
-always-
*24Kelsey20*
im 15 and someone told me that my boyfriend -hes 15- looks at porn..is that normal? and like he said that my bf jacks off to it, too...is this normal or bad or what? and should i be offended that i cant make him feel good enough or somethin?
yeah, a tun of guys do that, but i dont know what you should say about it, its really your own persional oppinion. and since hes your BOYFRIEND, i would be mad, being his GIRLFRIEND and all, you should probably talk to him about your feelings on the subjects, and figure something out together!
sorry i couldnt help more!
-Kelsa-
How long does it take for a symtom of an STD to show up? I just gave my boyfriend a blow job last night for the first time and now i have a sore in my mouth. Could it be an STD and should i be worried? Thanks so much.
it could, but most people get that after giving head!
When i was seven years old my mom [lets call her tina] and her friend [lets call her jenn]went away and i was left with *jenns daughter shauna at *jenns sisters house [lets call her jamie] well *jamie has a son john who was 14 at the time. Shauna was asleep and john had his friend jeff over, also 15. john made me do it with him and go to third with him and he said if i didnt then he would kill me.. is this rape? i am asking this years later because it still bothers me=/
yes, it is. you should tell your mother, and also, you should tell the police, and possibly go to councling. also, pray.
if you need anything else,please ask, and if you need anything like how to tell a guy about it, i;ll always be here for you! and i can help if you need a councler type or something!
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kelsa :)
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29 Male
I met Mary, 20 years old, about 10 months ago. We hit off and started dating. It’s been about 7 months now. Her family life is a complete mess. Her parents divorced a little over a year ago. Now, her mom hardly returns her calls and her dad quickly got re-married and now lives about 2 1/2 hours north of her. With his new life he rarely makes time for her either.
After dating for about 4 months, she visited her doctor. Her stomach was bothering her. The doctor discovered a cyst. She had tests done and that day she was diagnosed with ovarian cancer – stage one.
She refused to have a hysterectomy and started chemotherapy. After 3 weeks of chemo, its stage 3. The doctor tells her it’s terminal. She tells her dad. He asks her not tell anyone on his side of the family. Meanwhile, he never calls her to ask how she’s doing. As far as her mom goes – she hasn’t told her yet.
Three weeks ago, Mary’s doctor said she needed to stop chemo because her organs were swelling as a result of her diabetes. At this point the cancer had stopped spreading. Last week she blew off her doctor’s appointment because she needed to work to make rent. She was scheduled to restart chemo. Mary works full-time on her feet. She smokes and has a glass of wine now and then. None of which her doctor agrees with. So as a result, the cancer has started to spread again.
Watching her suffer has taken a lot out of me. More than half the week she sleeps at my apartment. And on cue in the evening her pains skyrocket. Lying in bed she twists and shakes until she passes out. All I can do is hold her. She wakes up and the pain goes another round or two until she finally falls asleep.
I don’t agree with how she’s handling her sickness. Missing doctor appointments, smoking, and drinking. Just the other day she was planning to go to the beach with friends. I told her she’s not suppose to go in the sun while on chemo; that’s when I found out she missed her doctors appointment earlier that day.
I want to be there for her, but as a friend. I do all I can so that she feels like a beautiful woman. But I might just have to just walk away. I feel like I need to do something to get her to take this illness more seriously. I’m frustrated.
What do you think?
I don't have an answer, but I will Pray for you and her, and you could do the same if you want. I wish you and her and her family the best!
please, dont rate me low, i know this isnt the best, but I believe that prayer helps a lot.
if you want to say something to me, please leave me a message in my inbox!
-Kelsa-
is a 13 year old and 15 year old realtionship wrong?
no, in 15 and my bf is 17! no worries! its fine! and i was 13 when my boyfriend was 15, and yeah, tahts the same one im with now!
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Hey, me and this girl were starting to talk one day, and shes kinda hott and shes complaing that no one will ask her out but like shes more higer on the popularity thing, and people r also saying that if i go out with her i will become more cool. we are kinda good friends, and every time were aroung eachother we like smile and stuff... so i was wondering if it would be to aukward.
I rate high!
i dont think that it would be aquward at all! beacuse, i mean you are already friends, so why not add holding hands to the whole bunch! dont just go out with her for the popularity thing. and dont worry about the "social stattus" because that doesnt matter at all in the long run. well, thanks for letting me help you!!!
always there-
Miss KelC
monday i'm going to islands of adventure in universal!!woo-hoo!!!last time i was there i saw some one got hurt on dudley do rights rip saw falls. has anyone ever been on it and came out without an injury? also, what rides would you recommend me to go on and not go on?
i just went there, and i went on that ride, and it was soo much fuN! but you get so wet! lol, so do it on a hot day, when its sunny, so you will dry quick! i loved every ride there! I LOVE roller coasters!!! they are so much fun! I also went to universal studios and that is like RIGHT by there, its got movie rides, and that was soo fun! I also went to Sea World! its pretty close about 15min! and its a tun of fun too! :) if you go- get to the shows early, and at the parks, island of adventure and universal- if you are staying there, you can use your room key as a speed line pass. and if you are not, then get one! a speed, pass it is great! and also, even if you are w/ a group of people, go on as a single rider! because i did that, and it went like in 5 minutes! :)
thanks for letting me help you!
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Kelsa :)
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Help im realy bored i do nothing all day except watch T.v and i have allready browsed the intire internet help!can you think of something to do I am realy realy bored!You may think that in exagerating but im not its realy an emergency.
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
lol try www.beinggir.com or www.bored.com or www.i-am-bored.com or try one of your favortie magazine websites. also, try to go to a game website- those are always addicting. if you have the sims, i know i cant get lost away in those games for hours. you could paint your nails/ toes or/ and try your hair in different styles. thats always fun. I do that a bunch! you could also make a little scrap book or power point of you and all of your freinds. thats also always fun. also, maybe make an xanga or something or a new buddy profile! those can take a long time!!
Well, Have fun! and I hope that you arnt too bored!
Thanks for letting me help you- if you ever need anything else, please ask!
Always There-
Kelsa :)
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is it weird if someone ((a guy)) rights a song for you ((he likes me ALOT)) and sings it to you on the phone? it seems weird to me
no! that is soooo sweet! awe, my boyfriend wrote me a song!! he hasnt sung it to me yet! but I think that is so sweet, and it takes alot of courage to too!
-Kels-
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Do you guys think it's okay to think that no matter what you do to me, if you apologize and are sincere about it, I will forgive you. That's how I've always been. I just feel that it take courage to apologize to someone after you've hurt them and if you do do it then you are truly sorry. I know sometimes people just throw around the "I'm sorry's" but most don't. Everyone makes mistakes (I know I do) and they need to be forgiven. What do you guys think of that?
thats a super smart thought! and its good! :) I agree! :) if it is sincere!
-Kels-
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