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please help!!!!


Question Posted Sunday May 15 2005, 5:15 pm

theres this guy in my drama class who is really fat and is like 350 pounds and has a billion pimples all over his face that is not able to be cured. hes telling ppl that i'm his girlfriend and i'm not. plus he stalks me becasue he knows where my house is. today he went to my house and tried attacking me becuase i don't want to be with him. lately hes attacked 3 of my friends cuz hes really violent. one of them that hes had a crush on he stalked her by breaking into her house by breaking her window and bringing flowers and a boom box so he can sing to her. he tried kissing my other friend but then she refused and then he bruised her. he also ruined the birthday present that i spent alot of my time making for my best friend and so it got destroyed. he also started moving over on where i was sitting and tried to touch me and put his arm around me but then thank god before he was able to do that my friend susana yelled move outta my way!!! and i don't know what do becuse today i have to meet up with the drama group to finish a project and hes in my group and itz too late to kick him out of the group because the project is due tomorrow. and i'm just scared on what he'll do to me. hes nasty and doesn't even have a good personality.

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Additional info, added Sunday May 15 2005, 5:21 pm:
the one that hes had a crush on she tried to get a retraining order againist him but it wasn't successful.

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iSLAND_x_KiiSS answered Friday June 24 2005, 5:13 pm:
You need to tell your parents or another trusted adult about this. It`s really serious and he sounds dangerous.. Call the police and keep trying to get a restraining order on him. Talk to your drama teacher and maybe she could talk some sense into him. Don`t use violence because then you would be just as bad as him..

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hitler_the_goat answered Tuesday May 17 2005, 10:34 pm:
the next time he tries to get at you, run in your house, but leave the door open. grab a weapon like a shotgun, knife, etc. and back yourself into a corner so he can't see the weapon. then when he comes over, open fire,
stab him, whatever works. make sure it will be a lethal hit though, cause he'll fight with the strength of ten men if you shoot him and leave him alive. perfectly legal. kill this son of a bitch.
-gunner

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karenR answered Monday May 16 2005, 1:21 am:
Tell your parents. They need to call the cops on this character. I don't know why a restraining order wasn't successful the first time but, if enough girls start complaining he will eventually get in trouble.

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Bob_the_Sword_Test_Dummy answered Monday May 16 2005, 12:03 am:
OMG 911 WE HAVE A STALKER! Tell your parents and school adminstrators and your drama teacher about this. Never be alone! Get a restraining order on him. Make sure to warn all your friends about him too.

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meGqz answered Sunday May 15 2005, 8:38 pm:
if your scared that this boy is goin to hurt you or if he has hurt you in the past but your juss not spillin .. you should think about talkin to an adult or gettin a restraining order if your that scared

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Teza answered Sunday May 15 2005, 6:48 pm:
Eww! l0l! Tell your teacher. Hes really gross and who knows what he might do to you. If its do tomoro, you will only have one more day that hes in your group and you can get through it. But seriously, tell your teacher. She can get him away from you! x0`

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FootballDancer69 answered Sunday May 15 2005, 5:58 pm:
go 2 the teacher, & if that doesnt work...go 2 the principal...there is really nothing else u can do...b/c of all of the stuff that goes on in high school....NEVER be alone...go 2 the bathroom w/ another gf....NOT BY YERSELF
talk 2 yer parents.....i dont know what else 2 tell u...
hope that helpped
*~*~*~*Emmy*~*~*~*

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Michele answered Sunday May 15 2005, 5:44 pm:
His behavior is against the law. Is the drama class a school sponsored event. Bullying and sexual harassment are against school rules. The school is REQUIRED BY LAW to do something about it. All of you have to complain. I can't believe that your friend tried to get a restraining order and it did not work. DId her parents go with her. THis boy sounds like trouble and when he grows up his behavior is not going to change it is going to get worse. YOu all have to file a complaint with the school, and tell the school, that you all plan to go to the police station to file an additional complaint with them and then follow through. People have a tendency to wait and and see what happens, and that is how people end up dead. Don't wait any longer for someone else to take care of this matter, you are all either victims or witnesses to his abominable behavior. He is going to grow up and rape and kill someone, maybe small children. Complain about him now so he can get the help he needs. Also, people like him prey on people who are weaker, smaller, and unable to defend themselves. If you all stand up against him, you will scare him off. He does not know how to deal with people who show a unified front of strength against him. Don't wait until one of your friends is hurt by him. If you ALL GO TOGETHER, the school and the police have to do something. A parent should be with you also, that would help. I know that if one of you were my daughter, I would be down at the police station and at the school complaining about this individual. I went through this when I was young, I know exactly what you mean.

I hope you follow through Stay strong, and stay together

Michele

Michele

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2cute102 answered Sunday May 15 2005, 5:43 pm:
That is really scary! Tell your drama teacher what he is doing and also your parents if you haven't already. You need to find a way to hide from him and avoid him until the teachers can get him under control!
Hope this helped!

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K2204 answered Sunday May 15 2005, 5:17 pm:
definataely call the cops. thats horrible. and get your friends to call or go with you to the cops. and dont be goofy, each take turns talking, and make sure that you tell them everything, and bring any evidence, such as pictures or other wittnesses or parents!

thanks for letting me help you!

best of luck!

always-
Kels

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