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Cheating
My b/f thinks im cheating on him... but his friends are telling me he is the 1 that is going around grabbing other girls butts! should i believe them and break up with him... or should i just go on pretending like i don't notice?
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Playing grab ass is not good behavior and should stop. I don't think that is technically cheating on you...it is very disrespectful however. Tell him to knock it off. If he thinks you're cheating in him perhaps it is a guilty concious on his part or maybe he wants you to get mad and break up with him. I think he needs a talking to. :)
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His friiends prOb wont just lie tO yOu nd he is prOb cheating on yOu freakin breaK up with that jerK! dont pre*tend like you dont notice that is sO freaKiin gaY just break uP with him!
xOx ViLLy *
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you should sit him down and talk to him. about eveything. there shouldnt be this kind of gossip in a relationship. if he is grabbing other girls buts..hello! dump him! there are soo many better guys out there who can be soo much better boyfriends. never pretend like you dont notice
hope i help
xoxo
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You havnt noticed. Your boyfriends friends have noticed. You know nothing. You have no intelligence.
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hes cheating on you...and hes prolly having sex with all those girls who let him grab their ass...my advice to you...is either kill all the other girls so he cant cheat on you anymore or kill yourself...those are the only solutions:)
have fun n rate high!
~!~nichole~!~
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Confront him with this information you've gotten from his friends... then hire a P.I. to follow him around school... lol I'm kidding about that part, unless you seriously want to do that.
Or, you could always ask his friends who he's supposedly cheating on you with... then ask the girl, or ask your boyfriend. Or ask both. When you're done talking to all of them, your intstincts should tell you what to do.
Why act like you don't notice?! You deserve a guy who will at least be faithful to you! Where's the self-esteem!?
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ask him for yourself. but it may be hard, but you should if you really want to know. or see what hes doing for yourself
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Well, either his friend likes you, wants to backstab his friend, or he really is cheating and the guy is trying to help you out. Often, if someone keeps accusing you of cheating, it is because THEY actually are. If you really think he is, dump him, otherwise stick around until you have proof.
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Well what I think is that you should trust each other. Thats how a relationship should be. It's all in the trust. Ask him if he is, and don't pretend....tell how it is. Wish you the best of luck....Take care. Peace out.
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talk to him about it, and tell him calmly what you've heard. I dont think your should pretend because relationships need honsety.
I hope everything works out for the best!
-always-
*24Kelsey20*
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I think the number one thing needed in any relationship is communication. Based on just this question, it seems as though the communication may be lacking. If I were in your shoes, I would talk to your boyfriend. Try inviting him over to hang out, just the two of you, and very casually, try to bring up the subject. Explain to him that your not cheating (I am assuming that your not) and also discuss what his friends are saying. Although, be very careful when you talk about what his friends say. Instead of outright saying, "he said, she said this about you" try telling him that you heard some things from people, and you want to make sure you understand the situation.
If all else fails, and things don't work out, remember that everything happens for a reason. Its not healthy to be in a relationship that is constantly questioning others actions. I hope I was some help and Good luck!!
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