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so i shoulden't date someone who is coming out of rehab? i mean i love him alot and i just can't turn my back on him like that but i want to do whats best for him but i want to still be with him what do i need to do? (link)
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I would think you could date the person. You just want to use some caution.
For a lot of people the rehab doesn't work if they continue with the same relationships they had prior to entering rehab.
That usually means hanging around with friends or in the places where drug/ alcohol use is still around. They need to distance themselves from people/ places where they are likely to return to the same old bad behavior.
So long as you don't fit into any of those bad behavior places, I see no reason why you can't attempt to have a relationship.
The main things for you to remember are that if the person you are talking about was into drugs/alcohol when you met them...sober they are a totally different person. He may not seem the same. He may not like you the same, and vice versa.
And the other thing is that he could relapse back into the same old behavior. So guard your heart.
Good luck. :)
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i was wondering about codes, like codes to make text bigger, italicized, bold, and things like that. But the code that i reallyy would like to know is how to change the text color! SO, if anyone could give me that code or give me a site to get that code i would realy apreciate it :] Ill rate i promise!! (link)
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Have a look at this site. It will show you the codes for the things you want and more. :)
http://htmlclinic.com/index.php
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okay there is this guy i like and a month ago he came to my party he was all over me at my party and i have only talked to him a couple times since my party and when i do talk to him its not alot i really like him and i want us to be more than just friends but i dont know how to talk to him and i dont want to be gettin on his nerves because the day after my party my friend called him without me knowing and asked him out for me and he said he would think about it sometimes i think he likes me but he doesnt really show it and i dont know how to talk to him because hes the "gangster" type and i dont want him to think im stupid .. ughh what should i do? (link)
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Just talk to him like you would any friend you know. Forget the whole, "hes the gangster type".
If he can't take you talking to him like a normal human...he isn't worth it anyway! You don't even need a boyfriend you are unable to talk to.
I would imagine that under all the exterior gangster decoration he is just a normal guy. Treat him that way and you will get along fine. :)
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hey im 14/m and im stumped. i cant thing of sweet things to say to my gf i love her to death and she thinks im the sweetest thing in the world but i like went stupid and cant think of anything else and its really bugging me can someone tell me some things so say i really need it to help me get going again. ill really appreciate it thx everyone. (link)
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You don't want to come off sounding fake.
If you guys love each other that's what counts. You don't have to say sweet things to her ALL the time. Actually, it loses its specialness when you do.
I am not saying you can't be a sweet guy all the time...that is probably your nature anyway, but telling someone they are beautiful and those kinds of things all thew time is really not necessary.
I'm not doing a real good job of explaining...Just be yourself. If you start quoting a bunch of mushy stuff all the time, it will just sound kind of weird, you know? Say sweet things when the time is right. Some things are worth repeating so don't worry about saying something different all the time. :)
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I guy that I'm friends with and was hoping we'd be an item one day had to move a couple of months ago for a job. He gave me his old computer just before he left so that we could contact each other. This was 4 months ago. Everytime I send him an email it gets returned. I phoned him 2 months ago around Xmas time and asked him about this. He said his internet wasnt hooked up yet. Fair Enough. Then he said he'd phone me later that month. He never did. I still had his cell phone number, and tried phoning him today to find out if his internet was hooked up yet. Well was I ever shocked to learn that his cell phone is now out of service. So now I have no way to contact him.
Does anyone else find this strange? Why would he give me his computer, but then never get his internet hooked up? And wouldnt you think he would have the courtesy to tell me that he was shutting of his cell phone so I wouldnt worry? What should I do? (link)
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Move on.
I know it will be hard to do but it has been 4 months. If he were still interested he would have contacted you some way.
Don't waste any more of your life waiting on a guy who would treat you this way. :)
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I babysit my niece and nephew once a week and when I do they won't listen to a word I say what do I do? (link)
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This will sound a bit harsh to some but I will tell you what my son does with his misbehavers. They will soon listen, believe me.
He calls it boot camp daycare.
They misbehave or don't listen, make them lie down on their backs. Make them lift their legs off the ground and keep them there...until you say put them down. The leg lifts will be good exercise for them but when they start getting heavy they will change their tune.
They may at first laugh and think its great. Let them think that. Those little legs will get tired soon.
Nexy time they act up just ask if they want some more boot camp. Shouldn't take many times before they start listening the first time. :)
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What does cached mean? Like what does it do? You know when you search for something on Yahoo and next the the link of whatever your searching it says cache. I just wanna know what does it do and it is good or bad (link)
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A cache is a hiding place. So, if something is cached it means it is hidden. :)
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I have a friend who's family is a friend of my family and they lost their dad today. The doctors gave him 2 hours-2 days on Monday. He died this afternoon.
My parents are over at their house right now and they told me to come when they call. That sould be in like an hour or so.
Well, I'm not sure what I should talk to my friend about. Should I talk about her dad or not? (link)
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You tell her how very bad you feel for her loss and then let her talk about whatever she wants to talk about. Listen and be there for her. That's the best thing you can do right now.
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ok! so i was goingout with this guy that i like LOVED and then he cheated on me and we broke up. He begged me to go back out with him and i said yes, i love him so much and he was being really sweet and stuff. its long distance and i love him but i want to get with other guys... what do i do?! (link)
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You tell him you still want to be friends. Message each other and all that if you want to.
But, since you live so far apart it really just isn't fair to either of you to consider yourselves Boyfriend/girlfriend.
You never know what the future has in store for you. Right now though you need to be able to go to school dances and all that fun stuff with someone closer to home.
Good luck! :)
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Well like 3 weeks ago i told this boy i liked him alot. Ive liked him since july so quite a long time. At the time i told him he told me he had a girlfriend i was like ohk. Well like a week later that realtionship was over. But he hasnt told mee yet. I had found out by a friend. Im just wondering has he not told me because he has no interest in me or he isnt over his ex yet?
--We go to the same church and thats the only time i really see him we dont talk alot at church we talk alot more online.
--HE was standing right next to me at chruch and all i wanted to do was hug him but i didnt.
--what do you think i should do? I dont want to sound desperate so dont tell me to tell him that its ruining me or anything i dont love him, i like him alot.
17/f
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Start talking. At church as well as online.
Let him know you are still interested.
It may be he needs time to get over his girlfriend first. Have some patience but do let him know you like him by talking to him and smiling at him whenever you get a chance. :)
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Alright, I have this guy friend that I met at work, and we started hanging out alot. He would call most evenings and we would either go to eat or hang out at his place, whatever. This went on for a few months, and alot of people at work assumed we were dating since we always were together, and showed up at work together all the time. I liked him alot, but I could never read how he felt towards me. I mean, he wasn't afraid to let other people know he didn't care to hang out with them, so if he didn't want to hang out, he would have definately said so, he is pretty forthright like that. We always had a lot of fun together, and I felt very safe with him. He never let me pay for anything when we went out, so it seemed like they were dates, but we never hooked up or anything like that, we were just generally affectionate towards each other, like hugs or holding hands, stuff like that. I always thought was kind of odd that he never tried to kiss me, its not like we're in middle school, we're both in college, and he's not a shy kind of boy. But at at the same time I thought it was kind of sweet and kind of like old fashioned courting. But anyways, that wasnt the problem... suddenly he just stopped calling, and wouldn't return any of my phone calls. I don't see him at work anymore, though we usually had pretty different schedules anyways. I haven't heard from him in over a month and a half or seen him, and I am kind of worried. I can't think of anything I did wrong, but maybe I made him angry somehow? Its like suddenly I don't even exist to him, and I can't even ask him whats wrong because he won't answer. I stopped trying to call after I left him like 3 voicemails after not trying hearing from him the first week. So, I guess my question is, what should I do? I could give you more details on the situation, but I don't want to make this excessively long. (link)
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I think if your able you should try to meet up with him at your place of work. Just tell him if he doesn't want to see you anymore that's fine but you would like to know what happened.
Since everything seems to have been going very good between you two his behavior really doesn't make a lot of sense. I can understand why you would be concerned.
There is the possibility that he is gay. Maybe he felt you were getting feelings for him and he didn't know how to say anything.
The possibilities are endless. You won't know until you ask him about it. If all else fails maybe you could ask a fellow employee who works with him. Have them find out why he refuses to answer your calls or talk to you.
I hope you find some answers soon. Good luck. :)
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My friend has been taking pills that some, or many of you, are familiar with. The street name are "triple c's" or "skittles". I think theyre called 'Coridicin Cold and Cough' or something, and what gives people their 'high' is the dextrophine or something close called that. Well, She steals them out of walgreen every day and swallows about 16 of them every day or every other day. I, myself, have only taken 6 in my life and I learned it was a very stupid decision and that I will never take them again! But my friend on the other hand, I think, is becoming very dependent on them. Shes been doing this for about a month or two, every day taking more. She keeps telling me and herself that she'll stop but she just won't. She is my best friend and im really concerned about her health and what permanent effects these pills can have on her. So what i need is some info and/or sites that give me the dangers, etc. of taking these pills. Thank you guys so much i want to help her. (link)
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Here you go. Hope they help your friend out. If she continues you need to tell her mom. If you really want an eye opener for her, tell Walgreen's what shes up to and let them catch her at it. That's pretty drastic but it may take drastic. Anything is better than a funeral.
Good luck. :)
http://www.egetgoing.com/drug_rehab/cough_preparations.asp
http://kidshealth.org/parent/system/medicine/cough_cold_medicine_abuse.html
http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/medicalnews.php?newsid=5072
http://www.usdoj.gov/ndic/pubs11/11563/#Abuse
http://www.gdcada.org/statistics/dxm.htm
http://www.stopaddiction.com/narconon_drugs_dxm.html
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My toes on my right most of the time, and some times left, feet get numb alot, even when its not cold! & I dont know what could be causing it. I take concerta (ritalin) for my narcolepsy problem, but ive been getting this for a couple months now (the toe numbness)..so does anyone have any idea what could be causing this? Im also 16/f and i'm always under stress b/c of family and school problems and such but i dont think that could be it? Ideas?! Thanks! (link)
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Wearing your shoes to tight can cause toe numbness. Or possibly socks that cause your toes to get all bunched together.
If you don't think that could be the problem then you may want to check with your doctor. Medicines can cause all sorts of reactions. They don't have to be there from the beginning either. :)
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well im going out with this one girl and her best freind told me that she told her that she dont really like me shes just going out with me to have a boyfriend.She said she liked me before and they would be talking on the phone and she would say i love him soo much and the girl im going out with said ew!!! how can you go out with him and she said she said mean things about me...i dont know who to believe.....what should i do??? (link)
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Ask her if its true.
Someone is lying. Her friend may just be trying to break you guys up. But, if it is true then you need to find a girlfriend who likes you. :)
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One of my friends and I have are having this argument. She insists on talking about my sexual orientation. It doesn't bother me that she talks about it, with myself or with others, but she insists on labeling me a 'bisexual'.
She says it's just a word everyone understands and I should accept it as a descriptor. I admit it's a pretty accurate description of me but I still don't like the label and I can't identify with all the bullshit and connotations attached to it. It wouldn't bother me so much if I was single, but because I'm with someone people seem to hear bisexual and think 'easy' or that I'm up for a threesome and such stupidity.
Is she right in using a word just cause it's easily understood by most people or can I put my foot down because I don't like it? (link)
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If you don't like it put your foot down.
I personally think a persons sex life should be their own and not something to make conversation about anyway. I mean I suppose you can talk about it with your very best friend or something but it seems everyone has to make it such a big deal these days!
You are who you are and there is no need for other people to need a description is there? Unless you have or would like to have a relationship with them.
Politely tell your friend that you'd appreciate it if she would stop labeling you because of your sexuality and just describe you as a good person instead. :)
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okay so ive liked this guy for a loooong time, and well his friends always joke and say "stop flirting with your girlfriend" and "okay we're here to play basketball not flirt with brittany!" and i want to know if they are just teasing or theres some truth beneath all that.. how can i get him to honestly tell me if he likes me without throwing myself out there and seeming all desperate? please help (link)
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You won't seem desperate if next time the friends say those things...Just ask him real sweetly, why are they saying those things? Are you flirting with me?
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can anyone tell me something about appendicitis like how they felt before they got it what some symptoms were and if you got surgery what it was like..what they did and how long recovery was...only respond if you have personal knowledge ive seen weebsites before dont post any. thanks! (link)
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Here is a web site that has all the information you could want on appendicitis and its symptoms.:)
********oh crap! I deserved the one. I must have been in outerspace. Here is the link I meant to give you. :)
http://www.cnn.com/HEALTH/library/DS/00274.html
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I've been dating this guy on and off since I've known him.We're best friends and spend all of our time together.
I love him ver much. He loves me too, and cares about me just as much as I care about him.
He lost his job in December because of a car wreck. Since then, I've been going out of my way to help him with just about everything. I buy him cigarettes,gas, beer and food. I've taken him to concerts, free of charge. I'm going to give him my drum set because he likes to play it and wants to really get good at the drums. I make him mixed cds. I e-mail him when he's down to help him cheer up. I buy him awesome Christmas and birthday presents. And actually, I really don't mind doing this for him. I love him and I want him to be happy.
The problem: He says "Thank you", but that's it. I feel like I'm being taken advantage of. And I just found out that he sent a girl that he used to date an E-card because he hasn't talked to her in a long time. Okay, so maybe that shouldn't really matter, but it does because all I want is to know that I matter to him. That's all. He'll go out of his way to do something for her and he hasn't seen her in about a year. I want him to appreciate me and want me around. He usually doesn't even call; I call him.
Should I talk to him about it?
Should I just stop being upset and forget it?
How can I make him see all that I do for him and make him appreciate me?
Please help me. I'll rate high.
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You are making it so easy for him to do nothing.
I know you love the guy, but you need to make it a little more unpleasant to be unemployed!
You can feed him. Everything else...let him figure out how to get it.
Make him go do him own applications. He can go to the place that's hiring and fill the form out there. Turn it right back in. When a person seems eager to work they are more likely to be hired. I have hired people before and I can tell you this for sure, if someone else is doing all the leg work the application will be ignored.
Its nice for you to do all these wonderful things for the guy. But, you are not helping him at all. Not in finding work anyway.
So talk to him. Tell him you love him to pieces but you aren't working to support him. Start it now and it will become an even more unpleasant habit.
Good luck and be tough! :)
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i have ad-aware SE and i have to option to either quarentine all the critical objects to to send them all to the ignore list.. which one is better for my computer, send them to the ignore list or quarentine them? and also, what is the difference?
thanks, i will rate 5's if you help (link)
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I agree with russianspy. I always just delete them. I'm not sure what good quarantining them does...I always imagine them staying on the computer. If you ignore them nothing happens to them. You are basically telling the program to ignore them next time they come across them on your computer.
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Sorry this will be long but I'LL RATE!...
Well I'm going to my friends house this week end where the guy I like will be there two and the 3 of use are gunna jut hang out, and this morning (2/28/06) and I'm going over there this Saturday and I'm fine being there with my period and all I'll just go to the bathroom every 4-5 hours, he'll think I'm weird but o well. And she asked me to spend the night and I never gave her an answer because I've never spent the night at a friends house while I was on my period (I'm 14) and I don't know because if the flow is heavy then I def. don't want to cause while I'm sleeping it might bleed through (I use a pad becaues I can't wake up ever 5-6 hours to change a tampon) and I don't know weather or not my flow Saturday night will be heavy or not and I REALLY wanna spend the basically then week end with my friends and the guy I like because he goes to another school than I do and I don't see him very much. So I don't know what to do at all, all I know is that I'm going over there Saturday day but I don't know if I should spend the night or night I want to but I scared to with my period and all and not knowing weather it will be heavy or not cause if it's not I'll sleep over cause there won't be alot of blood and shouldn't bleed through. So someone please give me so adivce on what to cause I'm totally clueless....once again sorry for the length (link)
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You might try some overnights. I don't know for sure who makes them, it may be always.
They are called Overnights and they are longer and are made for the times when lying down and gravity like to cause a mess! They work very well.
If you can find those staying over shouldn't be a problem. Oh, and no need to get up in the night. :)
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