hey im 14/m and im stumped. i cant thing of sweet things to say to my gf i love her to death and she thinks im the sweetest thing in the world but i like went stupid and cant think of anything else and its really bugging me can someone tell me some things so say i really need it to help me get going again. ill really appreciate it thx everyone.
also, heres a quote to help you out that every girl i know (including me) LOVES!
"tell her you admire her. always tell her you love her at all times. when shes upset hold her tight. pick her over all the other girls you hang out with. play with her hair. pick her up. tickle her and wrestle with her. just talk to her. tell her jokes. bring her flowers just because. hold her hand and run. just hold her hand. throw pebbles at her window at night. let her fall asleep in your arms. sing to her no matter how awful you sound. get her mad at you. then kiss her. give her piggy back rides. push her on swings. tell her she looks beautiful. when shes sad, stay on the phone with her, even if shes not saying anything. look into her eyes and smile. kiss her on her forehead. slow dance with her even if there's no music. kiss her in the rain. and when you fall in love with her... TELL HER."
p8ntballkt answered Thursday March 2 2006, 7:37 pm: so im in an amazing relationship, and something that my boyfriend does, is even if i've been with him at his house all day, right when i go to get into bed and no matter how late it is he'll call my cell phone, just to say i love you. thats it. and when we lay in his bed, he'll just stare at me and just tell me he loves looking at me, and say beautiful, never HOTT...girls hate it..i agree with the last person. not that gifts are all that important, but every now and then to be spontaneous get her a rose or some cute little card or something as simple as a letter. girls love it when your real and straight forward all the time. something really cute would be to take her outside and just lay on a blanket and look at the stars. any girl would like that. i hope i gave u some good advice. good luck!!
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christina answered Thursday March 2 2006, 4:47 pm: You should tell her what comes from your heart.
You shouldn't have to come here for sweet things to say. If you love her to death, then you shouldn't have to do this.
xoxKiissMe22xox answered Thursday March 2 2006, 11:04 am: ok girls love it when you call them beautiful not HOTT! also tell her that she means the world to u and that you wouldnt be able to live wit out her ... but really i think you shoudl tell her wats in ur heart not whwat others tell u!!
VanityScore answered Thursday March 2 2006, 10:36 am: I don't think sweet sayings mean much. You should show her that you care if you want to impress her.
Do something sweet for her, it means a lot more. For example, my boyfriend ran to my house from school (three miles) one day to see me, he took my family out to dinner for my Dad's birthday, when we didn't buy tickets to the dance, he gave me an earpiece from his i-pod and we slow-danced to our song. For Valentine's Day, I got a charm bracelet and a silver-tabby kitten to replace Rili (my old, dead silver-tabby cat), on our two year anniversary he gave me a promise ring in the park next to the school we met, and got down on one knee and everything... my one friend begged him to write a book on his ideas, so she could give it to her boyfriend.
karenR answered Thursday March 2 2006, 7:16 am: You don't want to come off sounding fake.
If you guys love each other that's what counts. You don't have to say sweet things to her ALL the time. Actually, it loses its specialness when you do.
I am not saying you can't be a sweet guy all the time...that is probably your nature anyway, but telling someone they are beautiful and those kinds of things all thew time is really not necessary.
I'm not doing a real good job of explaining...Just be yourself. If you start quoting a bunch of mushy stuff all the time, it will just sound kind of weird, you know? Say sweet things when the time is right. Some things are worth repeating so don't worry about saying something different all the time. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
u_can_trust_me answered Wednesday March 1 2006, 11:05 pm: i have the perfect thing when you see her wherever u see her go right up to her tell her "i just wanted you to know that if i ever met any other girl they wouldnt come close to you;your like my angel not mention you look like one to and then give her that charming smile girls just seem to fall inlove with. you might wanna try gettin her a teddy bear or if you walk home together find a flower to give to her ,chics go wild for this stuff [ u_can_trust_me's advice column | Ask u_can_trust_me A Question ]
vilelove answered Wednesday March 1 2006, 7:23 pm: Hey. You love her to death? That's cute. Have you told her that? (even "I like you a lot" would sound sweet as long as it was sincere) It's the kind of thing that it helps to be yourself. And not the you that is afraid of sounding courney or fruity or dumb. The you that just speaks out your mind. But since you're asking for advice I should probably give you other advice because you probably already know that it helps to be yourself freely and speak every small thing in your mind. When you see her and she lokes retty tell her. Tell her she's the prettiest girl in the school. Point out the things about her you like (looks and personality). It would be nice if you wrote her a poem. If you don't think you're good or have difficulty writing poetry, don't worry about it. The fact that you tried extra hard and put more effort in it makes it cuter. But if you don't want to write a poem period you can dedicate a poem already written by someone else to her. OR you can quote a song or something. If you know how to play guitar or something it would be cute if you played something for her. Those are just other ideas but back to what you can SAY. Just remind her that she's beautiful and how much you care about her. Tell her that you've been thinking about her and that you miss her and how much she means to you. If it's sincere it'll be cute. Just don't stress about it because it sounds like she likes you/LOVES you a lot as it is. [ vilelove's advice column | Ask vilelove A Question ]
Erinn_the_bamf answered Wednesday March 1 2006, 6:30 pm: Say "Hey can I borrow a quarter? I need to go call my mom and tell her I met the love of my life."
"Did it hurt? Her: did what hurt? You: when you fell from heaven."
"Can you give me CPR? Her: why? You: because you just took my breathe away."
kristen22 answered Wednesday March 1 2006, 5:12 pm: Hmm Im trying to think of all the things my boyfriend says to me...Hmm In the morning when we wake up and I look like a bum, he looks at me and says Good Morning beautiful lol but that wouldnt work for you cuz yall dont spend the night with each other. Comment her on the way she smells, or tell her that her hair smells good or her outfit is pretty or just stare at her and wait for her to be like WHAT!! and you say nothing, your just gorgeous!! I LOVE WHEN MY BF SAYS THAT TO ME!!! Good Luck!!! [ kristen22's advice column | Ask kristen22 A Question ]
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