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dont kno what to do
13/f
sry if this is long :/ ill rate
k, so me and this girl lex were bffs since 2nd grade (were in 7th grade now). last summer this girl shayla moved in across the street. we were immediatly friends. when school started the 3 of us were all friends and did stuff together all the time. but then near the end of 6th grade and this past summer, they started always doing stuff without me all the time and lying to me. and then in sept, shayla imed me and was like, "you're sucha loser i hate you dont talk to me" so i figured lex would back me up, but it turns out she was with her the whole time, going along with it.(shayla told lex i talked about her all the time, which was a COMPLETE lie) soo now im not friends with them. they're really popular this year and best friends and have all their popular friends. but lex told my sister she misses me and wants to be friends again cuz shayla admitted to her that she was lyin the whole time about me talking about her and feels bad. and i miss her too and wanna be friends but its soo complicated because they're with their new popular friends now and i know that if we were friends again it wouldnt be the same. but still, i miss her and get really sad when i think about all the mems...i mean, come on, we were bffs for 6 years. well i have no idea what to do, so plzz help ! thanks <33
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you just described my friends i want you to know to no matter how bad you feel theirs people out their going through the same thing . i know how bad you wish you could be friends with her but like you said it will never be the same maybe even though you miss her you could slowly become friends tell her taht you dont want yalls friendship to end how it did before
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If she really wants to be your friend she wouldn`t worry about her new popular friends.
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become her friend again!talk about the memories and she'll remeber all the good times and how it used to be!! become friends with her friends and everythinggggg =] think of this as a new start and it doesnt matter that she changed,she misses you,so obviously she remebers how things were!! i think you'll be popular to if you become friends...and im not saying that popularity is the issue,i doubt that you care about being popular (because your cool like that =P) i'd say-yes become friends with lex and talk a lot,jave fun!! and shayla will come to you,and hopfully she'll say sorry,but she already confessed so thats a good thing.act like nothing bad happend between you and lex,like you were best friends with her and nothing split you apart! =D
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Try becoming friends again it might not be the same but you will be happy because she is your friend again and it might acutally be the same again and maybe better jsut talk to her on aim or in school and it will be better i hope
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You should really try to be friends with her again. If you both miss each other then it could still work out. It could still be the same because you've been through so much together. Just start talking to her at school and tell her you want to be friends again.
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Well i think you should still attempt to be friends with her. Your right it probably wont be the same, but at least youll be talking again. Also ask shayla why she would do soemthing like that and get the explanation. Cait ♥
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